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General discussions => FREE Life Reading Request => Topic started by: WuXu on March 28, 2018, 08:55:12 PM
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Dear members,
I have a border chart, got three options for my BaZi, and don't know how to decide which one really represents me and my life?
DOB: 31. May 1979 at 23:53
1. Solar
Hour: Jia/Zi
Day: Wu/Xu
Month: Ji/Si
Year: Ji/Wei
2. Solar with late Rat hour theory:
H: Jia/Zi
D: Ji/Hai
M: Ji/Si
Y: Ji/Wei
3. Lunar
H: Jia/Zi
D: Wu/Xu
M: Geng/Wu
Y: Ji/Wei
Time is adjusted.
Can you ask me some relevant questions about my life which would reveal my true BaZi?
Thank you!
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WuXu, you need to include city of birth.
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My birth town's Longitude: 14.505751
GMT +1
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I got this chart:
1. Solar
Hour: Jia/Zi
Day: Wu/Xu
Month: Ji/Si
Year: Ji/Wei
Do you use your body to earn money, for ex. do sports, dancing, do some physical work, like being a waitress or an actress?
You can be involved in a family business together with your siblings. I think you do not work for government or a company.
Did you get married after 2011? If yes then your husband was previously married.
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Hi,
I have my own company, its about import/export and manufacturing our own brand.
The company is all mine, I established it alone and run it alone, too. Never had family members working for or with me.
I was never married, but I do have a child, born in December 2011. Me and his father separated in 2013. He was actually younger than me, never married. I never had any other man since then.
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Hi,
I have my own company, its about import/export and manufacturing our own brand.
The company is all mine, I established it alone and run it alone, too. Never had family members working for or with me.
I think you do not work for government or a company.
Correct. You do not work for anybody else but for yourself.
If you do not work with your siblings then you should run a lot here and there, be very active, have hectic lifestyle, meaning you use your physical body which helps you to earn money.
When did you start living with your child's father? Living together is the same as being married in astrological terms.
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I met him in June 2008, we moved in together in february 2009. It was terrible relationship, we were always fighting. August 2013 was the worst, there was even police involved. The relationship ended then, but I finally moved out with a child in January 2014.
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Did he ever cheat on you? Man in your chart is involved with another woman.
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Not to my knowledge. I can't say. He was obsessed with me, control freak, spying on me all the time. We still se each other every day when he comes to see our child. He still wants us to get back together.
This is his DOB if it helps: 4. May 1986 at 11:20 AM, same longitude.
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Actually, when we met, he was with another woman but I didn't know that as he made up his whole personality. His name, age, occupation, family background... everything was made up, and I didn't know it for almost one year of interection and dating him.
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How interesting? What was the reason to lie to you?
Any man in your life will be connected with another woman.
Cutrent LP is not good for relationship.
I think this is your chart with Jia Zi hour. It shows a person who is financially astute and has own business.
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He said he wanted to end up with her, but she threatened him with suicide. Then he met me and didn't want to lose the opportunity, so he lied about his identity to buy some time so he could meanwhile end up with her. He did it and eventually confessed everything.
The other reason for lying was - I was 7 years older, had my own company, dated the richest men, and he was just a poor student. He thought if I knew that, I wouldn't have wanted him, so he lied and made up a story about himself being rich and successful until I get to love him.
But I didn't mind him being student, because he was very beautiful (Brad Pitt kind of a guy), and I fell for him immediately. All my other men were womenizers but I don't think he was too.
When I first tried to leave him, he tried to commit suicide, but after that he always threatened to kill me. He became very aggressive, abusive, spying all the time, so I left him.
Now he's very successful man, very rich,has his own company, employs many people, but not in a relationship.
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The reason I'm asking for the right BaZi is not about finding a man (actually, I can't imagine myself living with a man ever again) but because I'm approaching 7K period and I'm terrified about it.
According to my BaZi, I'm in the best LP (DW) right now, but it seems to me like this is actually my 7K period, because I had horrbile, worst ever time since I turned 32.
First I almost died when giving a birth, doctors barely saved my life.
Me and my partner almost killed each other.
I separated.
I went for bankruptcy, had to let go all of my employees, and close the store.
My father died.
I was always skinny beauty, looking like a model, and after 32 gained weight and went ugly (at least I see myself like that).
I became depressed, I barely leave the house, don't socialize anymore.
So - how come this is my best period? What's in it for me in 7K period then? I'm even afraid to think of it.
According to the LUNAR BaZi, I'm in my 7K period right now, which makes much more sense to me...
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Thank you for sharing your story.
In new LP Jia Xu you will have new relationship. Just be aware of womanizers. If he was married before it is better.
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Gui You LP is not good:
1) it produces 7K Jia.
2) You harms your root in Xu and marriage palace at the same time.
3) chart wants to control Zi but You produces Zi. It is very inauspisiuous.
Best LPs for you are with strong metal in stems.
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Thank you for sharing your story.
In new LP Jia Xu you will have new relationship. Just be aware of womanizers. If he was married before it is better.
Thank you Miss A.
There is already a man, very interested in me, and I known him very long.
He is divorced, is womenizer, of course, but he doesn't want to give up on me even though I repel him. I've been doing it for 4 years now. He's also 7 years older. I do like him but don't want him (especially knowing my luck with men).
Thank you for your kind assistance. :)
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Gui You LP is not good:
1) it produces 7K Jia.
2) You harms your root in Xu and marriage palace at the same time.
