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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Can you tell if someone was born with spiritual ability from their birth chart?
« on: March 13, 2026, 03:42:25 PM »
Thank you @smsek , this is really helpful and will definitely help my relative to anticipate how to handle her spiritual ability in the future.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Can you tell if someone was born with spiritual ability from their birth chart?
« on: March 13, 2026, 01:36:01 AM »Quote
Would you like me to look at how these spiritual markers might influence their personality or career path as they grow older?
Thank you @smsek for your thorough reading. That would be amazing if i can please know how these will influence her.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Can you tell if someone was born with spiritual ability from their birth chart?
« on: March 11, 2026, 05:45:09 AM »
Hi,
I'm wondering if you can tell if someone was born with spiritual ability, e.g. being a psychic etc. I've attached the chart for this baby.
Thank you.
I'm wondering if you can tell if someone was born with spiritual ability, e.g. being a psychic etc. I've attached the chart for this baby.
Thank you.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Career and love life reading for 2026
« on: March 03, 2026, 01:36:02 PM »5
FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Career and love life reading for 2026
« on: February 27, 2026, 06:07:01 PM »How do I tell the difference between the subconscious rejecting a path.
You notice a pattern of failure/disappointment and you seem to invite enemies/bullies like a magnet. Simply pushing for hard work doesn't lead to that.
You may try using ChatGPT to help you pinpoint the root cause. Once you see the dark side of your psyche clearly, all the hidden flaws, the pattern will break and you will gradually feel more aligned than conflicted in life.
As per ZWDS, I suspect that safety and stability isn't suitable for you. You should try another path that is more dynamic/unstable but the reward is bigger.
Aside from instability and changes, your career should involve a lot of movement/traveling, interacting with foreigners overseas, moving away from your parents/hometown.
@coldpillow
Interestingly I don't live in my home country, I have been living in Australia and live here in the past 20 years or so. So the bully bosses happened while I have been away from my hometown/parents for quite some time. Does that mean Australia is not the right place for me to be? Or perhaps I should just move from working in corporate and be a consultant instead?
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Career and love life reading for 2026
« on: February 27, 2026, 03:59:09 PM »Hi @smsek,===>In Bazi, the timing of a new role is determined by when the "Power" stars (Water, for you) or "Wealth" stars (Metal) are most active and supported.
Thank you so much for your reply and the detailed analysis. I'm really glad to hear that this year looks to be more stable for me.
About my Day Master, I noticed a slight discrepancy. I previously plotted my chart using the Joey Yap calculator, which identified my Day Master as Yin Wood (Yi). Could you please help me clarify if it is actually Yang Fire (Bing) instead? I want to make sure I'm following your insights correctly.QuoteWould you like me to look at the specific months in 2026 that are most favorable for you to sign a new employment contract?That would be wonderful. I'd love to know which months in 2026 would be the most auspicious for signing a new contract.
Thank you again for your time and guidance!
Since 2026 is a **Bing Wu (Fire Horse)** year, the energy is very fast-paced and "hot." For a Bing Fire person like yourself, this can feel like a rush of adrenaline, which is great for a job hunt but requires careful timing to avoid another "burnout" role.
Here are your most favorable months in 2026 to sign a contract and start fresh:
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### 1. The "Peak Opportunity" Window: April & May
These two months are your strongest periods for career authority.
* **April (Ren Chen - Dragon Month):** * **Why:** *Ren Water* is your "7 Killings" star, which represents new, sudden, or non-traditional job opportunities. Since you already have *Chen* in your Day Pillar, this month triggers a "movement" in your personal space.
* **Best for:** Finding a role that is different from what you did before?perhaps a slightly different industry or a role with more autonomy.
* **May (Gui Si - Snake Month):** * **Why:** *Gui Water* is your "Direct Officer" star. This is the energy of stable, reputable companies and traditional management.
* **Best for:** Signing a formal, long-term contract. This month provides the "correct" authority energy that you felt was lacking or toxic in the past.
### 2. The "Financial Security" Window: August & September
If you spend the first half of the year resting and being selective, these months focus on the "Metal" element (your Wealth).
* **August (Bing Shen) & September (Ding You):** * **Why:** These months bring strong Metal energy. Since you were born in a *You* (Rooster) year and hour, these months resonate with your "Wealth Palace."
