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Offline Katielum

Help to read my sons bazi
« on: November 26, 2023, 10:03:41 AM »
Hi would appreciate if can help to read my sons bazi

9 nov 23 ,1157am
Male
Malaysia

Is there anything i should tk note of?


Offline aeonrel

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #1 on: November 27, 2023, 03:12:51 AM »
Hi @Katielum ,

Attached is your son's chart.
From the way I read Bazi, here's my thoughts:

Personality
Expressive, talented.
Will use those to his advantage to pursue his goals/wealth.
Inclined to unconventional thinking that leads to problems following instructions/authority.

Age 1-10
Very expressive time in his life.
Conflict with parents/mother due to his wants.
I assume quite typical behavior of children growing up - child will always want to do something funny, parents will restrict.

Age 11-20
Build many friendship.
Friends fuel his expressiveness and goal-pursuits.
Sporadic clashes with authority/things that try and control him.
I think quite typical of teenage years, as long the clash with authority is not severe.
Take special care in 2041 (Age 18) - risk with authority is super strong during this period.

Age 21-20
Be very careful during this period.
Many people trying to take advantage of him or steal his wealth.
Strong chance of wealth loss period.

Age 31-40
His unconventional thinking is very strong this period.
And it leads to some wealth loss, but not as severe as last decade.
Perhaps mid-life crisis?
Wealth also relates to father in Bazi, so take note of father's health / relationship with father during this period.

Age 41-50
A period where his ability to follow rules is stronger and/or ambition is stronger.
If he is under employment, will be better luck at work.
There is also a loss of support element due to wealth.
Support = mother / morals.
Could be mother having health problem and he is spending wealth on her, or he is pursuing some goal that is not so ethical.

Age 51-60
Strongly ambitious period.
But slightly confusing, as his expressiveness also conflicts with his ambitious nature.
How this plays out, difficult to tell.

I can read further into 70s and 80s, but I assume up to this stage is sufficient?

Relationship
Not bad with ladies, as long his wealth luck is undamaged.
Periods where his wealth luck is affected, affinity with females poorer.
Future spouse will be supportive of him, but will be controlled by him.
Will have conflicts.

Family
Generally equal affinity with both parents, but maybe slightly better with father.
Mother is a bit more controlling and he doesn't like it.

Online coldpillow

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #2 on: November 27, 2023, 12:20:26 PM »
ZWDS chart: https://zwds-calculator.com/chart2?month=11&day=9&year=2023&h=12&m=00&gender=Male&luck_year=2023&gmt=8&long=103.89

- He'll be easily influenced by much older people who are smarter and wiser than him.
- Good social and verbal skills.
- Musical talent.
- Easily get helping hands.
- Travel a lot.
- Likes food and female attention.

Offline Katielum

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #3 on: July 24, 2024, 05:19:59 AM »
Thank you cold pillow & aeonrel
Will he face much hardships in life?
Or generally okay?
How is his health/emotional health?

Will he be able to keep wealth ?

Thank you

Online coldpillow

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #4 on: July 24, 2024, 05:48:40 AM »
His family life/marriage looks more challenging than personal life, which also reflects his family life with parents. 

Offline Katielum

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #5 on: July 25, 2024, 01:36:09 PM »
Does it mean that generally wont have good relationships with family? To the extent of hating us?
Or just different opinions? But he still loves his parents?

Online coldpillow

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #6 on: July 25, 2024, 01:56:37 PM »
Does it mean that generally wont have good relationships with family? To the extent of hating us?
Or just different opinions? But he still loves his parents?

Family life isn't smooth and peaceful. There's insecurity, discomfort, constant pressure, physical/emotional pain.

Are you like that now?

Offline Katielum

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #7 on: July 25, 2024, 03:36:57 PM »
Me and my husband are not close to our family
Could that be why?

This is my birth details . Does it link to me  :(

17.04.94 8.30am
china
Female

Online coldpillow

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #8 on: July 25, 2024, 04:26:01 PM »
Me and my husband are not close to our family

Not close and that's it? Looks like it's actually broken beyond all repair to me.

He's not even 1 year old, do you notice a problem with him already or anything that made you uncomfortable?
« Last Edit: July 25, 2024, 05:05:36 PM by coldpillow »

Offline Katielum

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #9 on: July 26, 2024, 01:38:58 AM »
Sorry i meant not close to our own parents

We and our kids are okay. Just that husband is always busy at work and im the one usually handling kids with a helper

Online coldpillow

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #10 on: July 26, 2024, 02:49:15 AM »
Sorry i meant not close to our own parents

We and our kids are okay. Just that husband is always busy at work and im the one usually handling kids with a helper

Your busy husband easily fits your chart.

"Not close" sounds mild to me. I expect much bigger conflict or estrangement (very little to no communication).

« Last Edit: July 26, 2024, 02:53:17 AM by coldpillow »

Offline Katielum

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #11 on: July 26, 2024, 10:49:37 AM »
Could it be cos im adopted?
I dont know who my birth parents are. Hv been adopted to malaysia since im 4

I still talk to my adoptive father but not often.   And my adoptive mother passed away already

Online coldpillow

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #12 on: July 26, 2024, 12:00:43 PM »
No. It could be your bad luck with parents or parental figure.

The problem is something about your parents, not you.

Quote
I still talk to my adoptive father but not often.

Do you talk to him this year? Looks like he's very unhappy.
« Last Edit: July 26, 2024, 12:04:17 PM by coldpillow »

Offline Katielum

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #13 on: July 26, 2024, 02:43:22 PM »
 My adoptive parents are quite secretive and stubborn
They dont share their thoughts with me
But i do know that they care

We talk but more on surface level

Online coldpillow

Re: Help to read my sons bazi
« Reply #14 on: July 26, 2024, 03:56:15 PM »
A busy husband and stoic adoptive parents. Interesting.

I wonder if this means you shouldn't invest much feeling/emotion into your family life, because your life turns out OK that way.

Shallow yet functional relationship brings peace while profound relationship brings pain.

 

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