From the point of view that you gave to me I thing chou hour is suitable because:

Hi SilverW4ter, I disagree.  Zi hour suits you better.  The charts are reposted below.  And here is my analysis:

2. I thing I don't have any authority in Zi rat hour as you said to me before that people will listen to me because my son sometimes forgot to do what I already told to him for example to make homework, assignment etc instead he just playing games and watch movies even if he loves me very much but the good news is sometimes he listen to me.

Ji Day combines with Jia Authority, but Mao Day breaks Zi.  Jia Zi is seen as one pillar.  Combination and breakage (punishment) are contradicting.  This contradiction leads to lack of authority. 

Lacking authority with who?  The Hour Pillar represents children, and also subordinates as you wrote on point no. 3

3. and also my subordinate rarely listen what i said, they just only say yes yes yes but then forgot what I said but if I angry they will listen and do it, well it is make me tired why if I talk nicely to people they don't want listen it and believe.

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4. I thing I survival type because when pandemic in 2020 I always use masker everywhere even in workspace, ask my family to not go anywhere during pandemic etc I feel just like over protective.

The Zi hour combines with Shen hour.  This combination encloses Mao Day. 
Mao Day is spouse palace, so it represents your wife.  Mao is also Child Star, so it also represents your son. 
Enclosing often leads to over-protection, especially since there is the also "constant threat" from You Rooster clashing this Mao.  End result: wife and child are sometimes over-protected.

With the Zi hour, you also like to stay at home, while it's not so with the Chou hour. 

Hi JiYou, that's right, in Mangpai they do not transform.  Elementally, all Six Combinations do not transform.  Wu remains Fire, while Wei remains Earth.  Since Wei is seen as dry Earth, Wei can get further strengthened by Wu as Fire. 

Zi-Chou combination:  Zi remains Water, while Chou remains wet Earth.  They join hands together in the combination, and contribute Qi for each other, but in Mangpai we don't see both as changing or transforming to Earth.  Therefore, Zi doesn't lose its Water nature. 

As for the work process that JiYou mentioned, there are conditions for a combination to become a work process.  But that's a separate topic

If there's a Wu-Wei combo that can possibly be transformed into Earth, here is an example: https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&n=NKES&y=1988&m=7&d=3&h=%3F&g=-5&l=-85.6024&s=1&city1=-85.6024%7Cmichigan&ds=1&src=2&mid=51947

The chart owner is Nicole Kessinger.

This one is Johnny Depp: https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&n=Depp%2C+Johnny&y=1963&m=6&d=9&h=08%3A44&g=-6&l=-87.07&lon=21.3069

I'm sure Wu-Wei either transformed into fire or produced more fire, leaving earth intact at the month branch. So it's either wealth follower type or mixed follower type (wealth and power).

coldpillow, hi.  Which chart are you talking about?  Are you talking about Johny Depp?  But there is no Earth at the Month Branch.

Hi All,

Let's talk about Wu-Wei combination

H          D         M        Y

Ding    Ren        X         X
Wei      Zi        Shen     Wu

Let's try with this (real) chart.  Male Ren Daymaster.   What do you think about the Wu-Wei combination in this chart? 
1)  Do they transform to Fire?
2)  Do they transform to Earth?
3)  Do they not transform?

Just my observation without looking at the hexagram. Your question was “if it was favorable to go swimming in the sea”.
This is based on your concerns:
1) I doubted if the sea was in bathing conditions or not.
2) If I would enjoy it.

I don't know if it matters or not, but I tend to think your query is based on two somewhat unrelated concerns.
The Hudson River (in New York) used to have raw sewage and industrial waste in it, but people still used to enjoyed swimming in it.

Sacrar, good point by ren.  And another remark of mine without looking at the hexagram: the main question is #2.  Why so?  Simply because the first sentence says "if it was favorable to go swimming in the sea". 

there is no water 癸 or 壬 at the stem, so in other words, 庚 got no work done. if there is 癸 or 壬 at stem, the situation would have been better
even if it is Live wood?

Yes, with Gui or Ren Stem, the chart would have been significantly better

Hi JLim, thank you for the reply.

Birth date: 10 Dec 1987

Hi Sadsagi, you were born on the exact same date as this gentleman:

Hi,
I am new on this forum
I want an opinion about my chart-this chart-10 december 1987 8 :10 am

bing gui ren ding
chen si  zi  mao

Difference in gender, birth hour and country of origin.

I appreciate that Gmuli has lent you a big hand in analyzing your chart