Career, wealth, health and relationship from 33-42 decade

[samster]

Please could somebody help me read my chart regarding career, relationship and and wealth.

DOB 3 Dec 1991. Time 0112. male. Place: Singapore

Let me know if you need more information from me.

Thank you.

[Spiritsfan]

Hello. According to Taoist BaZi, you were most likely born in the southern solar hemisphere. And at the junction of dates. You are either yin or yang fire. You can clarify this by looking at your past life. Tell us what your life was like from 2005 to 2010. Good - DM yang fire. Bad - DM yin fire.
And from 2015 to 2020.

[samster]

2005-2010

I was 14-19 yrs old. Doing well in school with good grades. Not much worries in life.

2015-2020 -

2015 had some health problems

2016 graduated university.

2017-2020 started working and changed jobs a few times

[smsek]

PART 1===>To assess whether this 丁 (Ding) Fire Day Master (DM) is strong or weak, we need to examine the chart's supportive or controlling elements, especially focusing on the presence and intensity of Fire and Wood (supporting elements) as well as Water and Earth (controlling and draining elements).

### Step 1: Assessing Day Master's Strength

1. **Ding Fire (Day Master)**:
   - Born in **亥月** (Hai Month - Water season), the environment is cold, which generally weakens Fire.
   - The **Month Branch (亥)** has both **Water (壬)** and **Wood (甲)**, with Water predominating. Water has a draining effect on Ding Fire.
   - The chart has **two 未 branches (未日, 未年)**, containing **Dry Earth** (supportive storage for Fire) and **Yin Wood** (乙), which provides some support but isn't strong enough in the Water season.
   - Both **時柱 (Hour Pillar)** and **年柱 (Year Pillar)** have **辛 Metal**, which controls Wood, further limiting any potential support to Ding Fire.

2. **Elements Supporting or Weakening the DM**:
   - **Fire** (Ding) itself is present but lacks seasonal support and is somewhat drained by the Water in the chart.
   - **Earth (未 and 丑)** supports Fire by serving as a storage and buffering element against Water, but its strength is limited because of the cold season.
   - **Wood**, while partially present (乙木 in 未), is suppressed by Metal (辛), so its support to Fire is limited.

3. **Conclusion on Strength**:
   - The Ding Fire Day Master appears **weak** in this chart because the cold Water season and presence of controlling Water and Metal elements diminish its strength. There is limited seasonal support and insufficient backup from Wood.

### Step 2: Identifying Favorable and Unfavorable Elements

Given the weak Ding Fire, the chart favors elements that can support and stabilize Fire:

- **Favorable Elements**:
  - **Wood (木)**: To fuel and support the Fire.
  - **Fire (火)**: To strengthen the Ding Fire itself.
  - **Dry Earth (土)**: To stabilize and provide a grounding base, supporting Fire against Water.

- **Unfavorable Elements**:
  - **Water (水)**: Controls Fire directly, weakening it further.
  - **Metal (金)**: Controls Wood, which reduces the support available for Fire.

### Step 3: Interpreting Career, Relationship, and Wealth

#### Career
- **Potential Career Directions**:
  - Favor careers related to **Wood** or **Fire** elements, such as education, design, technology, or the arts. These fields would align with his favorable elements and provide a supportive environment for growth.
  - Avoid Water and Metal fields, such as logistics, finance, or heavy industry, as these could lead to challenges in career stability and growth.

#### Relationship
- **Romantic Prospects**:
  - A weak Fire DM may prefer a partner with strong Earth or Wood elements to bring balance and support.
  - In relationships, prioritizing mutual support and understanding will be beneficial, especially in handling emotions and stability, given the potential for Water elements in his environment to create stress.

#### Wealth
- **Wealth Prospects**:
  - Wealth elements for a Ding Fire Day Master are **Metal**. Since Metal is unfavorable in his chart, pursuing wealth directly may require caution.
  - Favor wealth accumulation through Wood and Fire-related fields instead of direct Metal-related pursuits. This indirect approach may be more suitable, as it aligns with the chart’s elemental needs.
  - Wealth management could be challenging; stability will require strategic planning, especially in avoiding ventures that heavily rely on Metal or Water elements.

