@Uranus I forgot to ask you for your gender, but I am going to just go ahead and assume you are male.
After evaluating against how you described yourself, I am nearly 100% sure you are Ji Chou hour pillar.
You realise if you are Ji Chou, your chart is 5/8 made up of support/resource elements.
And the support elements, in relation with the remaining elements, remain unharmed, meaning you are embodying the full energy of the 5 support elements.
How to correlate?
Firstly, people with very strong in support elements tend to receive a lot of help in their lives without actively seeking it. They tend to also have a healthy connection with their family members.
Support element also pertains to having good moral values, ability to respect others, something like Confucius thinking comes organically, respectful of traditions / religion, those kinds of things.
But being too strong in support tend to breed laziness, because helps comes so easily to these people. Also, these people tend to overthink things, because moral values, respects for others, doing the right thing - all these principles means a lot to them.
So you can start to see how it easily correlates back to you.
Lazy and not proactive: A double combo of both being too strong in support elements + complete lack of output element in your chart. Output element is your natural ability to express yourself. So for all the nice support your are enjoying, you are not putting enough into action. And it seems so normal to you, because you don't have that inclination naturally.
Like to be center of attention: Because of all the support you have been naturally receiving your whole life in general.
Doing business with brother: Another evidence of auto-support from family.
Eccentric: Because your chart is highly imbalance, overtly skewed towards support elements, no output elements, no friend elements (DM itself doesn't count).
Highly judgmental and don't like certain things: Because of too strong support elements, overtly concern on what is right / doing the right things.
Love arts activities but fail to excel in them: Because you lack output element. You may have interest in the arts, but no gift/talent for them. You can continue to pursue it as a hobby for enjoyment, but to excel and compete with real talents will be tough for you.
Regarding luck with females:You have natural luck with females due to the one Yi wood in your chart.
But being overtly strong in earth (your support element), it drains the Yi wood.
And there is no water (your output element) to keep it healthy.
Meaning likely, you tend not to put enough actions into winning the hearts of ladies.
You may be lucky to get together with one, but for the relationship to prosper, you need to consciously force yourself to show that love, and not just have those ideas in your head - this circles back to you
over-analyzing love psychology.
If your Hour Pillar was Geng Yin, I believe you would have told me very different things.
An interesting tidbit:Support element is divided into Direct or Indirect version.
For those who possess Indirect version - their affinity to religion tend to go beyond it and likely have greater willingness to accept the occult, the divine, curiosity in magic, fortune telling, those kinds of things.
Hence...I guess the reason you are here in this forum
