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Offline SilverW4ter

Not doing good at school and always play a game
« on: October 07, 2024, 05:25:59 AM »

halo master,

that's anyone can read this bazi ? is this good or bad bazi?

born 19 Dec 2013 time 10 am

thank you and I really appreciate it.

Online coldpillow

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #1 on: October 07, 2024, 06:40:56 AM »
- Birthplace?
- Gender?
- Any info about parents (marriage, wealth, etc)?

Offline SilverW4ter

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #2 on: October 07, 2024, 06:55:44 AM »
yeah I apologized

gender male born in Jakarta, 19 Dec 2013

thank you for remind me.

Offline SilverW4ter

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #3 on: October 07, 2024, 07:01:04 AM »
- Birthplace?
- Gender?
- Any info about parents (marriage, wealth, etc)?

I apologize again because I don't know how to use this application well

gender male born in Jakarta 19 Dec 2013 time 10 am

parents is ok come from middle up family just so so not too wealthy but his grandfather which is my dad is wealthy

Online smsek

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #4 on: October 07, 2024, 12:41:39 PM »
see my AI reply===>Interpreting the BaZi (Four Pillars of Destiny) chart requires a deep understanding of Chinese metaphysics. However, I'll provide a basic breakdown of the key aspects of this person's chart based on the information provided.

**BaZi Overview:**

The BaZi chart consists of four pillars: the **year, month, day, and hour pillars**, each representing different aspects of a person's life. Each pillar contains a **Heavenly Stem** and an **Earthly Branch** that correlate with one of the five elements (Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, Water). These elements are crucial in determining how the person's life may flow according to the **Five Elements cycle** and **Ten Gods** (representing different types of relationships, like wealth, power, resources, etc.).

### Key Elements in This BaZi:

1. **Year Pillar** (癸巳 - Gui Si): 
   - **癸 (Gui)** is Yin Water.
   - **巳 (Si)** is the Earthly Branch associated with Snake and belongs to the Fire element.
   - This pillar shows family background, grandparents, and childhood influences.

2. **Month Pillar** (甲子 - Jia Zi): 
   - **甲 (Jia)** is Yang Wood.
   - **子 (Zi)** is Water (associated with Rat).
   - This pillar is related to career, parents, and early adulthood.

3. **Day Pillar** (己未 - Ji Wei): 
   - **己 (Ji)** is Yin Earth (representing the Day Master, or Self).
   - **未 (Wei)** is the Earthly Branch associated with Goat and belongs to the Earth element.
   - The day pillar represents the individual and their spouse/partner.

4. **Hour Pillar** (己巳 - Ji Si): 
   - **己 (Ji)** is Yin Earth.
   - **巳 (Si)** is Fire (Snake).
   - This pillar represents children, projects, and later life.

### Key Observations:

1. **Day Master (己 - Ji, Yin Earth):** 
   - The Day Master is the core of the BaZi chart, representing the individual. Yin Earth typically symbolizes nurturing, stability, and a connection to nature or groundedness. The person may be someone who values security and stability.
   
2. **Earth-heavy Chart:** 
   - The presence of two 巳 (Fire) and two 己 (Earth) elements means that this person has a strong Earth influence. Too much Earth may lead to challenges such as stubbornness or resistance to change but also shows a strong foundation in life.

3. **Wealth Elements (癸 - Water in Year and Month):** 
   - Water represents wealth for an Earth Day Master. Having Water in both the Year and Month Pillars indicates wealth opportunities, though the clash between Fire (巳) and Water (癸) elements can bring challenges in managing wealth. Wealth may come through personal relationships or partnerships.
   
4. **Career and Authority (正官 - Zheng Guan):** 
   - The 正官 (Proper Officer) appears in the chart, representing structure, discipline, and career-related matters. This indicates that the individual may have opportunities in a field requiring responsibility or leadership. However, Earth elements clashing with the Wood and Water elements might create tension or obstacles in career growth.

### Ten-Year Luck Cycle (大運): 
The Luck Cycle shows the changes in the person’s life at different stages. In this chart:
   - At 15, the 癸亥 (Water) brings opportunities for wealth.
   - In the 25-35 range, the 辛酉 (Metal) cycle introduces a phase of competition, decision-making, or refining skills. Metal controls Wood, so there may be challenges in areas related to authority or career.
   - At 35-45, the 庚申 (Metal) cycle suggests continued emphasis on Metal, bringing opportunities for sharpness, discipline, and achievement.

### General Outlook (Good or Bad BaZi): 
It’s hard to label any chart as strictly "good" or "bad." Instead, the balance of elements is key to understanding a person's life path. In this case, the chart has a relatively strong Earth element, which may suggest someone who is grounded and stable but may face challenges with adaptability, change, or managing their wealth. There is potential for wealth and authority, but balancing these elements is essential to mitigate clashes and difficulties.

For a more in-depth and accurate interpretation, consulting a professional BaZi reader would provide deeper insights into specific life events, relationship dynamics, and career outcomes.

Let me know if you'd like to explore this further!

Online smsek

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #5 on: October 07, 2024, 12:45:14 PM »
see PART 2 of my AI reply to ur subject question ====>From the information given about his son’s BaZi, we can explore possible reasons behind his behavior of not doing well at school and focusing on playing games instead.

In BaZi, children's behavior can be influenced by different factors, such as the balance of elements, the presence of certain stars or gods, and the relationship between pillars.

### Key Factors from His Son's BaZi Chart:

1. **Day Master: 己 (Ji, Yin Earth)**
   - A **Yin Earth Day Master** (己) is often nurturing, sensitive, and values stability. However, Earth can sometimes be inflexible or resistant to change. If the Earth element is too strong or unbalanced, the child may lack motivation or the ability to adapt easily, leading to avoidance behaviors like playing games to escape responsibilities (such as studying).