* **Best for:** Negotiating a higher salary or a role with a significant bonus structure.
### 3. The "Stable Foundation" Window: November
* **November (Ji Hai - Pig Month):**
* **Why:** The *Hai* (Pig) is a Water branch that provides a "root" for your career. It also harmonizes with your chart to dampen the "Fire" of 2026, making the environment feel less chaotic.
* **Best for:** A role where you want to stay for many years.
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### Strategic Advice for the "Toxic Boss" Pattern
To break the cycle of "threatened" bosses, use the **Earth** in your chart as a bridge rather than a weapon.
* **The "Metal" Shield:** In your interviews, focus heavily on **tangible results and systems** (Metal). Earth (your talent) produces Metal (value). If you present yourself as a "Value Creator" rather than just a "Problem Solver," bosses feel you are an asset to their own success rather than a threat to their position.
* **Avoid June (Jia Wu):** This is a "Double Horse" month. It clashes with your Luck Pillar and creates "Self-Punishment" energy. Avoid making major life decisions or signing contracts between **June 6 and July 6, 2026**, as the environment is likely to be high-stress and competitive.
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### Summary Table: 2026 Career Timing
| Period | Energy | Recommendation |
| --- | --- | --- |
| **April 5 ? May 4** | New/Dynamic Career Star | Best for "The Big Pivot" |
| **May 5 ? June 5** | Stable Authority Star | **Best for signing a formal contract** |
| **Aug 7 ? Oct 7** | Wealth & Recognition | Best for high-salary negotiations |
| **June 6 ? July 6** | High Stress/Clash | **Rest month; avoid major commitments** |
**Would you like me to use your Qi Men Dun Jia chart to see which direction (North, South, etc.) you should look for your next office to find a more supportive manager?**
I really appreciate your insights, @smsek. I have a quick question about my Day Master, since we confirmed I am Yi Wood, the analysis still points to me as a Bing Fire person, does it still hold true for my chart? I'd love to understand how those elements interact with my Yi Wood day master. Thank you again.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Career and love life reading for 2026
« on: February 27, 2026, 03:54:30 PM »
What I struggle to understand is why this pattern keeps repeating. I've never had any intention of competing with or threatening my managers, especially in 2025. I simply wanted to do my work well and earn an honest living. Yet somehow, I've often felt singled out or pushed aside. I'm really tired to the point I feel like giving up, however I have no choice but to push through as I am still single, hence no safety net and have family depending on me and bills to pay. I would like to understand what might be behind the repeating pattern.
According to ZWDS, you do have a problem in career sector: https://destinyandluck.com/zhi_wei_chart.php?month=7&day=25&year=1985&time=5%3A00pm+to+6%3A59pm&sex=Female&submit=Submit
Taiyang and Jumen are related to fame/recognition, but they don't like to see Dikong and Tuoluo, which indicate resentment, gossip, lack/loss of something.
The situation in your career sector is also consistent with the stars in your wealth/happiness sector. Because your wealth sector doesn't have a major/minor star, it will get influenced by the opposite sector (happiness). Bright Tiantong + Taiyin are good to have, but when paired with Huoxing + Huaji, this means conflict/anger issues and hard work.
Metaphysics aside, your problem should be approached from the psychological angle too. If you have some kind of inner conflict, such as doing something you don't like, not being true to your own calling, but you forced to make it work because of money or family pressure, then you would feel as if the world is conspiring against you. Not aligning with you.
The inner voice inside your subconscious mind rejects that path, so it keeps blocking you from moving forward. In reality, you will see a pattern of failures. Lack of reward, difficult competition, money loss, illnesses or bullying. The cycle will never stop until you look inward and listen to the inner voice.
Thank you @coldpillow for such a nuanced take. Since my Career house has that Di Kong energy, do you see any specific unconventional paths in my chart that would satisfy my inner voice while minimising the gossip/resentment stars?
I?m also curious, when you look at a chart with these specific 'conflict' stars (Huo Xing/Hua Ji) balanced against the 'recognition' stars (Taiyang/Jumen), do you see a specific type of true calling that the chart is trying to point toward? How do I tell the difference between the subconscious rejecting a path and simply pushing through the hard work required for success?