[smsek]

PART 2==>The **Time Pillar (辛丑)** clashing with the **Day Pillar (丁未)** can indeed influence areas related to spouse relationships, career, and children, as the Day Pillar represents the self and spouse, while the Time Pillar often reflects later life, legacy, and connections to children.

### Analysis of Time and Day Pillar Clash

1. **Heavenly Stem Clash**: **辛 (Xin) vs. 丁 (Ding)**
   - The clash between **辛 Metal** and **丁 Fire** in the Heavenly Stems indicates a challenging interaction, with Metal controlling or weakening Fire.
   - This clash could signify tension in relationships, especially with a spouse, as the controlling relationship of Metal over Fire can bring about power struggles, miscommunication, or conflicts in priorities within intimate relationships.
   - In a career context, this stem clash may reflect struggles in managing interpersonal relationships, particularly with superiors or authority figures. It suggests that balancing personal desires with external demands could be challenging, potentially leading to career shifts or disruptions if not handled carefully.

2. **Earthly Branch Clash**: **丑 (Chou) vs. 未 (Wei)**
   - The **丑 (Chou) Earth** and **未 (Wei) Earth** branches are in a clash, often called a **“storage clash”**, which impacts stability in life domains associated with these pillars.
   - This Earthly Branch clash can create instability in relationships, potentially leading to separation, disagreements, or misunderstandings with the spouse. If left unmanaged, it may result in frequent disagreements or even temporary separations, especially during periods when these Earth branches are further activated by transits or Luck Pillars.

3. **Impact on Spouse Relationship**:
   - Since the Day Pillar represents both the self and the spouse, this clash can be seen as a recurring challenge in achieving harmony in marital relationships.
   - The spouse might experience stress related to career or household responsibilities, or there may be conflicting life goals. Efforts to create mutual understanding and balance will be essential to maintain stability in the marriage.

4. **Impact on Career**:
   - The clash between 丁 Fire and 辛 Metal, along with the clashing branches, suggests that career progression may involve frequent challenges, such as dealing with authority conflicts, changing roles, or struggling with work-life balance.
   - In terms of children, this clash might indicate potential distance or misunderstandings, especially as the individual enters later life stages. Flexibility, open communication, and patience will be essential in both career and family matters.

5. **Impact on Children Luck/Relationship**:
   - The Time Pillar is associated with children in later life, and clashes here could signify challenges in building a smooth or harmonious relationship with them, particularly when facing periods of conflict or miscommunication.
   - The **丑 and 未** clash can create distance or misunderstandings, which may require patience and a proactive approach to maintain close, positive relationships.

### Summary and Advice

- **Relationship Advice**: Given these clashes, it would be beneficial to foster open communication, empathy, and understanding with the spouse to minimize tension. In challenging times, prioritizing emotional stability and mutual respect will be key to maintaining harmony.
 
- **Career Advice**: In professional life, he may need to stay adaptable and manage any potential conflicts tactfully, especially with authority figures. Avoiding confrontations and finding roles that allow a degree of independence may reduce the impact of this clash.

- **Children and Later Life**: The individual may need to practice patience and flexibility in nurturing relationships with children. Ensuring open communication and being proactive about misunderstandings will help to foster a positive family environment.

[samster]

Thanks smsek. Just to check, is this reading about my life in general or is it narrowed down to the 33-42year old stage?

[smsek]

The interpretation I provided covers a **general life reading** rather than focusing exclusively on the **33-42 year old stage**. This means the insights into relationship challenges, career dynamics, and family interactions apply broadly across his life.

However, the **33-42 age range** falls within his **丙申 Luck Pillar** (Fire and Metal), which can intensify some of these dynamics due to the specific interactions during this period. Here's how the general reading may relate to this stage in particular:

1. **Relationship and Marriage**:
   - During the 丙申 (Bing Shen) Luck Pillar, the **丙 Fire** stem and **申 Metal** branch interact with his natal elements, potentially amplifying the existing Heavenly Stem clash between **丁 Fire** (Day Pillar) and **辛 Metal** (Hour Pillar).
   - This period may bring both opportunities and heightened challenges in relationships, with a potential for both attraction and conflict in close partnerships. Working through these challenges can deepen connections if handled with care.

