Connected to past life?

[BetterTogether]

Thank you very much for this reading. Very grateful for your insights.
I guess I will need to search for answers within me. I have difficulties in making connections with others (whether that is friendship, love, work, whatever). That is a big frustration and not sure why I always run into feeling connected with someone but never able to encounter the real connection by heart. I just don't succeed in it. And for some reason I then each time encounter persons who reflect this. I like someone but there is no possibility for connection as the other person is simply not interested in me.
Again, like this situation, feeling connected in some way and it is just a dead end thing, an illusion or something.
I am pondering for a long time already, visited therapists but still struggling in the same situations.
Not sure what to do about it.
Thanks again

[ren]

Hi BetterTogether,

No need to start beating yourself up. If what I interpreted from the hexagram you casted is relevant and resonates with you, then good.
Insights offer clarity and opportunities.

I am going to be busy for a few days, but when I regain time, I will revisit your chart. Maybe others can also chime in on your chart and maybe how your chart (bazi and ZWDC) relates to relationships.

All the best,

ren

[Spiritsfan]

Question for the karmic connection, how do you see such thing in a bazi chart(out of interest)

Both of us born in northern hemisphere.

So her elements trigger me?

Hello.

It is not necessarily related to a past life. Her BaZi chart has all the elements that are beneficial to you. Therefore, you feel good around her. Her and your pillars of luck do not show your karmic connection.

Update.

Only if one of you, or both, were not born in the southern solar hemisphere. You need to know the place of birth. Then there will be other pillars of luck.

Hello. I now prefer to minimize information on how to read the pillars of luck in public. There are people who say that they belong to the Taoist BaZi. But in fact they are deceivers. Please understand and forgive me. And a psychologist will not help you. Your pillars of luck say that in your past life you brought a lot of harm to people. And your current life is retribution. Karma. You have a good BaZi chart, but bad pillars of luck. This is the most morally difficult combination. You understand and feel everything, but you can’t do anything about it. The gods know how to punish.

[BetterTogether]

I totally understand your hesitance. Do not worry.
So bad karma for rest of my life. Any possibility to resolve this in this life or will I just need to absorb and undergo it?
Any point I will have a satisfying connection (friendship, love,...)?

[Spiritsfan]

I totally understand your hesitance. Do not worry.
So bad karma for rest of my life. Any possibility to resolve this in this life or will I just need to absorb and undergo it?
Any point I will have a satisfying connection (friendship, love,...)?

In your case, love is possible only in the form of your self-sacrifice. In the generally accepted sense. You will have to give more in the relationship than to your partner.
Charity accelerates the closing of karmic debts.

[BetterTogether]

I have seen that in the relationship of my parents. My mother giving way more than my father in the relationship. I always wanted to do that differently, yet I am in that type of relationship or connections where I do not seem to be the receiving one.
That does not look good for me for future connections then. Not sure I am able to accept that. It is really frustrating. Longing for a deep loving true connection as well, whether that is friendship or something more.

[Spiritsfan]

I have seen that in the relationship of my parents. My mother giving way more than my father in the relationship. I always wanted to do that differently, yet I am in that type of relationship or connections where I do not seem to be the receiving one.
That does not look good for me for future connections then. Not sure I am able to accept that. It is really frustrating. Longing for a deep loving true connection as well, whether that is friendship or something more.

I have already written here. What you want but cannot get is what you took from others in a past life. Until you learn to give it away, the learning will continue. I cannot give you exact answers, you must find them yourself.