Thank you for this feedback, really appreciated. I think I understand what the hexagram is telling me.
It probably needs me to figure out how to improve my current relationship or take my responsibility there instead of chasing something else.
The past weeks there has been a lot of silence between the colleague and myself. Coincidence wants that today we have seen eachother again and the colleague acted cold and distant towards me and seems like more and more avoiding me. This makes me feel very bad now because I don't even know why this is. Nothing happened. It was such a good contact and then over a few months, it becomes this. It even feels a bit unrespectful.
I probably need to learn from this situation. I have been treated by ex-partners in the past like this. It is painful to realize this. I am trying to get an understanding of this situation, still hope that something comes out of it, because I really thought we had a special soulmate like connection. That is why I am so eager to try to find out how this colleague really feels about me.
But with what happened today, it is probably what it is for this colleague: nothing.
Now I feel such a fool because clearly the other way around I am probably not so special.
