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curious to know how both my partner and I would fare in relationship and love. we're both gay men.
mine (1985 Dec 3 male)
year: 乙丑
month: 丁亥
day: 丙子
hour: 己亥
his (1993 Oct 4 male)
year: 癸酉
month: 辛酉
day: 戊午
hour: 丁巳
hehe... thanks
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Of course. Here is the English translation of the previous Bazi (Four Pillars of Destiny) analysis.
Curious to know how both my partner and I would fare in relationship and love. We're both gay men.
• Me (Male, Dec 3, 1985)
◦ Year: Yi Chou (Wood Ox)
◦ Month: Ding Hai (Fire Pig)
◦ Day: Bing Zi (Fire Rat)
◦ Hour: Ji Hai (Earth Pig)
• Him (Male, Oct 4, 1993)
◦ Year: Gui You (Water Rooster)
◦ Month: Xin You (Metal Rooster)
◦ Day: Wu Wu (Earth Horse)
◦ Hour: Ding Si (Fire Snake)
Based on the birth details you and your partner provided, I will analyze your personality traits and relationship compatibility from the perspective of Bazi (Four Pillars of Destiny). Here is a step-by-step breakdown:
1. Analysis of Your Chart (Born Dec 3, 1985)
Four Pillars: Yi Chou, Ding Hai, Bing Zi, Ji Hai
• Day Master Bing Fire born in the Hai month (Water is strong, Fire is weak). The presence of many Controlling/Officer stars suggests an outwardly enthusiastic personality but an inwardly sensitive nature, with a deep need for emotional connection.
• Month Pillar Ding Hai: The Robbery Wealth star is exposed, indicating that in early years, you may encounter emotional competition or feel that you give more than you receive. The Zi Water正官 (Direct Officer) in the Day Branch (spouse palace) suggests your partner may have a strict, responsible character.
• Hour Pillar Ji Hai: The Hurting Officer meeting the Direct Officer star indicates a need to pay attention to communication styles in the relationship to avoid friction caused by idealized expectations.
2. Analysis of Your Partner's Chart (Born Oct 4, 1993)
Four Pillars: Gui You, Xin You, Wu Wu, Ding Si
• Day Master Wu Earth born in the You month (Metal is strong, draining Earth). The Hurting Officer star is in power, indicating a quick-witted and talented mind but prone to overthinking. The Wu Fire正印 (Direct Resource) sitting in the Day Branch (spouse palace) is a favorable sign, suggesting that you can provide him with emotional support.
• Month Pillar Xin You: The exposed Hurting Officer star points to a strong artistic flair and a direct way of expressing emotions. The Year Pillar Gui You (Direct Wealth producing Hurting Officer) shows high requirements for both material and spiritual compatibility.
• Hour Pillar Ding Si: The strong Resource star indicates a dependent inner nature and a strong need for security.
3. Compatibility and Interaction
1. Year Pillar Relationship:
◦ Your Year Pillar is Yi Chou (Wood/Earth), his is Gui You (Water/Metal). Your Yi Wood strengthens his Gui Water, your Chou Earth strengthens his You Metal. The Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches of the Year Pillars mutually support each other, indicating fundamental harmony in family background and core values.
2. Day Pillar Relationship:
◦ Your Bing Zi (Fire/Water) and his Wu Wu (Earth/Fire) create a relationship of Bing Fire producing Wu Earth, and Zi Water clashing with Wu Fire.
◦ Positive: The Fire-Earth production indicates your willingness to take initiative and give passionately.
◦ Area for Attention: The Zi-Wu clash is a "water-fire conflict." Be mindful of conflicts arising from emotional fluctuations or differences in daily habits, especially concerning household matters. Flexibility is key.
3. Elemental Complement:
◦ Your chart has strong Water and weak Fire, needing Wood and Fire for support. His chart has strong Metal and weak Earth, needing Fire and Earth for support. His Hour Pillar (Ding Si Fire) can warm the excessive Water in your chart, and your Bing Fire Day Master can strengthen his Wu Earth energy, creating a mutually supportive dynamic.
4. Luck Pillar Synchronicity:
◦ You are currently in a Gui Wei Luck Pillar (Direct Officer appears, emotions tend to stabilize).
◦ He is currently in an Wu Wu Luck Pillar (repeats the Day Pillar, a period prone to significant relationship changes).
◦ The year 2025 (Yi Si) has strong Fire energy that harmonizes both charts, favoring a deepening of the relationship.
4. Key Suggestions
• Resolving the Zi-Wu Clash: Consider joint activities like travel (the Tiger - Yin - Wood can resolve the clash) or incorporating green elements (Wood) in your home decor to mediate the Water-Fire conflict.
• Emotional Dynamic: You have a natural protective instinct towards him, but be mindful of over-involvement. His Hurting Officer nature needs recognition of his talents; encourage his self-expression.
• Long-term Interaction: There are hidden compatibilities in your charts, indicating strong intellectual and spiritual resonance. You are well-suited for collaborative creative projects.
The above analysis is based on the Bazi model. The core of any relationship remains mutual understanding. May you both accompany each other with gentle hearts, transforming potential clashes into harmony. ✨
Disclaimer: This analysis is for cultural and entertainment purposes only and should not be used as a basis for professional decisions.
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thx deepseek
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I have cast my vote. ;)
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You have good compatibility scores according to DM. I'm not going to look at the Pillars of Luck specifically so you don't know your future. :)
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You have good compatibility scores according to DM. I'm not going to look at the Pillars of Luck specifically so you don't know your future. :)
how compatible by DM though? haha
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You have good compatibility scores according to DM. I'm not going to look at the Pillars of Luck specifically so you don't know your future. :)
how compatible by DM though? haha
The best possible. One brings wealth to another. The other brings clarity of thought.
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You have good compatibility scores according to DM. I'm not going to look at the Pillars of Luck specifically so you don't know your future. :)
how compatible by DM though? haha
The best possible. One brings wealth to another. The other brings clarity of thought.
is it safe to say I bring wealth to him & he brings clarity of thoughts to me? or the other way round?
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You have good compatibility scores according to DM. I'm not going to look at the Pillars of Luck specifically so you don't know your future. :)
how compatible by DM though? haha
The best possible. One brings wealth to another. The other brings clarity of thought.
is it safe to say I bring wealth to him & he brings clarity of thoughts to me? or the other way round?
You bring him wealth. But he is just as important to you.
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You have good compatibility scores according to DM. I'm not going to look at the Pillars of Luck specifically so you don't know your future. :)
how compatible by DM though? haha
The best possible. One brings wealth to another. The other brings clarity of thought.
is it safe to say I bring wealth to him & he brings clarity of thoughts to me? or the other way round?
You bring him wealth. But he is just as important to you.
how is he important to me?