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And because your Daymaster element is water, your parents perceive you as their wealth.

So, the relationship may feel like a marriage or employment. Husband and wife. Boss and subordinate. Earth DM controls water DM.

I forgot you have Wu-Gui combo(!), which will add fire into your chart. So, that means you have good wealth luck.

This Wu-Gui combo also represents the union between you and your parents. Definitely beneficial for you, but maybe not so much for your mother.

She needs both metal and water, especially metal (from your dad), to feel better in this relationship.

Without metal as a bridge/buffer, there will be a conflict between her strong fire and water from other charts.

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Quote from: Marlisakurniaty on October 30, 2024, 01:58:34 AM

will I get a chance to live a good love-life?
 

IMO, you will have another chance in your mid 40s and mid 60s. I think the better one is mid 60s, very late indeed.

There must be a good reason why you're fated to stick with your parents. From my perspective, you're supposed to give and share. The more you try to enjoy your wealth all by yourself, the more you would feel hurt and lonely. It's simple. Life tries to teach you to be generous, not selfish.

Lose first, win later.
Spend money first, earn money later.
Lose/sell a home first, get/buy a home later.
Lose a parent first, get married later. ---> In the case of Bill Gates, it's the opposite. Got married first in January 1994, lost his mother in June 1994. But you get the idea of losing and gaining.

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Your natal chart lacks fire (wealth element), which determines how lucky that chart as a fake follow son. You can read more explanation here: https://treybazi.blogspot.com/2018/01/chart-structure-ditiansui-follow-output.html

But you do get fire from decade LP, so I guess you still have fairly good progress even if you're still far from your goals.

Quote from: Marlisakurniaty on October 29, 2024, 07:01:14 AM

May I ask if my chart is one of Follower Son?

It could still qualify as a fake follower. Not a true one, because of Chou in year pillar.

As a fake follower, you should be doing well in life so far.

Otherwise, it's an extremely weak chart. A miserable life.

see my AI reply ===>In Bazi analysis for compatibility, we look at how each person's elements interact and whether their charts support harmonious relationships. Here’s a detailed breakdown of compatibility based on your Bazi information, using a Bazi and elemental interaction approach:

### 1. **Elemental Compatibility**
   - **Female Chart**: The Day Master (DM) is 癸水 (Gui Water) with a strong presence of Wood (卯卯寅) and Earth (丑), which highlights Water and Wood influences, suggesting a need for Fire and Metal to balance.
   - **Male Chart**: The Day Master (DM) is 甲木 (Jia Wood), and his chart is dominated by Wood (卯子巳), Water (亥), and Fire (巳). This chart has abundant Wood and Fire with a need for Water and Metal to balance.

### 2. **Yin-Yang and Day Master Relationship**
   - **Gui Water (癸) Female**: This Water Day Master typically values nurturing and adaptability, with a need for support and understanding.
   - **Jia Wood (甲) Male**: Jia Wood signifies strength, growth, and resilience. Jia Wood Day Masters often seek stability and grounding, appreciating partners who are flexible and supportive.

   Water (癸) nourishes Wood (甲), suggesting that the female's presence can strengthen and support the male partner. However, without Fire in the female chart, there may be an imbalance in her capacity to fully complement his Wood energy unless it is moderated by compatible Luck Pillars or environmental influences.

### 3. **Interaction of Key Elements**
   - **Water and Wood**: Water (from the female) feeds Wood (the male’s dominant element), which can create a supportive and nurturing relationship. However, there’s potential for the female partner to feel drained, as too much Wood could weaken her Water.
   - **Fire in Male Chart**: The male's chart has Fire, especially during certain Luck Pillars. Fire is beneficial to both, as it tempers the Water-Wood dynamic, which can enhance the warmth in their relationship.

### 4. **Current and Future Luck Pillars**
   - **Female (壬午 Luck Pillar, age 31-41)**: This pillar brings in both Fire and Water elements. Fire is helpful to balance the excess Wood in the relationship and offers warmth and affection.
   - **Male (癸丑 Luck Pillar, age 40-50)**: This Luck Pillar has both Earth and Water, stabilizing and grounding his Wood energy while also offering some support to the female’s Water element.

### 5. **Potential Challenges**
   - The female partner’s Wood elements may be overpowered if not balanced by sufficient Fire or Metal, potentially causing a feeling of being overrun by the male's Wood energy.
   - In the long run, if the relationship does not provide the needed Fire element for mutual growth, it may feel imbalanced, with the female feeling underappreciated or overshadowed.

### 6. **Suggestions for Balance and Harmony**
   - **Incorporate Feng Shui**: Since both of you benefit from Metal and Fire, enhancing these in your living environment—such as Metal decor (e.g., circular shapes, metallic colors) and Fire elements (e.g., warmer lighting, red or orange accents)—could help balance the energies between you.
   - **Communication and Support**: As a Water Day Master, you may feel the need for emotional support, while he, as a Wood Day Master, may need stability. Understanding these core needs can make a big difference.
   - **Timing and Patience**: With careful consideration and mutual effort, both of you can enhance each other's strengths if you're open to adjusting your relationship dynamic over time.

### Conclusion
Your relationship has foundational compatibility, especially with the Water-Wood dynamic that suggests mutual support. However, to avoid feeling overwhelmed or drained, it’s essential to cultivate a balanced dynamic that nurtures Fire (passion, motivation) and Metal (clarity, structure) energies.

If you can foster an environment that nurtures both partners' needs, the relationship holds promise. However, keep monitoring how balanced you feel, as this will indicate if the relationship is progressing healthily.

Currently I view it based to this:
https://kevinchanbazi.wordpress.com/2014/07/19/bazi-relationship-earthly-branch-combination/

With the idea they don't transform, they just create 1 additional element. So they work together. That is the way its presented in the videos(in youtube), but the Images fit to events, well enough for me.

About the months and is it always fire... I need more info to be able to comment on that. When it transforms to Earth and when to Fire. Logically we can guess Earth months - Earth, Fire months - Fire. But I'm guessing it won't be as simple as that. : )