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Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« on: June 16, 2018, 10:56:25 AM »
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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #1 on: June 21, 2018, 07:19:43 PM »
Hi Tientai, could you provide some more background information?  What is the nature of her job, what kind of problem it is, what is the work setting (a small mom-and-pop store, medium-sized company, large government office) etc. 

Different settings give different directions to analyze the lines:

For example, if the boss is the highest-level director, then we mainly look at Officer line.
If the boss is her team supervisor, then we mainly look at Parents+Sibling line.
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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #2 on: June 22, 2018, 10:36:25 AM »
dear @JLim ..all .. hi ..

My wife is working as a saleswoman in a women's clothing store for 18 years.
Her boss and his two brothers are shareholders in his own business ... although he controls three stores ... everyone has a shop working for.
Long ago these shops had employees because of a lot of work. But when things changed, the employees were dismissed and last 2 years the bosses became more than the employees  (Three Bosses on Two employees  Lol)... hahaha ... !!!
My wife is a hardworking person but also sensitive and emotional woman.
This year has begun an unjust war with a peak on 25/5 /2018.
He rebuked her that she was not profitable in his work (an injustice because she helped at the same time two stores that are one next to the other).
Her boss gave her a 15-day summer vacation much earlier than other years ... and on 16/6/2018 finished and started working ...
She decided not to answer his insulting phrases ... and to make her job calm and uncontroversial ... !!
I warned him saying "if she is not appropriate for your work after 18 years !! .. then dismiss her after paying the compensation .. and not insult her this way !!!".

Things are getting better  ... but we are worried about it ... !!

1. "A curious and strange thing is that over the last two years his work has gone up and his sales are high"
2. "There is a competition or gosip of her colleague employee she is much closer to boss she is 25 years in his work !! "
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I tossed the coins after her vacation .. on 16 / 6 / 2018
QUESTION : What will be the development and progress in her working place utill the end of this year ?

I feel that everything is upside down now  ...
Yong Shen : My Wife is hiding [FuShen ] in 5th line now Prison in red Bird.
4th Self line in Green Dragon.. its Kong wang is open due to clashed with the Mao branch of the day ...
...
After all i think that the Metal Offspring triangle formation of 4th and 6th moving lines is  in good shape .
So Yuan Shen Metal Offspring that is the master of triangle [San He ] will in Autumn and Winter months support Yong Shen that is my wife in Fu Shen .. right up the end of this year ..!!!
This is The good Scenario .. admist a very difficult situation !!!

Please .. i want some help .
thanks a lot.

Tientai.
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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #3 on: June 25, 2018, 04:58:25 PM »
Hi Tientai,

1.  Don't worry, she will not be made redundant before 2020 Zi year.  Fifth hidden line comes out of hidden mode and clashes Month Wu (Horse).  The Month Wu represents authority or work environment.  Zi Wealth represents money.  Zi clashing Wu means she will leave the job, and that happens in Zi year.  As you wrote in the pm, the Zi year will be her retirement age.  That's why it's important to analyze the hexagram with some background information.  Since we know it's retirement age, this means she is not made redundant.

2.  Looking from the perspective of her direct boss: your wife is represented by Fourth Self line.  While he (boss) is represented by Other line, which is Parents Si Fire.  This line swaps image with Si Fire at the Sixth line.  The Sixth line overcomes the Self line, because Fire overcomes Metal.  Oh yes, he did scold her like fire smelting metal!  But in the changed hexagram, the Sixth line changes into You Metal, which is also the Self line You Metal.  The boss line changing into her line, means he will still work with her.  So, he will not fire her.

3.  Self line is a moving line, so she did react to his boss when scolded and not keep calm.  But the thing is, the one who really tossed the hexagram was yourself, so your own emotions also get into the hexagram.  Therefore, the moving line could also reflect you reacting against the boss.  That's why it would be best if she herself tossed the coins, because she was the one involved with this issue.

4.  About her only colleague, this is represented by the Third line Siblings.  This is a progressive line, which fits her well because she has more years than your wife.  But as you can see, Chou changes to Chen, and Chen combines with You.  So she has good intentions towards her.  The thing is Self line is in Kong Wang (Death & Emptiness), so Self cannot feel the good intentions.
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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #4 on: June 25, 2018, 08:22:04 PM »
Dear @JLim hi ...



I insist that you are the best !!
Not for the good news from a difficult Hexagram that all seem discouraged and upsidedown ..
You are the best in the field of divination Arts ...
I am grateful for your help ..
Very glad for your cultivation on issues that are extremely helpful for people who facing many and different problems ..
I really admire the height of your spirituality ... !!
Very difficult to reach it... !!
Yet I'm happy to meet you ..
Thanks so much ...
Grateful
Tientai

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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #6 on: June 27, 2018, 04:55:41 PM »
One extra observation from the hexagram

5. The company has been around for decades.  Hint: the first line = last line (Si Snake).  And also the meaning of 勾陳 Gou Chen on the last line.
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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #7 on: June 27, 2018, 05:45:16 PM »
Master@JLim ...hi

I would like to ask if you take account in your observations the  metal triangle  formation of 4th and 6th line ...
Did this formation be meaningful ? ..

Yes the 1st and 6th line Si fire Parents line is the same ... Can we see inside this line also the nature of working shop ?? ..cloths ?

Dear @PdStelle .. thank you for nice words .. you are a good asset also on this forum ... Your kind words are deep and wide.

Thank you anyway
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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #8 on: June 27, 2018, 06:46:17 PM »
Metal formation is not possible at this moment, because You Metal is in Kong Wang (Emptiness) and broken by Day.
The line of business is very difficult in this hexagram, because your original question is about the career prospect.  But Self line comes with Qing Long (Dragon), which is a Wood element.  This can be paper, stationery, publishing, clothing, plants & gardening, herbal medicine etc. 

Self line is Offspring+Sibling (Friend) indicates that the job is a salesmanship type.  Why so?  Offspring is customer, because Offspring produces Wealth. And Friend coming with it means: getting a customer by being a friend.  So it's a saleswoman, customer service, account officer (if a bank), or other similar job.
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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #9 on: August 21, 2018, 09:47:42 PM »
Dear @JLim  hi...
My wife's work is going smoothly normal now ...
the bosses are changing manners to the better ... !!
My wife sending you her appreciation and many thanks for your significant help ...!!
Without flattening you are the best ..!!

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Re: Real case : My wife has some problem with her Boss !!
« Reply #10 on: August 22, 2018, 03:51:53 AM »
Hi Tientai, great to hear that the work relationship is good now!  Now it's Shen month.  From the hexagram, indeed her Self line is strong in Shen or You month. 

She will leave the company in Zi year (based on the hexagram). And this coincides with her retirement age.
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