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Offline Furbi

Frustated Fellow
« on: July 27, 2024, 07:48:01 PM »
Hello
Does anyone have any knowledge to reach 'closure' with unhappy life?
I've read few posts in this Free Life Reading and it seems a lot of people struggle with it.
So I thought might as well open a forum that probably someone can share their mindset or objective mindset about life.

I've paid few Bazi Readers either mangbai or 5 elements, and I can tell you that the result more or less the same as @aeonrel stated there is silver lining on it. And for me, it just a forecast for my life but most probability it only control my reaction towards that actions happened in life. I have concluded to change the outcome you need to work really really hard that it CHANGE you (either it change your personality and you wont be in this forum).

I have learnt that when some 'tragedy' happen in your life, keep asking yourself 'why' peeling that tragedy, until you get the core. Sometime there are solutions, but cant be done. Thus, it force you to stay in that uncomfortable spot for a long period of time. OR. change your mindset, and enjoy that new phase.

And for me sometimes it help, but sometimes it doesnt.

It makes me wonder, why this knowledge of Bazi (either mangbai or 5 elements) invented? Because if you have a bad life, and you go to Bazi readers it will give the same result  :-\
Whether they tell you the reason why, you still need to walk that bad life.

Correct me if im wrong :) please be open minded and we have discussion in civil manner.

Online coldpillow

Re: Frustated Fellow
« Reply #1 on: July 27, 2024, 11:14:11 PM »
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Offline aeonrel

Re: Frustated Fellow
« Reply #2 on: July 28, 2024, 12:46:06 PM »
@Furbi ,

Actually, I think those who have a truly bad life backed with a truly bad Bazi are not very common.
Most of us will fall in the middle of a very large spectrum between perfectly good and extremely bad.
Some of us who have a bad experience might not be aware that the root cause is still a manageable aspect.
i.e. Wrong mentality about life, or unknowing obsession, nasty attitude, etc.
By having your Bazi read, it gives you this awareness of yourself and life around you.
The strengths, the weaknesses, the potential, the pitfalls.
And then one can take proactive steps to capitalize on the potentials and strengths, avoid the pitfalls and weaknesses.

Granted, the theory behind Bazi and destiny is that you can't change that road.
But it is also not so specific as to what exact event will take place.
A person still has wiggle room within the width of the road.
This wiggle room can give vastly different outcomes.

Take for example, a pair of twins, born with exactly the same Bazi under the same household.
Their lives can turn out completely different by the end due the environment they are exposed to, and the decisions they make.
Same for a person with a bad Bazi.
There are others with exactly the same bad Bazi, but the severity differs due to different environment and actions.

For me, Bazi and other fortune telling techniques, despite the unchangeable predicted path, is still good for awareness and planning.
Just like a weather forecast of an oncoming storm.
You can't change the weather, but with knowledge, you can make wiser plans to tackle it.

Offline ren

Re: Frustated Fellow
« Reply #3 on: July 29, 2024, 03:10:14 AM »
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Offline Shanee

Re: Frustated Fellow
« Reply #4 on: July 29, 2024, 09:00:17 AM »
Hello all!

In metaphysic world there known 3 aspects that can shape human destiny.
It's called: Heaven, Earth, and Man.

Your chart is whatever Heaven gave you, when you said you went to some Bazi reader and their reading was almost identical with each other. Well, it is what it is. They read what they're supposed to do. It's their job btw.
But you have some freewill to do whatever you wish to do. For example: If you were destined to die in 2 weeks, you need to choose whether you want to die in a religious site, or in a local liquor bar, or even in your home surrounded and embraced by your warm and loving family.

I know what it feels like to be worthless. Trust me it hurts. And looking at my damn chart won't even help but instead will make me more angry haha ;D

And now lets go back to your question:
"Does anyone have any knowledge to reach 'closure' with unhappy life?"
The answer is: Nobody does. But you can make this life feels less "unhappy", it's not to ask too many "whys", but instead lets ask too many "hows". Sometimes sharing about your problem to some people that close to you will also make you feel a little bit better.

I apologize if my reply sound like gibberish.
Have a nice day.
« Last Edit: July 29, 2024, 09:03:23 AM by Shanee »

 

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