Can NOT handle money wisely

[vema]

My daughter was born in Jakarta January 18th 2012 at around 3:15am, I & she often had a big fight over how to spend money wisely.

One of her  friends often sell crappy / thrashy /useless stuffs to her with expensive price. I'm not rich. I work between jobs and don't have steady job that's why I want her to spend her money wisely.

One time she even asked me to just kill her and sell her organs to get money or just sell her to others.. she hates me for this.

She also lies to me many times when I ask her if she still buys stuffs from her. When I confront her, she says she wants freedom to use her own money. I advise her what to buy and not to buy.. but she won't listen. She can't save money. I'm worried about her future. She said she doesn't care even if she becomes homeless. This makes me sad.

Judging from her birthchart, can she change about the way she manages money? I'm truly worried about her future.

Thank you so much in advance.

[coldpillow]

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[vema]

Thank you so much to @coldpillow for your insight regarding my only daughter. Yes, she's my only child. Sometimes I wish I had another better child I can rely on.

I've been thinking of managing her money, but she's very deffensive and always says that 'this is my money, I do whatever I do on it', or 'can I have privacy and freedom to do ANYTHING I like?"

She's saying this while shouting and crying, sometimes even hitting me physically while I never hit her back. I'm just speechless, don't know how to react.

I also notice that she likes drawing gory comic characters, which look scary to me :-(

All I want is just she can be dependent in her life. I'm afraid she'll have to live her life the hard way, that's why I'm trying to save her, but she looks at it the other way round, as if I'm controling her..

I'm impatient and short tempered myself, which is not good for our communication.

I'm looking for ways of how to make her trust me to manage her money. But still don't know how to communicate well with her.

[coldpillow]

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[vema]

I agree. Many of her friends and I myself see that she can draw very nicely although nobody teaches her.

I really need profssional help regarding controlling her behavior.
About her husband, does it mean that he's the kind of person that's financially dependent on women?

What about her kids? Do you have any idea about her kids?

Will she also have a stable job to support her?

Thank you again in advance🙏

[coldpillow]

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[vema]

Thank you so much for your insights🙏🙏

At least she has a career & can support herself.. that's quite a relief.

Life is hard and hope that we all can be strong.

[coldpillow]

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[vema]

Thank you.. I do notice that she's very sensitive. Even when I'm just kidding, she'll take it seriously and get furious..
thank you for reminding me.

[nin99]

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