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General discussions => FREE Life Reading Request => Topic started by: Good on September 26, 2023, 06:14:58 PM
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Female, GMT+7
I’d like to know my life esp career money and relationship.
Thank you for your kind reading and advice. :)
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Hi @Good ,
Can you provide your city of birth and full birth date, especially the birth hour?
This is to check if the chart is correctly solar adjusted.
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Hi @Good ,
Can you provide your city of birth and full birth date, especially the birth hour?
This is to check if the chart is correctly solar adjusted.
Thank you so much.
19.06.1976. Bangkok
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@Good
Are you able to provide the birth time too?
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@Good
Are you able to provide the birth time too?
Yes, it is a few seconds around 6:00 am.
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With rabbit hour, it's a possible wealth follower chart: https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&y=1976&m=6&d=19&h=6&g=0&l=0&s=1
Do you have good luck with career/finance during 20s to 30s but starts wobbling in your 40s (Ji Chou LP)?
Do you have problems with loud, temperamental men?
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Between 20 and 25 were challenging in terms of career progress and finance (my family went bankrupt when I was 19, whereas the period from 26 to 35 was significantly better for advancing my career. Up until now, my career path has been ups and downs, but the compensation consistently improved during these periods. And also I don’t need to be worry about my family because they are a bit well-off now.
I don’t like hot temper guy but now I don’t have anyone like that in my close circle.
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Aside from bankruptcy, do you have other low points? Particularly in 2008-2009, 2019-2020?
Married or not, your partner's bazi chart should preserve or combine with wood/fire in your chart, IMO.
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2008-09 was my lucky year for career advancement but with a lot of backstabbing happened to me in my office. 2019 I underwent a minor surgery.
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As a follower chart, your lucky elements (wood and fire) are absent during Ji Chou and Wu Zi LP. I guess you will have more low points than high from your mid 40s to mid 60s.
But it will get better again during Ding Hai and Bing Xu (mid 60s to mid 80s).
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Thank you very much. Can you explain more about my partner? I am still single.
And can you please advice how can I improve my luck?
By the way, I think the best luck period of my life was 0-12, second best 28-36.
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Thank you very much. Can you explain more about my partner? I am still single.
And can you please advice how can I improve my luck?
Wood and fire are your lucky elements. So, commercial relationship and romance should preserve the strength of these elements in your chart.
Your partner's bazi chart should preserve/amplify wood/fire in your chart, not clash. This may reflect more on his personality than career or financial status.
You only need improvement during unfavorable decade luck. Aside from keeping your expectation low and trying to slow down accordingly, you may need assistance from people or companies who preserve/amplify wood/fire in your chart. Some companies have known official birthdays.
Activities/objects related to wood and fire also help, but the effect is limited to happiness or relaxation. If you're peaceful, then maybe you're healthier too.
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thank you for your explanation. May I ask that in which specific aspect— ie career, finance, or relationships—does the Earth element have unfavorable impact on me significantly? And should i avoid having an earth/water/metal person as a partner ?
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thank you for your explanation. May I ask that in which specific aspect— ie career, finance, or relationships—does the Earth element have unfavorable impact on me significantly? And should i avoid having an earth/water/metal person as a partner ?
Basically, earth is okay as long as its presence combines/supports your fire (wealth). So, dry earth like Wei/Xu is better than wet earth like Chen/Chou.
IMO, earth from LP will have more impact on your career/finance. Earth from other people's chart will have more impact on relationship. Same with wood/fire.
Yeah, you should beware of people with strong wet earth, water or metal in their chart. They can be friends, but not as close as business partners or life companion.
Naturally, you are attracted to wood and fire energy in other bazi charts. But beware of 'surface-level' attraction. Their stems are wood and fire, but the branches (contain bigger energy) are dominated by water/metal/wet earth. The person may appear nice and fun to talk with, but they don't have what you need as a life companion. So, you should dig deep to really know who they are.
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@Good ,
Actually, earth in your own chart is your spousal luck.
If you want better chance of getting a partner, you would want to strike at a time period where your earth luck is stronger and unharmed, then you chances of getting together with the opposite gender is higher.
This is separate from the topic of elemental energy of the other person's chart, which is tackling compatibility.
So while I agree with @coldpillow that your chart likes wood and fire more…maybe I would prefer more fire than more wood as wood tend to come into conflict with earth.
Fire is better as a bridge and helps grow earth.
Technically…this current Ji Chou LP is challenging for you to find a partner, despite being a very strong earth pillar.
Jia wood in your chart takes away the Ji earth for a combination.
Mao wood in your chart clash away the Chou earth.
But there will be points of better chances, like I think 2024 will have better chances with additional Chen earth in the branch, particularly in June or at least mid-year-ish when the elements are hot.
Courting strategies-wise, since fire grows earth, fire is your wealth luck.
So maybe you can win hearts via display of your intelligence/capabilities or even directly with display of wealth somehow (morally not sure how I feel about this, but hey, if it leads to a happy ending, why not?).
And then compatibility checks you can go with what @coldpillow suggested.
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Hi Coldpillow and Aeonrel,
Thank you very much for your reading.
I have just started a new journey in a different country and it is making me really nervous and scared, especially when I see that my luck hasn't been great, even compared to the not-so-good periods before. So just wish that this earth cycle will bring me some good luck.
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What country is it?
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Based in SG, travel frequently to my home country.