2. **Influence of Fire (巳 - Si) and Earth (己 - Ji)**
   - The **hour pillar** and **year pillar** both contain 巳 (Si, Snake), which is associated with the Fire element. The Fire element represents energy, passion, and action, but it can also manifest as impatience and impulsiveness.
   - With a heavy influence of Earth and Fire, it is possible that the child prefers activities that give instant gratification (such as games), rather than the slow, methodical process required in studying. Fire tends to seek excitement, which games provide, but it might also mean a lack of focus on long-term goals like academic performance.

3. **Lack of Water and Wood**
   - **Water** in BaZi typically represents intelligence and resourcefulness, while **Wood** represents growth, discipline, and structure. His son’s chart lacks significant Wood and Water, which could mean:
     - **Wood** (representing discipline and self-growth) being weak or missing indicates a struggle with structure and focus. Without enough Wood, the child may lack the natural discipline or motivation to study hard or excel in academic tasks.
     - **Water** being weak can result in low curiosity or interest in intellectual matters. Water is also essential for nurturing Wood (growth), so a lack of Water might contribute to a lack of intellectual engagement, making studying less appealing to him.

4. **Presence of the Star “正官” (Zheng Guan)**
   - **Zheng Guan** represents authority and structure. It is related to discipline, rules, and career paths. However, for the child, **Zheng Guan** may also bring feelings of pressure and resistance to authority. This could result in the child rebelling against structure and academic expectations, preferring to engage in activities like gaming where they feel in control and free from rules.

5. **Ten-Year Luck Cycle (大运)**
   - From the ages of **0-10**, his son is in the **癸亥 (Gui Hai)** luck cycle. This is a Water cycle, which is generally favorable for bringing some fluidity and mental agility. However, it is clashing with the Fire elements in his chart, which can cause internal conflict, distractions, and a tendency toward escaping reality (gaming).
   - The next cycle from **10-20 (壬戌 - Ren Xu)** brings more Earth and Metal elements, which may increase stubbornness or further resistance to discipline, especially if there's not enough balance in the chart.

### Conclusion:

- **Fire and Earth dominance** in the chart may lead to an energetic and passionate nature, but these elements can also cause distractions and a desire for excitement (like gaming) instead of focusing on studies.
- **Weak Water and Wood** suggest that the child may lack natural curiosity and discipline in academic matters.
- The presence of **Zheng Guan** means he might feel pressured by authority figures, such as parents or teachers, leading to resistance or rebellion.

### Possible Recommendations:
- Introduce activities that **balance the Wood and Water elements**, such as engaging the child in structured sports or creative projects that stimulate both discipline and creativity.
- Encourage the child to develop **time management skills**, giving structured time for gaming but balancing it with learning activities that are engaging and interactive.
- Work on understanding the child’s **inner motivations** and find ways to make studying feel less like a chore. For example, incorporating gaming elements into learning (like educational games or challenges) might align better with his natural tendencies.

By supporting the child with these insights, it may be possible to help him focus more on his studies while still allowing space for his interests.

Let me know if you'd like more clarification on any aspect of this!

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Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
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Offline Spiritsfan

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Offline SilverW4ter

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #8 on: October 07, 2024, 04:50:50 PM »
Thank you for the reply

What you mean according to bazi his chart bad for marriage? It’s mean he will not getting married and have children? What is zwds anyway? Which more accurate between bazi and zwds? If it bad for marriage what is the solution?

Thank you and I really appreciate it.

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Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
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Offline ren

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #10 on: October 07, 2024, 10:10:00 PM »
Hi SilverW4ter,

How is your son's relationship with you and his mother?
Are you often away from home or have your own business?

Does your son not like to follow rules and wants to do only stuff he likes?

Thanks,

Ren
"You and I Are Disappearing" Yusef Komunyakaa

Offline SilverW4ter

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #11 on: October 08, 2024, 07:04:59 AM »
ow it seems like not bad thing if he want to delay because you said that "bad marriage" is some kind like creepy thing like when get married will bring disease to his wife or maybe bring disaster etc etc something like creepy thing. may I know how long he delay for married if he has one? or in what age he can have children? and what you mean by first half of life?

another question is what is zwds? is it something like lucky bone weight astrology of yuan tiangang? and do you know about bone weight astrology ? is it accurate?

thank you

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Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
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Offline SilverW4ter

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #13 on: October 08, 2024, 10:44:24 AM »
1. yeah his relationship with her mother and me is good but with me is closer.

2. I often go when I go to work usually. we usually have almost family time every weekend and in the night time for daily

3. I work in family business.

Offline SilverW4ter

Re: Not doing good at school and always play a game
« Reply #14 on: October 08, 2024, 11:05:32 AM »
no I don't have any red flag or inconvenience with my marriage, my marriage is just fine but before he was born my life was worst can not stop drinking and my relationship with my wife not too good but after he was born there is a bit quarrel but now is fine and when he was 3 years old I stop drinking for good.

he was nice kid, he has many friend and all his friend like him whether boy or girl but he just lack of responsibility and can not focus and also forgetfull, so when we ask to do his home work or something important he will forgot when there something excited him such as movie or video games.

for example when we get our dinner if there was cartoon movie he will focus on that tv and will finished his dinner one hour later until his mother get grumpy. he always forgot his mission for tomorrow schedule for his school work.

well actually whether he got married or married late is not big problem as long as he has healthy body and safety. I am sure his mother has a lot of friend that has many daughters so it's not a big problem. the big problem if he is "gay" that's is big no no.

 

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