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Career and love life reading for 2026
« on: February 27, 2026, 07:16:21 AM »
Hi @smsek,
Thank you so much for your reply and the detailed analysis. I'm really glad to hear that this year looks to be more stable for me.
About my Day Master, I noticed a slight discrepancy. I previously plotted my chart using the Joey Yap calculator, which identified my Day Master as Yin Wood (Yi). Could you please help me clarify if it is actually Yang Fire (Bing) instead? I want to make sure I'm following your insights correctly.
Thank you again for your time and guidance!
Thank you so much for your reply and the detailed analysis. I'm really glad to hear that this year looks to be more stable for me.
About my Day Master, I noticed a slight discrepancy. I previously plotted my chart using the Joey Yap calculator, which identified my Day Master as Yin Wood (Yi). Could you please help me clarify if it is actually Yang Fire (Bing) instead? I want to make sure I'm following your insights correctly.
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Would you like me to look at the specific months in 2026 that are most favorable for you to sign a new employment contract?That would be wonderful. I'd love to know which months in 2026 would be the most auspicious for signing a new contract.
Thank you again for your time and guidance!
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FREE Life Reading Request / Career and love life reading for 2026
« on: February 26, 2026, 05:32:08 PM »
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Business, career and love life this year
« on: July 05, 2025, 05:17:32 PM »[Hidden post: You need reply to this topic to see it.]
What does seal do for me? And also how is my chart a good new for @Korobokle ?
In terms of "Gui water and You metal permanently fixed in natal chart. Resource, wealth and robbery don't fight each other. Output and power don't fight each other. " Does that mean my wealth trajectory will be doing good?
Good news for korobokle because his next LP will be all water and metal, which he lacks in natal chart (unlike yours).
Seal is used to transform pressure/danger into authority (when paired with DO/7K) and support a weak DM.
The most important thing is wealth doesn't fight with seal, strong or weak.
This is another good variation: https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&y=1934&m=2&d=3&h=23%3A30&g=0&l=0
His favorable elements are stronger than yours and more concentrated in early life LPs. That also means his unfavorable elements (wealth and output) are more concentrated in later life LPs.
His wealth trajectory is much better during productive age, but slows down a lot during retirement age (fire and earth LP).
Your favorable elements are not as strong and concentrated in LPs. Wealth trajectory is consistently better throughout your entire life, followed by consistent ups and downs too.
I hope things are better for him, perhaps his good noble people can come up and give him support.
Funny thing with my ups and downs, the older I get, I feel tired of it but I got used to it. I think just reading my chart, the seal you mentioned, helped me to be more resillient and not breaking when facing stress.
Glad to hear my wealth trajectory is consistently better. Hope my business idea this time around will make it.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Business, career and love life this year
« on: July 05, 2025, 05:14:35 PM »[Hidden post: You need login to forum to see it.]
Hi Minx88,
May I ask, what is your current profession / trade and job title? What is your connection with IT?
ren
Hi @ren I'm a digital designer and work in IT. I manage a team too. Very interesting take. How do you guess I somewhat work in IT?
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Business, career and love life this year
« on: July 04, 2025, 02:35:50 AM »Another wealth structure that uses seal...!
Your chart is the superior version of @Korobokle chart: https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&y=1994&m=4&d=9&h=12%3A00&g=0&l=0
From what I read, you also have much better progress than @Korobokle and this can be a good news for him. From 2032 onward, his chart will get much need metal and water (Ren Shen and Gui You).
Unlike @Korobokle, you have Gui water and You metal permanently fixed in natal chart. Resource, wealth and robbery don't fight each other. Output and power don't fight each other.
Some periods with earth and fire indicate more challenges, but your natal chart can adapt well.
Thanks for reading my chart @coldpillow
What does seal do for me? And also how is my chart a good new for @Korobokle ?
In terms of "Gui water and You metal permanently fixed in natal chart. Resource, wealth and robbery don't fight each other. Output and power don't fight each other. " Does that mean my wealth trajectory will be doing good?
Thank you.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Business, career and love life this year
« on: July 01, 2025, 10:40:58 AM »supplement to earlier reply due to 2025 Yi Si, + Natal chou(DEB) + you (TEB)= Metal structure = spouse star too)====> 巳酉丑三合金局 (Si-You-Chou metal union) will affect your career, business, and love life predictions:
Impact on Career & Promotion Chances
巳酉丑三合金局 = 官星 (Authority Star) Activation
This metal union directly strengthens your 官星 (Guan Xing, representing career authority and leadership). However:
Conflict Alert: 2025’s Yi Si (乙巳) year pillar contains Yi Wood (your day master), creating a "Wood vs. Metal" clash. This implies:
✓ Promotion opportunities exist but will involve intense negotiation (metal = rigid rules, wood = your flexible voice).