2. **Career**:
   - The **申 (Monkey) Metal** branch in this Luck Pillar further emphasizes the Metal energy, impacting his Fire Day Master (丁) and influencing career situations. This could bring both opportunities for growth and challenges involving competition or control.
   - It may be a period of heightened activity in his career, likely involving new roles, responsibilities, or even potential career shifts. Navigating these opportunities will require adaptability and strategic decision-making.

3. **Children and Family**:
   - The influence of **申 Metal** and the Fire element in this Luck Pillar could also impact his interactions with family or children, emphasizing the need for clear communication and emotional support.

In summary, while the reading was general, the **33-42 stage** (丙申 Luck Pillar) does highlight and intensify certain dynamics in relationships, career, and family. This period may bring both growth and challenges, offering significant experiences that contribute to his overall life journey.

[samster]

This is my bazi chart for reference

[smsek]

his Bazi chart in text-only format on a forum,

八字：　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　大運（虛歲）　　
　　　　　時　　　　日　　　　月　　　　年　　　　９　→　　１９　戊戌
　　　　　柱　　　　柱　　　　柱　　　　柱　　　１９　→　　２９　丁酉
　　　　　：　　　　：　　　　：　　　　：　　★２９　→　　４０　丙申
　　　　　偏　　　　　　　　　食　　　　偏　　　４０　→　　５０　乙未
　　　　　財　　　　　　　　　神　　　　財　　　５０　→　　６０　甲午
　　　　　辛　　　　丁　　　　己　　　　辛　　　６０　→　　７１　癸巳
　　　　　丑　　　　未　　　　亥　　　　未　　　７１　→　　８１　壬辰
　　　　辛癸己　　乙丁己　　　甲壬　　乙丁己　　８１　→　　９１　辛卯
　　　　偏七食　　偏比食　　　正正　　偏比食　　９１　→　１００　庚寅
　　　　財殺神　　印肩神　　　印官　　印肩神

[samster]

Thanks SMSEK.

The decade up to 40 does not look so smooth. How about the period from 40-50?

[smsek]

During the **40-50 Luck Pillar (乙未)**, there is indeed a direct clash with his **Hour Pillar (辛丑)** in both the **Heavenly Stem (乙 vs. 辛)** and the **Earthly Branch (未 vs. 丑)**. This clash can influence several areas, especially those connected to later-life goals, relationships with children, and aspects of wealth and career.

### Impact of 乙未 Luck Pillar Clash with 辛丑 Time Pillar

1. **Relationship and Marriage**:
   - The **Heavenly Stem clash** between **乙 Wood** and **辛 Metal** may increase stress in close relationships. This clash can indicate potential conflicts or control dynamics, especially in personal relationships, including marriage.
   - His spouse may have different perspectives or goals, leading to disagreements or tension if not managed with clear communication and mutual respect. Resolving conflicts proactively will help navigate this phase.

2. **Career**:
   - The **未 (Wei) and 丑 (Chou)** clash could create instability or sudden changes in his career, especially since **Earth** represents stability and resources. He might experience shifts in job roles or professional responsibilities, or even face decisions regarding work-life balance.
   - The clash with **辛 Metal** may also signify competition or a need to defend his position, potentially highlighting power struggles in the workplace. This could be an opportune time for strategic career shifts, adapting to new responsibilities, or exploring leadership roles.

3. **Wealth**:
   - This period could bring both opportunities and challenges in wealth accumulation. The **乙 Wood** stem, associated with wealth growth for Fire Day Masters like him, could bring potential gains, but these may be offset by the clash with **辛 Metal**, indicating possible financial pressure or unexpected expenses.
   - He may need to focus on stable financial planning and avoid speculative or high-risk investments, as the Earthly Branch clash can sometimes create resource strain or unstable income sources.

4. **Relationship with Children**:
   - The Hour Pillar often reflects later-life relationships and connections with children. The **未-丑 clash** might indicate occasional distance or misunderstandings with children during this period, especially if differing goals or perspectives arise.
   - This period calls for patience and openness in maintaining close family relationships, fostering understanding with younger generations, and ensuring that minor conflicts do not escalate.

