Help me to comprehend my chart

[Korobokle]

@eveereads

Indeed I lost interest quite easily n yet I never changed job. I’ve always been committed to my passion n never thought of changing. I only had one relationship in the past n never dated again ever since. I fall in love once in a blue moon.

Wood peak season? Dm that’s already strong? Not sure about this, I’m a weak self imho.

Indeed I completely comprehend what you’re saying about luck n limited life. I’ve understood those things. But the readings of my chart tends to vary n most doesn’t align with my real life. That’s why I’m confused. Like now you’re saying I’m a strong dm? If I were a strong dm then I would love more earth, but the truth is, earth is abundant n suffocating.

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[Korobokle]

@coldpillow

No one, my mom loves me dearly (even too much) n would help. But her help sometimes turns out to be obstacle or making my plans go awry. She’s frantic n anxious, she fears many things in life. She the kindest n yet not the most helpful. I’ve always been heavily relying upon myself for career. My family never gets it. No one literally helps me in real life.

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[Korobokle]

@coldpillow

Geng Shen day, Geng yin month, Bing Wu year

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[ren]

Hey Korobokle,

Do you work for yourself, or are you employed by a company?
If you are employed, are you working as an author or musician?

Thanks,

ren

[Korobokle]

@coldpillow 

lol idk man, you’ve changed your answers several times already. Seems like you’re swayed. But that’s fine… 

@ren

Work for myself.

[eveereads]

@eveereads

Indeed I lost interest quite easily n yet I never changed job. I’ve always been committed to my passion n never thought of changing. I only had one relationship in the past n never dated again ever since. I fall in love once in a blue moon.

Wood peak season? Dm that’s already strong? Not sure about this, I’m a weak self imho.

Indeed I completely comprehend what you’re saying about luck n limited life. I’ve understood those things. But the readings of my chart tends to vary n most doesn’t align with my real life. That’s why I’m confused. Like now you’re saying I’m a strong dm? If I were a strong dm then I would love more earth, but the truth is, earth is abundant n suffocating.

All of us, as human beings born into human society, are taught that we must be at least equal to others, if not better than them.
Because of that, we tend to think that whatever we already have is nothing special because “others must have it, too.”
And whatever we don’t have, we assume only we are missing it, so we envy it, long for it, resent those who have it, and feel jealousy.

Someone who is rooted and has Companions is born already possessing more than others. Their body is stronger, their environment is better, and the quantity and quality of people they meet are higher.

If Wealth is strong, then whether there is Wealth Competition or not, it means you already have your own domain—your own stage to act on—and your surroundings allow money and material flow to circulate well. But because you’re so used to having it, you assume everyone else has it, too, so you treat it lightly.
Instead, you keep focusing on what you don’t have, and fall into the mindset of:
“Why don’t I have that?”

You are already someone who has a lot.
The only problem is—you don’t know it.

And the reason you don’t know it is because you don’t have a clear standard for measuring value.
You keep thinking other people are wrong about you because you were born in a storage branch (庫支) like Chen Earth (辰), and on top of that, your Earth is strong.

When someone is born in a storage branch, even if they know 7 out of 10 things, they fixate on the remaining 3 they don’t know and conclude: “I don’t know anything.”
That goes for those around them, too. If someone tells them something, and they don't understand it fully, then they think, "he doesn't know anything."

When Earth is strong, the instinct to protect oneself is strong. You don’t trust people easily or open your heart right away. But once you trust or love someone, you want to keep them for life. And when that person leaves, the pain of separation stays much longer than it does for others.

You must first understand yourself accurately to understand your situation and those around you. Mingli is the tool that gives you that standard.

[coldpillow]

@Korobokle

Yeah, should just say you're doomed from the start and stop digging further information.

Kidding

[Korobokle]

@eveereads @coldpillow

Why r you both sulking? lol.

@coldpillow come on man, that was a joke. Your initial replies were convincing n then you seemed to sway. N you changed your opinion once someone else seemed to explain ‘better’. Literally I was asking you, ”how to function better as broken chart?”. N yet you didn’t answer that. lol

@eveereads I truly appreciate you replies n your initial reply was spot on about spiritual n emotional comfort. But then when you explained about me being a strong dm, competitiveness, n now me taking things for granted…. Those ain’t true. I fell from grace since my mid-late teens. My life went downhill ever since. I’m not even as competitive as you thought I’ve always been. In my early 20s I realized I ain’t built for (material) wealth. N I stopped thinking “why don’t I have it” many many years ago. So you’re wrong I’m afraid. You said I’m surrounded by people with higher quantity n quality? That’s not quite true. Money circulates well? Not true. But I’m NOT taking things for granted since I’ve learned the hard way. I lost many things back in the past. I KNOW it.

It’s more about you I’m afraid (with all due respect), all of sudden you’re sulking since I told you what you elaborated didn’t align with reality.

As for I don’t trust easily n open
My heart right away, that is spot-on. N that’s due to past mistakes and betrayal.


“You must first understand yourself  accurately to understand your situation and those around you.” INDEED, that’s why I started this topic. That’s EXACTLY why I’m here digging info n learning from y’all guys. I try to comprehend my chart so I can comprehend myself better.

So come on, we’re learning together. Don’t be sulky. N don’t get me wrong, I dearly appreciate your replies. I’ve learned so much from y’all.

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