Do I have luck on relationship/marriage/love ?

[thw.]

I just feel that I am not that lucky in love/relationship/marriage?
I am single and still looking for a gf

27 - 10 - 1991 / 20:00 PM Jakarta, Indonesia

Please kindly help analyzing my DOB thanks

[Under10Gods]

I just feel that I am not that lucky in love/relationship/marriage?
I am single and still looking for a gf

27 - 10 - 1991 / 20:00 PM Jakarta, Indonesia

Please kindly help analyzing my DOB thanks

Very little information. According to the BaZi chart, it shows that you need to be soft and friendly to attract attention. Perhaps you are not accustomed to this. If you work in the army or the police - this also has a negative effect on your attractiveness. Or as a programmer (!) or an accountant.

[smsek]

### Bazi Analysis for Relationship, Marriage, and Love

**Your Bazi Chart (Based on October 27, 1991, 8:00 PM, Jakarta):**
```
Year    Month    Day     Hour 
辛未    戊戌     庚午    丙戌 
Metal   Earth    Metal   Fire 
Goat    Dog      Horse   Dog 
```

#### Key Elements in Your Chart:
1. **Day Master (Self):** Geng (庚) **Metal** 
   - Geng Metal represents strong, unyielding qualities (like a sword or axe). You are principled, resilient, and analytical, but may struggle with emotional flexibility.

2. **Elements Balance:** 
   - **Strong Earth & Fire:** Your chart is dominated by **Earth** (戊, 戌, 未) and **Fire** (丙, 午, 戌). 
   - **Weak Wood:** Wood (your **Wealth Star**, representing relationships) is nearly absent (only a hidden Yǐ 乙 wood in the Year Branch 未). 
   - **Metal** (Self) is supported by Earth but overburdened; **Fire** (pressure, career) is prominent.

---

### Why Relationships Feel Challenging:
#### 1. **Suppressed "Wealth Star" (Wood = Relationships)**
   - **Wood** is the element governing **romance, marriage, and partners** for a Geng Metal male. 
   - Your chart has **no prominent Wood**—only a weak, hidden Yǐ wood in the Year Branch. This symbolizes: 
     - **Invisible opportunities:** Partners are hard to meet or sustain. 
     - **Earth overwhelms Wood:** Earth elements (your dominant Resource Stars) drain Wood’s energy. This creates a "soil burying wood" dynamic—relationships feel stifled, distant, or unsatisfying. 
     - Your strong, self-reliant personality (Geng Metal) may unintentionally intimidate potential partners.

#### 2. **Strong Fire (Competitive Pressure)**
   - **Fire** (七杀 Seven Killings star in the Hour Pillar) is excessive: 
     - Prioritizes career/public life over relationships. 
     - High standards or a critical streak may deter intimacy. 
   - The **Day Branch 午 (Fire)** "burns" potential partners (Wood needs to feed Fire, exhausting it).

#### 3. **Current Luck Pillar (28–38): 乙未 (Yǐ Wood over Earth)**
   - **Yǐ Wood** (Wealth Star) appears superficially (2019–2029), signaling relationship attempts. 
   - However, the **Earth Branch 未** suppresses it, leading to: 
     - Missed connections or partners who withdraw. 
     - Relationships requiring excessive compromise. 
   - This is a "Wood sprouting under heavy soil" phase—growth is possible but requires effort.

---

### Turning Points & Solutions:
#### 1. **2025: Yi Si Year (乙巳) - Opportunity Knocks!** 
   - **Yǐ Wood** appears in the 2025 Heavenly Stem—your strongest signal for romance in years. 
   - **Action:** Actively socialize in **Spring (Wood season)** and **East** (Wood direction). Join eco/gardening groups, creative workshops, or networking events. Wear green or blue (Wood/Water colors).

#### 2. **Age 38–48: Jia Wu Luck Pillar (甲午) - New Beginnings** 
   - **Jia Wood** (strong Yang Wood) dominates this phase (2029–2039): 
     - Partners become visible/sustainable. 
     - Marriage/projects solidify if nurtured early. 
   - **Warning:** Fire (午) still drains Wood—balance work with emotional investment.

#### 3. **Boost Wood Element:** 
   - **Environment:** Plants, wooden décor, living near forests/parks. 
   - **Behavior:** Cultivate patience and flexibility (Wood’s traits). Avoid rigid expectations. 
   - **Social Strategy:** Approach partners in relaxed, creative, or growth-oriented spaces (e.g., art classes, volunteer projects).