✓ If promoted, expect heavy scrutiny (metal’s cutting nature).
Key Timing: Metal energy peaks in autumn (Aug–Oct 2025)—align salary talks or job offers with this period.
Revised Promotion Probability:
✓ High chance if you secure external job offer first (metal union = leverage for counteroffer).
✓ Internal promotion now less likely unless leadership changes occur by July 2025 (before metal energy dominates).
小人 (Petty People) Dynamics
The metal union attracts "七杀" (7 Killings) energy:
Jealous colleagues may escalate attacks during May–July 2025 (fire months weakening metal).
Remedy: Focus on Southeast (Tian Yi) direction—its Wood energy softens metal’s aggression.
Impact on Startup Business
巳酉丑金局 = 财星 (Wealth Star) Activation
This benefits tech ventures (metal = technology sector), but:
Resource Strain: Metal exhausts your 乙木 (Yi Wood) energy—avoid overcommitting before Q4 2025.
Ex-Boss Partnership: His presence (as Geng Metal) now acts as a double-edged sword:
✓ Pros: Enhances structure and funding opportunities (metal = capital).
✓ Cons: Risk of creative differences (his rigidity vs. your innovation).
Critical Window: Launch beta tests/post-MVP development in 2026 (Fire Monkey year)—fire tempers metal’s harshness.
Impact on Love Life (夫星 = Husband Star Activation)
巳酉丑金局 directly triggers 夫星 (Fu Xing, spouse star)—making 2025 a pivotal year for relationships.
Highest Probability Period: September–November 2025 (metal-dominated months).
Partner Profile Revised:
✓ Profession: Likely in law, engineering, or senior management (metal-aligned fields).
✓ Age/Rank: May be significantly older or higher-status (metal = authority).
✓ Caution: Metal’s 七杀 (7 Killings) edge could manifest as controlling tendencies—watch for early red flags.
Fated Encounter Locations:
✓ Airports, banks, or government buildings (metal-element venues).
✓ West/Northwest directions (metal sectors in Qi Men Dun Jia).
Adjustments to Previous Advice
Career:
Prioritize external job offers (metal union favors new beginnings over internal politics).
If staying, demand written KPIs to counter metal’s ambiguity (e.g., "Revenue targets = 20% pay rise").
Business:
Delay full-scale launch until 2026; use 2025 for patent filings (metal = legal protection).
Assign your ex-boss operational roles (not creative control) to balance energies.
Love:
Avoid hasty commitments before October 2025—let metal’s clarity reveal true intentions.
Wear green/blue (water/wood colors) to soften metal’s dominance on first dates.
Poetic Integration of Metal Union
*A forge of serpent, ox, and fowl—
Three-fold metal shapes your hour.
Authority’s crown now gleams ahead,
But temper steel with Wood’s soft tread.
West winds may blow love’s promise near,
Yet guard your heart till autumn’s clear.
When fire returns in ‘26,
Your dreams take flight, and bonds shall fix.*
(Symbolism: "Serpent, ox, fowl" = Si-Chou-You; "Wood’s soft tread" = balancing metal with your Yi Wood nature; "fire in ‘26" = 2026 Bing Wu fire year.)
Hi @smsek , really appreciate your detailed response. I will take a mental notes on this as a guidance, so I can pre-empt of what next step I can do.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Business, career and love life this year
« on: July 01, 2025, 12:31:38 AM »Detailed business questions in free requests are a sign of bad form.
Sorry that I have to write this to you. But so that you understand why no answers .
IMHO.
Just a question on the topic - will the startup be profitable or not. It will cost at least $2000. At the same time, any changes should also be taken into account, so the startup is an astrologer's support while the startup is working. A month - $2000-5000. Sorry again.
Thanks so much @Under10Gods for letting me know. I didn't know that was the case
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FREE Life Reading Request / Business, career and love life this year
« on: June 28, 2025, 05:29:58 PM »
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