Career and Marriage

[Lspj]

I would appreciate any reading or advice for future. Is there anything I need to be aware of?

Female born in Boston, MA USA
December 17, 1992 @0831

[coldpillow]

Good chart for career and wealth. Toilsome at first (youth), prosperous later (retirement):
- https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&y=1992&m=12&d=17&h=08%3A31&g=-5&l=-71.0589&lon=42.3601&s=1&city1=-71.0589%7Cboston
- https://zwds-calculator.com/chart2?month=12&day=17&year=1992&h=8&m=30&gender=Female&luck_year=2023&gmt=-5&long=-71

Beware of toxic relationship with wicked men. Morally corrupt, perverted.

[Lspj]

Good chart for career and wealth. Toilsome at first (youth), prosperous later (retirement):
- https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&y=1992&m=12&d=17&h=08%3A31&g=-5&l=-71.0589&lon=42.3601&s=1&city1=-71.0589%7Cboston
- https://zwds-calculator.com/chart2?month=12&day=17&year=1992&h=8&m=30&gender=Female&luck_year=2023&gmt=-5&long=-71

Beware of toxic relationship with wicked men. Morally corrupt, perverted.

Interesting. I feel my career is stagnant right now. In search of something new.

How would I avoid a toxic relationship? I eventually want to have kids soon so will my marriage also be a toxic relationship?

[coldpillow]

Either you're stagnant or get bored because of ordinary achievements, yes. But I don't think you have serious problems that will harm your wealth and sanity.

 
 
How would I avoid a toxic relationship?

You should have self-respect and the guy should be genuinely respectful to you. That's it.

Your marriage luck is actually good, but not free from potential danger (lawsuit, affair). I should say it's only an impression, not a conclusion.

Are you interested in guys with particular stereotypes?

[Lspj]

Either you're stagnant or get bored because of ordinary achievements, yes. But I don't think you have serious problems that will harm your wealth and sanity.

 
 
How would I avoid a toxic relationship?

You should have self-respect and the guy should be genuinely respectful to you. That's it.

Your marriage luck is actually good, but not free from potential danger (lawsuit, affair). I should say it's only an impression, not a conclusion.

Are you interested in guys with particular stereotypes?

I’m with a person now (for a while) who is more of a bookworm. I don’t think I am interested in specific stereotype. I guess my only thing is a college degree

[coldpillow]

I’m with a person now (for a while) who is more of a bookworm. I don’t think I am interested in specific stereotype. I guess my only thing is a college degree

Yeah, that fits your ZWDS chart.

Just read the general description about Wen Chang (the star in your spouse box) here: https://zwdsastrology.blogspot.com/2011/09/minor-stars-in-spouse-palace.html

Other potential problems are related to his parents or your parents, and a communication problem later when you live together.

[Lspj]

I’m with a person now (for a while) who is more of a bookworm. I don’t think I am interested in specific stereotype. I guess my only thing is a college degree

Yeah, that fits your ZWDS chart.

Just read the general description about Wen Chang (the star in your spouse box) here: https://zwdsastrology.blogspot.com/2011/09/minor-stars-in-spouse-palace.html

Other potential problems are related to his parents or your parents, and a communication problem later when you live together.

  you’re kind of spot on…Will there be a happy ending?

Also, I don’t know if you can answer this but do we have willpower to control what is “written in the stars”? For instance, is it possible to leave him and avoid marriage my whole life and go against the stars? Or if I had forced myself into a different career field.

[coldpillow]

According to the same source and the stars in your children box, I think you will probably get a happy ending. Happier if you are still alive with grandchildren.
 
The same stars also indicate that you are mentally strong and balanced. For example, you can maintain composure under pressure and always find the solution. So, this means you can lead your own life and control influence from other stars, which actually represent other people/external force.

Thanks to Ziwei (emperor) star, you will likely avoid the bitterness of hardship. Without that star, your life will be full of pain with Qisha alone in children palace.

If you are mentally weak, then other people/circumstances will lead your life. You are easily controlled (trapped) by external influence.

[Lspj]

According to the same source and the stars in your children box, I think you will probably get a happy ending. Happier if you are still alive with grandchildren.
 
The same stars also indicate that you are mentally strong and balanced. For example, you can maintain composure under pressure and always find the solution. So, this means you can lead your own life and control influence from other stars, which actually represent other people/external force.

Thanks to Ziwei (emperor) star, you will likely avoid the bitterness of hardship. Without that star, your life will be full of pain with Qisha alone in children palace.

If you are mentally weak, then other people/circumstances will lead your life. You are easily controlled (trapped) by external influence.

  Hoping for a happy ending. Can you read what years marriage and children are expected? Also, is it true it’s bad luck to read which year death would occur?

[coldpillow]

Can you read what years marriage and children are expected? Also, is it true it’s bad luck to read which year death would occur?

I can't and I think yearly prediction is strongly influenced by our own actions. It's even stronger for weeks, days, hours.

Not sure about bad luck. But I feel it's a very negative thing to do as it may darken your soul/psyche somewhat. Like Kira from Death Note, if you know the story.

[Lspj]

Can you read what years marriage and children are expected? Also, is it true it’s bad luck to read which year death would occur?

I can't and I think yearly prediction is strongly influenced by our own actions. It's even stronger for weeks, days, hours.

Not sure about bad luck. But I feel it's a very negative thing to do as it may darken your soul/psyche somewhat. Like Kira from Death Note, if you know the story.

Noted. Which stars or combo would suggest divorce? And how about work promotions?

[coldpillow]

Noted. Which stars or combo would suggest divorce? And how about work promotions?

For you, divorce could be related to Qingyang, Huoxing, Lianzhen, Wenqu.

Promotions could be related to Tianliang, Taiyin, Taiyang, Tian Ma, Ziwei. 

[Lspj]

Can anyone provide insight in 2024 and 2025?

[coldpillow]

Can anyone provide insight in 2024 and 2025?

In what specific areas?

Is your career/wealth luck "fluctuating consistently" in the last 5-7 years? A bad year is followed by a good year is followed by a bad year.

[Lspj]

Can anyone provide insight in 2024 and 2025?

In what specific areas?

Is your career/wealth luck "fluctuating consistently" in the last 5-7 years? A bad year is followed by a good year is followed by a bad year.

Career and romance. Are there things I should be careful of? Any promotions at work or changes in next couple of years?