### Summary and Advice for the 40-50 Period (乙未 LP)
This Luck Pillar will bring growth opportunities but also challenges, especially in maintaining stability and harmonious relationships. To navigate this phase successfully, he should focus on:
- **Effective communication** in personal relationships to prevent misunderstandings.
- **Career adaptability** to handle shifts or competitive dynamics.
- **Cautious financial management** to ensure stability amidst potential disruptions.
- **Family engagement** and maintaining flexibility in handling differences with children or younger family members.

By embracing these strategies, he can turn potential clashes into growth opportunities.

[nin99]

During the **40-50 Luck Pillar (乙未)**, there is indeed a direct clash with his **Hour Pillar (辛丑)** in both the **Heavenly Stem (乙 vs. 辛)** and the **Earthly Branch (未 vs. 丑)**. This clash can influence several areas, especially those connected to later-life goals, relationships with children, and aspects of wealth and career.

### Impact of 乙未 Luck Pillar Clash with 辛丑 Time Pillar

1. **Relationship and Marriage**:
   - The **Heavenly Stem clash** between **乙 Wood** and **辛 Metal** may increase stress in close relationships. This clash can indicate potential conflicts or control dynamics, especially in personal relationships, including marriage.
   - His spouse may have different perspectives or goals, leading to disagreements or tension if not managed with clear communication and mutual respect. Resolving conflicts proactively will help navigate this phase.

2. **Career**:
   - The **未 (Wei) and 丑 (Chou)** clash could create instability or sudden changes in his career, especially since **Earth** represents stability and resources. He might experience shifts in job roles or professional responsibilities, or even face decisions regarding work-life balance.
   - The clash with **辛 Metal** may also signify competition or a need to defend his position, potentially highlighting power struggles in the workplace. This could be an opportune time for strategic career shifts, adapting to new responsibilities, or exploring leadership roles.

3. **Wealth**:
   - This period could bring both opportunities and challenges in wealth accumulation. The **乙 Wood** stem, associated with wealth growth for Fire Day Masters like him, could bring potential gains, but these may be offset by the clash with **辛 Metal**, indicating possible financial pressure or unexpected expenses.
   - He may need to focus on stable financial planning and avoid speculative or high-risk investments, as the Earthly Branch clash can sometimes create resource strain or unstable income sources.

4. **Relationship with Children**:
   - The Hour Pillar often reflects later-life relationships and connections with children. The **未-丑 clash** might indicate occasional distance or misunderstandings with children during this period, especially if differing goals or perspectives arise.
   - This period calls for patience and openness in maintaining close family relationships, fostering understanding with younger generations, and ensuring that minor conflicts do not escalate.

### Summary and Advice for the 40-50 Period (乙未 LP)
This Luck Pillar will bring growth opportunities but also challenges, especially in maintaining stability and harmonious relationships. To navigate this phase successfully, he should focus on:
- **Effective communication** in personal relationships to prevent misunderstandings.
- **Career adaptability** to handle shifts or competitive dynamics.
- **Cautious financial management** to ensure stability amidst potential disruptions.
- **Family engagement** and maintaining flexibility in handling differences with children or younger family members.

By embracing these strategies, he can turn potential clashes into growth opportunities.

@smsek what school of bazi are you?!
You are very good

[samster]

thanks @smsek

[coldpillow]

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[samster]

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DOB 3 Dec 1991. Time 0112. male. Place: Singapore

Let me know if you need more information from me.

If you were born in SG, your birth hour is rat. Not ox.

According to a ZWDS shortcut, your chart structure is inauspicious: https://destinyandluck.com/zhi_wei_chart.php?month=12&day=3&year=1991&time=12am+to+12%3A59am&sex=Male&submit=Submit

命裡逢空格

Prerequisite: Di Jie and/or Di Kong in Ming.

Note: Psychologically the native encounters loneliness; alone, isolated, in solitude. And it is difficult holding on to money.

Source: http://zwdsastrology.blogspot.com/2011/12/inauspicious-star-configurations.html

I'm not sure how bad you actually feel in reality. From my own understanding about your chart:
- your progress is generally more unpredictable and unstable than smooth.
- you're prone to gambling (impulsive).
- life often works against your wishes and plans. As if you don't belong or can't easily fit in.
- it's difficult to succeed with your own effort. You need to team up or partner up. Therefore your wealth depends on the quality of your relationship with other people.

hi coldpillow

your read of my chart is accurate.

thanks. are you able to tell me more on how i can overcome the inauspiciousness?