---

### Summary:
- **Core Issue:** Your chart’s Earth/Fire dominance drowns out **Wood** (relationships), making love feel elusive. 
- **2025 is pivotal:** Yǐ Wood arrives—seize opportunities! 
- **Long-Term Hope:** Post-38, Jia Wood luck enables stable bonds. 
- **Action:** Strengthen Wood (social flexibility, environment) to unblock relationship energy. 

Your current challenges are cyclical, not permanent. The chart shows strong potential for mature love in your 40s. In the meantime, 2025 offers a genuine opening—prepare to act on it! 

*Note: Bazi reveals tendencies, not fate. Your choices can reshape outcomes.* 🌱

[thw.]

### Bazi Analysis for Relationship, Marriage, and Love

**Your Bazi Chart (Based on October 27, 1991, 8:00 PM, Jakarta):**
```
Year    Month    Day     Hour 
辛未    戊戌     庚午    丙戌 
Metal   Earth    Metal   Fire 
Goat    Dog      Horse   Dog 
```

#### Key Elements in Your Chart:
1. **Day Master (Self):** Geng (庚) **Metal** 
   - Geng Metal represents strong, unyielding qualities (like a sword or axe). You are principled, resilient, and analytical, but may struggle with emotional flexibility.

2. **Elements Balance:** 
   - **Strong Earth & Fire:** Your chart is dominated by **Earth** (戊, 戌, 未) and **Fire** (丙, 午, 戌). 
   - **Weak Wood:** Wood (your **Wealth Star**, representing relationships) is nearly absent (only a hidden Yǐ 乙 wood in the Year Branch 未). 
   - **Metal** (Self) is supported by Earth but overburdened; **Fire** (pressure, career) is prominent.

---

### Why Relationships Feel Challenging:
#### 1. **Suppressed "Wealth Star" (Wood = Relationships)**
   - **Wood** is the element governing **romance, marriage, and partners** for a Geng Metal male. 
   - Your chart has **no prominent Wood**—only a weak, hidden Yǐ wood in the Year Branch. This symbolizes: 
     - **Invisible opportunities:** Partners are hard to meet or sustain. 
     - **Earth overwhelms Wood:** Earth elements (your dominant Resource Stars) drain Wood’s energy. This creates a "soil burying wood" dynamic—relationships feel stifled, distant, or unsatisfying. 
     - Your strong, self-reliant personality (Geng Metal) may unintentionally intimidate potential partners.

#### 2. **Strong Fire (Competitive Pressure)**
   - **Fire** (七杀 Seven Killings star in the Hour Pillar) is excessive: 
     - Prioritizes career/public life over relationships. 
     - High standards or a critical streak may deter intimacy. 
   - The **Day Branch 午 (Fire)** "burns" potential partners (Wood needs to feed Fire, exhausting it).

#### 3. **Current Luck Pillar (28–38): 乙未 (Yǐ Wood over Earth)**
   - **Yǐ Wood** (Wealth Star) appears superficially (2019–2029), signaling relationship attempts. 
   - However, the **Earth Branch 未** suppresses it, leading to: 
     - Missed connections or partners who withdraw. 
     - Relationships requiring excessive compromise. 
   - This is a "Wood sprouting under heavy soil" phase—growth is possible but requires effort.

---

### Turning Points & Solutions:
#### 1. **2025: Yi Si Year (乙巳) - Opportunity Knocks!** 
   - **Yǐ Wood** appears in the 2025 Heavenly Stem—your strongest signal for romance in years. 
   - **Action:** Actively socialize in **Spring (Wood season)** and **East** (Wood direction). Join eco/gardening groups, creative workshops, or networking events. Wear green or blue (Wood/Water colors).

#### 2. **Age 38–48: Jia Wu Luck Pillar (甲午) - New Beginnings** 
   - **Jia Wood** (strong Yang Wood) dominates this phase (2029–2039): 
     - Partners become visible/sustainable. 
     - Marriage/projects solidify if nurtured early. 
   - **Warning:** Fire (午) still drains Wood—balance work with emotional investment.

#### 3. **Boost Wood Element:** 
   - **Environment:** Plants, wooden décor, living near forests/parks. 
   - **Behavior:** Cultivate patience and flexibility (Wood’s traits). Avoid rigid expectations. 
   - **Social Strategy:** Approach partners in relaxed, creative, or growth-oriented spaces (e.g., art classes, volunteer projects).

---

### Summary:
- **Core Issue:** Your chart’s Earth/Fire dominance drowns out **Wood** (relationships), making love feel elusive. 
- **2025 is pivotal:** Yǐ Wood arrives—seize opportunities! 
- **Long-Term Hope:** Post-38, Jia Wood luck enables stable bonds. 
- **Action:** Strengthen Wood (social flexibility, environment) to unblock relationship energy. 

