@eveereads @coldpillow

Why r you both sulking? lol.

@coldpillow come on man, that was a joke. Your initial replies were convincing n then you seemed to sway. N you changed your opinion once someone else seemed to explain ‘better’. Literally I was asking you, ”how to function better as broken chart?”. N yet you didn’t answer that. lol

@eveereads I truly appreciate you replies n your initial reply was spot on about spiritual n emotional comfort. But then when you explained about me being a strong dm, competitiveness, n now me taking things for granted…. Those ain’t true. I fell from grace since my mid-late teens. My life went downhill ever since. I’m not even as competitive as you thought I’ve always been. In my early 20s I realized I ain’t built for (material) wealth. N I stopped thinking “why don’t I have it” many many years ago. So you’re wrong I’m afraid. You said I’m surrounded by people with higher quantity n quality? That’s not quite true. Money circulates well? Not true. But I’m NOT taking things for granted since I’ve learned the hard way. I lost many things back in the past. I KNOW it.

It’s more about you I’m afraid (with all due respect), all of sudden you’re sulking since I told you what you elaborated didn’t align with reality.

As for I don’t trust easily n open
My heart right away, that is spot-on. N that’s due to past mistakes and betrayal.


“You must first understand yourself  accurately to understand your situation and those around you.” INDEED, that’s why I started this topic. That’s EXACTLY why I’m here digging info n learning from y’all guys. I try to comprehend my chart so I can comprehend myself better.

So come on, we’re learning together. Don’t be sulky. N don’t get me wrong, I dearly appreciate your replies. I’ve learned so much from y’all.

@coldpillow

Geng Shen day, Geng yin month, Bing Wu year

@eveereads

Indeed I lost interest quite easily n yet I never changed job. I’ve always been committed to my passion n never thought of changing. I only had one relationship in the past n never dated again ever since. I fall in love once in a blue moon.

Wood peak season? Dm that’s already strong? Not sure about this, I’m a weak self imho.

Indeed I completely comprehend what you’re saying about luck n limited life. I’ve understood those things. But the readings of my chart tends to vary n most doesn’t align with my real life. That’s why I’m confused. Like now you’re saying I’m a strong dm? If I were a strong dm then I would love more earth, but the truth is, earth is abundant n suffocating.

@coldpillow @eveereads

You already asked that in previous comments, but still, my answer won’t change : no. I ain’t that close with my mother’s family. They ain’t influential, not even a bit. My dad’s family is more influential compared to my mom’s since I lived with grandparents till I was 15.

And no, when I was a baby my family was financially tight. It got better when I was 5th grader or smth.

I appreciate the reply @eveereads @coldpillow

It’s very helpful n you’re right about spiritual n mental comfort.

N yet Geng Wu was an awful lp. So far Xin Wei is still bad. My financial situation didn’t flourish back in Geng Wu. It hasn’t changed so far in Xin Wei.

Metal-to-water cycle would deepen the emotional aftermath? What does it mean?

Indeed there’s a root in Chen n yet Chen is clashed by Xu. The root is damaged. Earth is too strong so it needs to be alleviated by metal or I need the help of Jia to control it. Jia on year stem ain’t strong enough as well. Ren Shen lp would combine Chen to form half water combo, water storage is opened. Ren would be overwhelmingly strong n yet my earth is enough to dam it(?)

@eveereads

What is the most helpful luck cycle for his chart?

According to this source, rob wealth breaks the chart. It doesn't specify whether rob wealth must be strong or rooted ---> https://blog.sohu.com/s/Mjc3NDg5MDgx/328483338.html

In terms of 10 Gods interaction, I simply assume metal should appear in stem to control robbery.

But should/can a broken chart be fixed?

Or maybe it can only seek external help (from other people's charts) to function better?

@coldpillow

So you can read zwds as well, huh? I was told similar things formerly. She said the hardest part of my life would end in 2026. After 2026 things would be better. But idk, I know nothing about zwds. N if it was true then Bazi should reflect similar things, shouldn’t it? I don’t wanna get my hopes too high.

No.. not really. They’re not necessarily happier either. I don’t have a sister.

@coldpillow her chart is definitely better than mine.

My next lp is Ren Shen, n yi prefers the gentle gui. N yet I hope Ren Shen is indeed better. Next lp is still way too far anyway… I’m still in the early stage of Xin Wei. Currently I’m surviving in every waking moment.