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General discussions => FREE Life Reading Request => Topic started by: Sasuke-kun on March 06, 2025, 01:28:19 AM
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Hi, I have a strange connection with this guy (we are homosexual). He lives in another city and I feel maybe I can move to marry him, I dont know, I need to figure out more. Here the charts:
My chart: His:
Xin Ji Geng Ji Bing Ren Yi Gui
Wei Wei Wu Si Wu Xu Mao Chou
28/6/1989 - 13:55 27/3/1973 - 13:05
Brasilia - DF - Brazil São José dos Campos - SP - Brazil
Thanks
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### Bazi Compatibility Analysis
#### **Day Master Interaction**
- **Your Day Master**: Geng (Yang Metal)
- **His Day Master**: Yi (Yin Wood)
- **Relationship**: Geng Metal is the *7 Killings* (七杀) for Yi Wood, indicating potential challenges but also motivation. Yi Wood is your *Proper Wealth* (正财), suggesting stability and partnership potential. This dynamic can create a push-pull of attraction and growth, requiring balance to avoid dominance.
#### **Elemental Balance**
- **Your Chart**: Strong Earth (Wei, Wu, Ji) and Metal (Geng, Xin). Earth supports Metal, making your Geng robust. Fire (Wu, Si) is present but secondary.
- **His Chart**: Strong Wood (Yi Mao) with Water (Ren, Gui) support and Fire (Bing Wu). His Wood is resilient due to Mao roots and Water nourishment.
- **Interaction**:
- Your Metal controls his Wood, which could foster growth if balanced. His Water nourishes your Metal, aiding flexibility.
- His Fire (Bing) tempers your Metal, while your Earth stabilizes his Water. Elementally, there’s mutual support but also tension to manage.
#### **Spouse Palace Compatibility**
- **Your Spouse Palace (Wu Fire)**: His Mao Wood feeds your Wu Fire, symbolizing support and harmony.
- **His Spouse Palace (Mao Wood)**: Your Metal’s control could indicate leadership in the relationship, but his strong Wood (rooted in Mao) suggests resilience.
#### **Pillar Interactions**
- **Year Pillars**: Xin Wei (Metal-Earth) vs. Bing Wu (Fire-Fire).
- Fire (his year) strengthens Earth (your year), suggesting shared long-term goals.
- **Month Pillars**: Ji Wei (Earth) vs. Ren Xu (Water-Earth).
- Minor clash (Wei-Xu) hints at differing family/career approaches, manageable with communication.
- **Hour Pillars**: Ji Si (Earth-Fire) vs. Gui Chou (Water-Earth).
- Earth-Water interaction shows practicality balancing emotion.
#### **Special Stars & Dynamics**
- **Peach Blossom**: Your Peach Blossom (Mao) aligns with his Day Branch (Mao), indicating strong romantic potential.
- **Resource Stars**: Both charts have strong support (Earth for you, Water for him), aiding stability.
### **Conclusion & Recommendations**
- **Strengths**:
- Mutual elemental support (his Water nourishes your Metal; your Fire balances his Wood).
- Romantic potential via Peach Blossom alignment.
- **Challenges**:
- Metal-Wood control dynamic requires balance to avoid power struggles.
- Month Pillar clash suggests navigating differences in background.
- **Advice**:
- Foster open communication to balance leadership (Metal) and flexibility (Wood).
- Leverage his Water (creativity/adaptability) to soften your Earth’s rigidity.
- Consider a relocation trial (短期同居) before marriage to test compatibility in shared space.
**Final Note**: Bazi highlights potential, but relationships thrive on mutual effort. Your charts show complementary traits with manageable challenges—proceed with mindful collaboration. 🌱🔥
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Smsek,
You may need to pay attention to what you are posting.
In this case, the DM is Ji Wei not Geng Wu.
Ren
===》 thks for pointing out my mistake, i will revise my reply
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to Sasuke-kun, see below for my revised reply:
### **Revised Bazi Compatibility Analysis**
**Thank you for clarifying the chart orientation!** Here’s the corrected analysis based on reading the pillars **right-to-left** (Year → Month → Day → Hour) and adjusting the Day Masters accordingly.
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### **Key Corrections**
1. **Your Day Master**: **Ji (Yin Earth)** (previously misread as Geng Metal).
2. **His Day Master**: **Ren (Yang Water)** (previously misread as Yi Wood).
- This changes the core dynamic from **Metal-Wood control** to **Earth-Water nourishment**.
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### **1. Day Master Interaction**
- **Your Day Master**: **Ji (Yin Earth)**
- Symbolizes fertile soil: nurturing, practical, and stable but prone to overthinking.
- **His Day Master**: **Ren (Yang Water)**
- Symbolizes a flowing river or ocean: adaptable, dynamic, and emotionally deep but potentially overwhelming.