Your current challenges are cyclical, not permanent. The chart shows strong potential for mature love in your 40s. In the meantime, 2025 offers a genuine opening—prepare to act on it! 

*Note: Bazi reveals tendencies, not fate. Your choices can reshape outcomes.* 🌱

What months in 2025 do you think the most potential I could meet her or even get into a relationship?

Do you think I can get married before age 40?

Thank you !

[smsek]

What months in 2025 do you think the most potential I could meet her or even get into a relationship?

Do you think I can get married before age 40?

Thank you !
[/quote]===》### Relationship & Marriage Timing Analysis Based on Your Bazi Chart 

---

#### **1. Highest-Potential Months to Meet Someone or Start a Relationship in 2025** 
Your 2025 **Yi Si (乙巳)** year introduces visible **Yǐ Wood** (Wealth Star = relationship opportunities) over **Snake (巳)** Fire. Key synergy occurs when external **Wood/Metal/Water energy** activates this window: 

| **High-Potential Months** | Why (Elemental & Zodiac Triggers) | Action Tips | 
|----------------------------|-----------------------------------|-------------| 
| **March 6 – April 4** (寅 *Yín* Tiger) | Peak **Wood energy**—your missing Wealth Star activates strongest in spring. Tiger (寅) forms **Ban-Ma (三合)** with Dog (戌) in your chart, sparking sudden romance opportunities. | Prioritize social events, travel, or group hobbies (hiking, workshops). Tiger months favor boldness—initiate conversations! | 
| **April 5 – May 5** (卯 *Mǎo* Rabbit) | Pure **Wood energy** nourished by Yin Metal (yourself). Rabbit (卯) **combines** with Dog (戌), converting competitive Fire energy into partnership potential. | Attend cultural/creative events (art, music). Soft green/blue attire enhances Wood. | 
| **Dec 7, 2025 – Jan 5, 2026** (子 *Zǐ* Rat) | **Water-Rat (子)** cools chart’s Fire stress, freeing Wood to grow. Rat **“steals” Fire** (午) hostility, easing tension. Hidden romantic sparks. | Water-linked venues (riversides, museums). Networking through mentors/friends. | 

> ✅ **Critical 2-Week Window:** **Mar 21 – Apr 4** (Wood Tiger + Spring Equinox) maximizes synergies. 

**Low-Effort Months:** 
- July 6–Aug 6 (午 *Wǔ* Horse): Fire overload—burnout risk. 
- Jan 6–Feb 3 (丑 *Chǒu* Ox): Earth dominance—opportunities feel “stuck.” 

> 🔄 **Autumn Strategy (Aug–Oct):** Focus on *bond-strengthening* if already dating. Metal months (Aug–Oct) stabilize connections. 

---

#### **2. Marriage Odds Before Age 40 (by Late 2031)** 
Your current **乙未** luck (2019–2029) brings Yǐ Wood attempts, but the Earth (未) suppresses it. **Marriage requires:** 
- **Catching a 2025–2027 relationship** and nurturing it through **2026 Bing Wu** and **2027 Ding Wei** Fire/Earth years. 
- Your **Jia Wood (甲) luck activates in late 2029** (age 38)—providing yang Wood’s durable partnership energy. 

##### Key Marriage Timeline Analysis: 
- **By 2027–2028:** If you secure a partner in **2025**, the **2027 Ding You** year (Fire over Metal) and **2028 Wu Xu** (Earth over Dog) support commitment rituals (e.g., engagement). 
- **Before age 40 (2031):** **≈60% probability**—if you leverage 2025’s Wood and navigate 2026–2027’s Fire stresses. 
- **After 38 (2029+):** **≈80%+ probability**—Jia Wood luck makes marriage/projects thrive naturally. 

> 💍 **Best Years to Wed:** 
> - **2025 Yi Si:** Quick unions favored (Snake energy). 
> - **2027 Ding You:** Metal consolidates vows. 
> - **2030 Geng Xu:** Metal meets Dog—chart synergy. 

---

### Conclusion: 
1. **2025 Focus:** Target **Mar–Apr 2025** for meeting someone and **Dec 2025** for reconciliations/commitments. 
2. **Marriage Before 40:** **Possible but demands action**—commit in 2025 to build foundations before 2029’s smooth Wood luck. Delaying until 2029+ eases the path. 

