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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: quite an "easy" life but struggling mentally
« on: November 18, 2025, 10:54:24 AM »
@coldpillow that's an intetesting take. I never really thought about it that way, but now I feel that could be possible. Though the fact that I tried listening and giving advice, yet they could barely remember things about me would undoubtedly also contribute to my weariness.
But yes, I can see that there are some parts that bothers me when they were venting, like the "no action talk only" attitude that feels very similar to myself.
Thank you for this insight, I think it's worth reflecting when I feel someone is particularly annoying or iffy without any clear reason.
But yes, I can see that there are some parts that bothers me when they were venting, like the "no action talk only" attitude that feels very similar to myself.
Thank you for this insight, I think it's worth reflecting when I feel someone is particularly annoying or iffy without any clear reason.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: quite an "easy" life but struggling mentally
« on: November 18, 2025, 02:14:01 AM »
@nin99 sorry i couldn't understand this. Could you explain it clearer? Or if your native language is not english, you can put it in your native language and I can try translate it.
@coldpillow not sure about 2021, I think 2020 or 2021 might be the year I got back to reading as hobby. But checking from some old pictures, it seems 2017 is the year I create more like baking, drawing, photography, etc or have the chance or energy to do it more.
I don't have recurring dreams, but my dreams have always been vivid, which sometimes make me tired when waking up. Some are negative, some more adventure-like with no negative or positive.
I do react negatively to criticism, annoyance, hostility; they don't come constantly, but once they do, my mood would be completely unstable and I would repeat it in my mind a lot. I find it hard to recover from it. Maybe few each year that would sadden me. Some (past 2-3 years) completely alters my perception of the person, though they may come from different people.
About the venting, they were talking about their relationship issue (cannot move on). I felt tired because it felt like talking one-sided conversation.
@coldpillow not sure about 2021, I think 2020 or 2021 might be the year I got back to reading as hobby. But checking from some old pictures, it seems 2017 is the year I create more like baking, drawing, photography, etc or have the chance or energy to do it more.
I don't have recurring dreams, but my dreams have always been vivid, which sometimes make me tired when waking up. Some are negative, some more adventure-like with no negative or positive.
I do react negatively to criticism, annoyance, hostility; they don't come constantly, but once they do, my mood would be completely unstable and I would repeat it in my mind a lot. I find it hard to recover from it. Maybe few each year that would sadden me. Some (past 2-3 years) completely alters my perception of the person, though they may come from different people.
About the venting, they were talking about their relationship issue (cannot move on). I felt tired because it felt like talking one-sided conversation.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: quite an "easy" life but struggling mentally
« on: November 17, 2025, 08:24:09 PM »
@coldpillow I don't know if this helps in interpreting it.
I used to like to draw and do other art stuff. But at the end of the day, I feel drained after work and taking care of the house chores that I don't have motivation for doing any art whatsoever.
Even if I start, a lot I don't finish because I feel pressured that I will not produce anything good (I guess like negative self talk mixed with perfectionism?).
I cannot quite remember if I ever have a decade/year where I'm particularly more productive though.
I used to like to draw and do other art stuff. But at the end of the day, I feel drained after work and taking care of the house chores that I don't have motivation for doing any art whatsoever.
Even if I start, a lot I don't finish because I feel pressured that I will not produce anything good (I guess like negative self talk mixed with perfectionism?).
I cannot quite remember if I ever have a decade/year where I'm particularly more productive though.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: quite an "easy" life but struggling mentally
« on: October 25, 2025, 02:42:25 AM »
Thank you for the thoughtful reply eveereads, it helps that you explained the relationship between the stars so I can know the cause and effect.
I think some parts a bit hard to understand/unclear with the relationship pin yin (Shi-shen-zhi-sha, Sha-in-Shang-Sheng) but the English translation helps, perhaps adding the 汉字 would help for clarity.
I have question about this part:
"In short: you were born in a metal month (You month), suited by nature to handle machines or electricity, yet your mind—represented by 乙 Wood—longs for freedom and growth, and you instinctively hate that as the Eating God, being controlled by the Partial Star."
Which 乙 is this referring to? Is it the one in my hour pillar?
Also thank you for your advice, I will keep that in mind.
I think some parts a bit hard to understand/unclear with the relationship pin yin (Shi-shen-zhi-sha, Sha-in-Shang-Sheng) but the English translation helps, perhaps adding the 汉字 would help for clarity.
I have question about this part:
"In short: you were born in a metal month (You month), suited by nature to handle machines or electricity, yet your mind—represented by 乙 Wood—longs for freedom and growth, and you instinctively hate that as the Eating God, being controlled by the Partial Star."
Which 乙 is this referring to? Is it the one in my hour pillar?
Also thank you for your advice, I will keep that in mind.
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: quite an "easy" life but struggling mentally
« on: October 24, 2025, 10:47:20 AM »
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: quite an "easy" life but struggling mentally
« on: October 24, 2025, 06:13:06 AM »
Your BaZi Chart Analysis
I hope this analysis provides you with the clarity you were seeking.
Thank you, would you be able to determine what kind of career would be suitable for me and if there is a better time I would be able to change/pivot to a different job/industry?
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: quite an "easy" life but struggling mentally
« on: October 24, 2025, 06:05:11 AM »
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FREE Life Reading Request / quite an "easy" life but struggling mentally
« on: October 23, 2025, 10:12:06 PM »
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FREE Life Reading Request / Re: Struggles in the last 7 years
« on: October 23, 2025, 09:47:08 PM »
Post to read, the breakdown has been helpful to also understand my chart and its relationship
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