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Title: anybody can tell me why I am having a horrible time now.
Post by: soso123 on March 19, 2022, 08:39:06 PM
My chart is:

YOUR PAHT CHEE CHART   
    Date: 15-Feb-1948   Time of Birth: 04:30   Gender: Male   

My business seems to be collapsing. Is there hope?
Appreciate any help.
    

Title: Re: anybody can tell me why I am having a horrible time now.
Post by: JLim (Darma W) on March 21, 2022, 04:01:39 AM
Hi soso123,

 Y       M       D       H
Wu    Jia   Geng    Wu
 Zi     Yin     Wu     Yin  male

LP Xin You (Jan 2014-Jan 2024)

Don't worry.  This year seems to be better than last year.
Title: Re: anybody can tell me why I am having a horrible time now.
Post by: ella lim on March 25, 2022, 01:41:04 PM

You are going through a hard time now as this year is the ren yin year. And you have 2 tigers in your natal chart - Tai Shui (Attention).
It is not necessary a bad thing.

Use this year to relook at the direction and the structure of the company/business. There may be a need to pivot/change if you want to continue. To get a sense of where you should go, think about what your customers want/need and less on making profit. Once you can serve the customers well, the profit will come. Time to re-look. Be ready to unlearn and learn new things.

You are a person who is very visionary, resourceful and has strong ability to see big picture/analyze major trend so you will be able to figure out. You are now constrained by your own limiting belief.

You also have the gift of great imagination so use it wisely. You may be letting your imagination drift in a negative direction, resulting in unwarranted fear and anxiety.

Your current business requires you to leverage on others very often. However, mix with the right people, otherwise their negative energy/comments may do you harm than good. Not all come with good intent so you don't have to take it to heart. Be selective with who you spend your time with.

In this current 10 years, till you are 76, there is "destruction" due to the rat and rooster. To deal with this, do not whine but to ask yourself what have you gotten out of the experience, miserable it may be. Find the problem and achieve breakthrough. Seize the opportunity to start afresh and stop bad habits which may be excessive alcohol/cause you to go into downward spiral/depression. Move on !
Title: Re: anybody can tell me why I am having a horrible time now.
Post by: soso123 on March 26, 2022, 08:29:45 PM
Yes, the beginning of this year is really horrible. Let me tell you why. I am a partner with another business person.[45 years already]. In fact, about 15 to 20 years ago, I wanted to leave my partner and start on my own. But because of a partnership being better than a sole proprietorship, I stick on with him. Maybe out of continuity, I am the type that does not like to change. This year, suddenly my partner through his sister in law said he wanted the husband [retired old man and a non professional] of his sister in law to join the firm. In fact, my partner had a stroke 3 and a half year ago, and during this time, I assisted him to run the firm. He does not go to the office to work or meet clients. Without me, he cannot carry on as he is unable to talk or use his hand to write. So during this 3 1/2 year, I help him to earn money but his sister in law [old lady not a professional just a mere clerk]  in the firm wants to own and control the firm like it belongs to her and her family. Without me, the partnership cannot exist as it is a professional firm [requires licence to exist]. So I said dissolve and the sister in law now is trying to "KILL" me or destroy me by telling/doing things that hurt or belittle me. She forgot that I am the one who enabled her to carry on earning a living during the past 3 1/2 years. I did not benefit from helping. In fact, I have to settle all problems and messes she created. Now my wife, not working with me, told me that this is the luckiest thing that can happen to me during the past 45 years. Now I am starting my own sole proprietorship and the new firm will commence within a month or two.
I am old already and I am also worried that I may knock out or have a stroke also. I signed a two year office lease and I pray that I can carry on through the coming two years. I like to work until I die.
Title: Re: anybody can tell me why I am having a horrible time now.
Post by: ella lim on March 26, 2022, 10:17:58 PM
Thanks for sharing.

Life is short and no point having people in your life who drain you of your energy. Choose your friends/partners carefully and to break if it doesn't work. Don't let their negative energy influence you. Glad that you took the step to break out of the horrible partnership and start afresh.

All the best to your life ahead !