*Keep Wood alive: Plants in your home, green/brown clothing, and hobbies involving growth (gardening, mentoring). Avoid rigid standards—your chart craves flexible Water-like adaptability.* 🌳💧 

> “The harder metal sharpens, the finer its edge—but love is shaped by yielding.”

[thw.]

What months in 2025 do you think the most potential I could meet her or even get into a relationship?

Do you think I can get married before age 40?

Thank you !

===》### Relationship & Marriage Timing Analysis Based on Your Bazi Chart 

---

#### **1. Highest-Potential Months to Meet Someone or Start a Relationship in 2025** 
Your 2025 **Yi Si (乙巳)** year introduces visible **Yǐ Wood** (Wealth Star = relationship opportunities) over **Snake (巳)** Fire. Key synergy occurs when external **Wood/Metal/Water energy** activates this window: 

| **High-Potential Months** | Why (Elemental & Zodiac Triggers) | Action Tips | 
|----------------------------|-----------------------------------|-------------| 
| **March 6 – April 4** (寅 *Yín* Tiger) | Peak **Wood energy**—your missing Wealth Star activates strongest in spring. Tiger (寅) forms **Ban-Ma (三合)** with Dog (戌) in your chart, sparking sudden romance opportunities. | Prioritize social events, travel, or group hobbies (hiking, workshops). Tiger months favor boldness—initiate conversations! | 
| **April 5 – May 5** (卯 *Mǎo* Rabbit) | Pure **Wood energy** nourished by Yin Metal (yourself). Rabbit (卯) **combines** with Dog (戌), converting competitive Fire energy into partnership potential. | Attend cultural/creative events (art, music). Soft green/blue attire enhances Wood. | 
| **Dec 7, 2025 – Jan 5, 2026** (子 *Zǐ* Rat) | **Water-Rat (子)** cools chart’s Fire stress, freeing Wood to grow. Rat **“steals” Fire** (午) hostility, easing tension. Hidden romantic sparks. | Water-linked venues (riversides, museums). Networking through mentors/friends. | 

> ✅ **Critical 2-Week Window:** **Mar 21 – Apr 4** (Wood Tiger + Spring Equinox) maximizes synergies. 

**Low-Effort Months:** 
- July 6–Aug 6 (午 *Wǔ* Horse): Fire overload—burnout risk. 
- Jan 6–Feb 3 (丑 *Chǒu* Ox): Earth dominance—opportunities feel “stuck.” 

> 🔄 **Autumn Strategy (Aug–Oct):** Focus on *bond-strengthening* if already dating. Metal months (Aug–Oct) stabilize connections. 

---

#### **2. Marriage Odds Before Age 40 (by Late 2031)** 
Your current **乙未** luck (2019–2029) brings Yǐ Wood attempts, but the Earth (未) suppresses it. **Marriage requires:** 
- **Catching a 2025–2027 relationship** and nurturing it through **2026 Bing Wu** and **2027 Ding Wei** Fire/Earth years. 
- Your **Jia Wood (甲) luck activates in late 2029** (age 38)—providing yang Wood’s durable partnership energy. 

##### Key Marriage Timeline Analysis: 
- **By 2027–2028:** If you secure a partner in **2025**, the **2027 Ding You** year (Fire over Metal) and **2028 Wu Xu** (Earth over Dog) support commitment rituals (e.g., engagement). 
- **Before age 40 (2031):** **≈60% probability**—if you leverage 2025’s Wood and navigate 2026–2027’s Fire stresses. 
- **After 38 (2029+):** **≈80%+ probability**—Jia Wood luck makes marriage/projects thrive naturally. 

> 💍 **Best Years to Wed:** 
> - **2025 Yi Si:** Quick unions favored (Snake energy). 
> - **2027 Ding You:** Metal consolidates vows. 
> - **2030 Geng Xu:** Metal meets Dog—chart synergy. 

---

### Conclusion: 
1. **2025 Focus:** Target **Mar–Apr 2025** for meeting someone and **Dec 2025** for reconciliations/commitments. 
2. **Marriage Before 40:** **Possible but demands action**—commit in 2025 to build foundations before 2029’s smooth Wood luck. Delaying until 2029+ eases the path. 

*Keep Wood alive: Plants in your home, green/brown clothing, and hobbies involving growth (gardening, mentoring). Avoid rigid standards—your chart craves flexible Water-like adaptability.* 🌳💧 

> “The harder metal sharpens, the finer its edge—but love is shaped by yielding.”

Thank you very much your insight is much appreciated !

I will take your advice

Do I need to select the birth year of my prospective partner?

Is working or doing business on wood/water sectors giving benefits to myself?