**Relationship**:
- **Earth and Water** interact via the **productive cycle**: Water nourishes Earth (e.g., rain enriches soil).
- **Strengths**:
- He brings fluidity, inspiration, and emotional depth to your grounded nature.
- You offer stability, structure, and practicality to his free-flowing energy.
- **Challenges**:
- Excess Water (his Ren) can erode Earth (your Ji), leading to feelings of instability or emotional overwhelm.
- Your Earth may "absorb" his Water energy, leaving him feeling drained if boundaries aren’t set.
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### **2. Elemental Balance**
#### **Your Chart**
- **Stems**: Ji (Earth), Geng (Metal), Ji (Earth), Xin (Metal)
- **Branches**: Si (Fire), Wu (Fire), Wei (Earth), Wei (Earth)
- **Dominant Elements**: **Strong Earth** (4 Earths) + **Metal** (2) + **Fire** (2).
- **Weak Elements**: **No Wood** or Water.
#### **His Chart**
- **Stems**: Gui (Water), Yi (Wood), Ren (Water), Bing (Fire)
- **Branches**: Chou (Earth), Mao (Wood), Xu (Earth), Wu (Fire)
- **Dominant Elements**: **Water** (2) + **Wood** (2) + **Fire** (2) + **Earth** (2).
#### **Interaction**
- **Complementary**:
- His **Water** (Ren, Gui) nourishes your **Earth**, enhancing growth and adaptability.
- His **Wood** (Yi, Mao) controls your excess Earth, preventing stagnation.
- Your **Metal** (Geng, Xin) produces his Water, creating a supportive cycle.
- **Tensions**:
- His **Fire** (Bing, Wu) could "dry out" your Earth, leading to frustration.
- Your Earth may clash with his **Wood** (Earth destroys Wood) if overbearing.
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### **3. Spouse Palace & Branches**
- **Your Spouse Palace (Day Branch)**: **Wei (Earth/Sheep)**
- Wei interacts with his **Xu (Earth/Dog)** as a **Wei-Xu clash** (Earth vs. Earth). This suggests potential power struggles or differing values in partnership roles.
- **His Spouse Palace (Day Branch)**: **Xu (Earth/Dog)**
- Xu clashes with your **Wei**, but his **Mao (Wood/Rabbit)** harmonizes with Wei (forming a **Wei-Mao half-Wood union**), softening tensions.
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### **4. Branch Relationships**
- **Harmonies**:
- **Wu (Fire/Horse)** appears in both your month (Wu) and his hour (Wu), indicating shared passion and drive.
- **Mao (Wood/Rabbit)** in his chart is your **Peach Blossom** (romance star), enhancing attraction.
- **Clashes**:
- **Wei (Sheep)** and **Chou (Ox)** in your year vs. his year form a **Chou-Wei clash** (Earth conflict), hinting at family or cultural differences.
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### **5. Special Stars & Dynamics**
- **Peach Blossom**: Your Peach Blossom is in **Mao (Rabbit)**, aligning with his **Mao Wood**. This signifies strong romantic chemistry.
- **Travel Star**: Your **Si (Snake)** in the year branch suggests adaptability to relocation, but his **Chou (Ox)** may resist change.
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### **Revised Conclusion**
#### **Strengths**
1. **Elemental Synergy**: His Water nourishes your Earth, while your Metal supports his Water.
2. **Romantic Potential**: Peach Blossom alignment (Mao) and shared Fire (Wu) create magnetism.
3. **Balanced Roles**: You stabilize his fluidity; he energizes your practicality.
#### **Challenges**
1. **Earth-Water Imbalance**: Risk of emotional overwhelm (Water) or rigidity (Earth).
2. **Branch Clashes**: Wei-Xu (spouse palace) and Chou-Wei (year) require compromise.
3. **Age/Life Stage Gap**: He’s 52 (entering a reflective phase) vs. you at 35 (building phase).
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### **Recommendations**
1. **Communication**: Use your Earth’s practicality to set boundaries around his Water’s intensity.
2. **Trial Period**: Live together temporarily to test compatibility (observe how clashes resolve).
3. **Leverage Wood**: Encourage his Wood (creativity, growth) to soften Earth-Water friction.
4. **Consult a Pro**: For deeper insights into **10-year luck cycles** and marriage timing.
**Final Note**: Your charts show a **yin-yang dynamic** with strong potential, but success depends on balancing his fluidity with your stability. Trust your intuition—does this connection feel nourishing or draining?
Let me know if you’d like to explore specific pillars or timing further! 🌊🌍
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Thanks, describe well our interaction, he is more a dynamic type, forceful and I am more quiet, shy type. There are problems in our way of view life mostly by generation issues too. My concern is if I would be a good match for him, I read somewhere that he useful god is his self element water and I have none. On the contrary I have so much earth... Thanks for the reading :)