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Based in SG, travel frequently to my home country.
SG became independent on 9 August 1965. That's the official birthday.
There are wood and fire in combination with your charts, but there are other interactions as well (clash and punishment).
You may feel uncomfortable to some extent, but wood and fire is a sign of fortune. That's the most important thing. Just try to focus on the positive side (pros) without completely ignoring the negative side (cons).
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@Good ,
Interesting...based on Symbolic Stars, you have a travelling horse Yin in the Day Pillar, which suggest leaving home during middle age.
Seems like it came true.
Anyway, SG is south of Bangkok.
Based on Feng Shui, south represents fire.
So moving down south is good for your chart.
Also, Period 9 Feng Shui luck is coming 2024-2044, and is fire based.
So if you work in an industry that is related to fire, you can ride on the good upcoming Feng Shui AND make it helpful for your chart.
But overall, it is still a challenging LP because spousal luck is also same as career luck.
So be prepared for ups and downs.
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Thank you both so much. :)
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By the way, if u can provide me some further insight, how the ups and downs would be? Financial difficulties, no jobs, unhealthy work life or toxic relationships?
Besides that, any good points during downturn periods?
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IMO, low period is not good for ambition. It's time for leisure and retirement. So, relationship, health and happiness should be the primary focus.
You may continue working but nothing ambitious. No goal in sight. If you insist, there won't be any good point.
Low period is also good for studying, but there should be no pressure involved. If you're at school, your grades will be disappointing. If self-taught, then great (therefore arts, literature, spirituality are better than science).
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I think i missed something here. There might be hidden post I cannot see.
But I am open for all styles if don’t mind sharing your input. Thank you very much.
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I think i missed something here. There might be hidden post I cannot see.
But I am open for all styles if don’t mind sharing your input. Thank you very much.
Hi!
Was commenting on a very good technique used by a member here... While it seems to work great, there may be some details to it that we could had look into, if there was interest.
Doesn't matter, like this the idea was that You LP may have some more challenges that it have seemed. And as usual, no way to be sure how that would show without knowing the person. But other then that, the other members are doing great work, no reason to add more I think: )
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@Gmuli ,
However, I think it may be misleading if you use if for branches. Do you want me to link some stuff that could potentially help with sorting it out? : )
It will be from other styles, so only if you are open to input from other systems that is.
Yes, sure please!
I am also slowly learning other styles to supplement things I cannot read.
Like I feel the school I use over simplifies some things and tend to be time period specific. It's great for entry learning, but I struggle with overall whole life reading. I look at @coldpillow 's reading and I am very inspired by the detail and coverage. I am interested in Blindman school also, eventually, to assess a person's ability to succeed in life.
I am also learning I Ching and WWG now because some very specific questions are hard to answer using only Bazi.
I struggle some times because one school's Bazi teacher may criticize another school's accuracy and vice versa, which makes knowing which is the best school to go with difficult.
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Awesome!I think just needs some addition stuff and all will fall into place. Coz it doens't have to be different separate styles, everything that aligns with what works, also is likely to work at the end. : )
OK, so will post some materials. I think if you link them together will become better, although I really like it for stems, I think it will work usually. Branches, are messy however. Here is first thing:
(starts at 1:22:10 this part)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RgIxVtsu90E&t=4930s
This is how they interact. In Blindstyle this works best for/instead of Arrival, it works for other stuff as well, but its more noticable for LP, in my humble view.
Other thing 1:
https://kevinchanbazi.wordpress.com/2014/09/01/bazi-relationship-destruction/
I think there is misunderstanding here. They don't overproduce as the main problem. If one uses divination system it may show that is true, but that is because of other dynamic. One day if you study WWG and the field there is more open(as its very lock behind $ right now, for a long time, much more then the other styles not sure why) we can go into stuff like this if you are interested.
Other thing 2:
https://kevinchanbazi.wordpress.com/2014/09/06/bazi-relationship-punishment/
More specifically Yin<>Si<>Shen.
In my humble view these can help for branches. I think what you are using for the Stems is awesome, I will try to use it as well sometimes, but branches are kinda heavier and if one uses that flow thing, it just won't fit very well to the events.
There is also Tombs mechanic that can be helpful, but can't think of where to link where its explained. Looking around the forum for how people use Blindstyle should explain it and you can ask of course. : )
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I have started my job in sales and consulting roles. Without a job I cannot survive. Thank you.
IMO, low period is not good for ambition. It's time for leisure and retirement. So, relationship, health and happiness should be the primary focus.
You may continue working but nothing ambitious. No goal in sight. If you insist, there won't be any good point.
Low period is also good for studying, but there should be no pressure involved. If you're at school, your grades will be disappointing. If self-taught, then great (therefore arts, literature, spirituality are better than science).
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If your goal is limited to survival, then you can do it.
Just like studying at a very competitive school during low period, our goal should be limited to pass the minimum standard. Aiming for Top 10 or Top 5 is an elusive goal.
BUT, you might be able to achieve Top 10 in a few good years.
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Thank you very much. I genuinely appreciate your insight, and i believe it's truly beneficial for me.
If your goal is limited to survival, then you can do it.
Just like studying at a very competitive school during low period, our goal should be limited to pass the minimum standard. Aiming for Top 10 or Top 5 is an elusive goal.
BUT, you might be able to achieve Top 10 in a few good years.