3) chart wants to control Zi but You produces Zi. It is very inauspisiuous.
Best LPs for you are with strong metal in stems.
But I will never have a LP with metal stem. I have to rely on Annual Pillars with Xin/Geng stems then?
How bad for me is it going to be this 7K Jia/Xu LP? :(
I'm interested in my health and wealth.
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But I will never have a LP with metal stem. I have to rely on Annual Pillars with Xin/Geng stems then?
What I mean is that you were in Metal LPs but Metal was weak, still it helped. Your chart does not like Metal in Branches so there is no such year which would help to control Jia and not to produce Zi at the same time. Producing or helping Zi is bad - you will loose a lot of money.
Fire in stems also good.
How bad for me is it going to be this 7K Jia/Xu LP? :(
I'm interested in my health and wealth.
Guan Sha or 7K Jia is not that bad in the chart as it combines with 2 Ji. Otherwise you would not be your own boss. Jia here is actually money not power.
Problem with marriage is because the Marriage Palace is involved in Punishment and your men belong to other women.
Jia Xu LP will not be bad:
1) Jia is arrival of Jia from the chart which is your money. Jia overcomes DM but as I said before there are 2 strong Ji it combines with. It is not control but Jia becomes auspicious. I would be aware of competitors.
2) Xu is arrival of Xu from the chart. Xu-Wei punishment will be in action but you have very strong body and Xu-Wei is punishment within the same group so health should be ok.
Xu will entomb Seal Si, it is another work - good too.
Gui You LP is not good:
1) it produces 7K Jia.
2) You harms your root in Xu and marriage palace at the same time.
3) chart wants to control Zi but You produces Zi. It is very inauspisiuous.
Forgot to add:
4) Gui is arrival of Wei-Zi harm.
First I almost died when giving a birth, doctors barely saved my life.
2011 is Xin Mao LP Gui You.
Mao moved You to harm Xu which is your body.
I went for bankruptcy, had to let go all of my employees, and close the store.
You produces Zi - you loose money. Shen, You, Hai are not auspicious for your chart.
You harms Xu, Xu can not control Zi any more.
Another proof that Jia Zi is the correct hour:
2009 Ji Chou you moved in with a guy - Jia+Ji, Chou+Zi. Spouse Star is active and he did have relationship with somebody else because Ji is Jie Cai combining with Jia.
2014 Jia Wu you moved out - Spouse Star Jia Zi is clashed by Jia Wu. He is gone!
I attached your chart so others could participate and correct me if needed.
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Hi WuXu, the chart that Miss A posted is correct. (https://media.giphy.com/media/lz8dYtfk37Cfe/giphy.gif)
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Thank you very much @Miss A, you've been very helpful.
There are only two things I would kindly ask you to further clarify for me:
1. I was told that water is my wealth element, and since my chart is full of earth and fire, making it very dry, I can 'absorb' much more water than I already have. So, basically, everybody suggested to utilize on water years, months, days and hours.
Year 2014 (Jia Wu) was also the year when my company totally crushed, I went bankrupt, and had to build a company all over again from the bottom. I was told that happened becuase Wu crashed with Zi (my wealth element).So in the same 2014 I went bankrupt and separated from my partner ----> both happened within 14 days actually.
2. I noticed you reffer to an Hour pillar as the spouse pillar. I thought day pillar was spouse related?
Thank you veryvery much.
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Thank you very much @Miss A, you've been very helpful.
There are only two things I would kindly ask you to further clarify for me:
1. I was told that water is my wealth element, and since my chart is full of earth and fire, making it very dry, I can 'absorb' much more water than I already have. So, basically, everybody suggested to utilize on water years, months, days and hours.
Year 2014 (Jia Wu) was also the year when my company totally crushed, I went bankrupt, and had to build a company all over again from the bottom. I was told that happened becuase Wu crashed with Zi (my wealth element).So in the same 2014 I went bankrupt and separated from my partner ----> both happened within 14 days actually.
In Mangpai we look differently at Cai Zi. If chart controls it, producing is negative and will indicate loss of money.
2014 Jia Wu, sub-LP Gui:
Gui is Zi - Cai from the chart.
Gui produces Jia - legal problems.
Gui in Wu year becomes unstable - chart can not control it anymore. Money become uncontrollable. You can not manage properly money any more.
You produces Zi - not good.
Wu=Ji from the chart, time for Jia to combine with Jie Cai - as Jia is money, competitors/ other people combine with it.
You produces Zi, Wu controls Zi - a lot of confusion this year.
@JLim please correct me.
What was the reason of bankruptcy?
2. I noticed you reffer to an Hour pillar as the spouse pillar. I thought day pillar was spouse related?
Your Spouse Star is located in Hour.
Spouse Palace is always Day branch.
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Thank you again, @Miss A
I get it now. It took me a while to connect the dots, it's a bit differenet approach that I'm used to in BaZi. :)
Reason for bankruptcy: The sales was starting to go down in 2013. In January 2014 we had to leave our place in the shopping mall (which we held since 2009) to the bigger pharmaceutical company -----> it was actually some sort of take over.
I had to let go all of my employees, couldn't sell the remaining inventory to anyone and went totally bankrupt. In the same frame of 14 days I left my home with my child and went to live to my brother's family.
In June 2014 my ex asked me to return to our home, and he moved out, leaving us the appartment (which we bought together). We are still both owners of it, but he doesn't live with us.
I'm in a fire related industry, manufacture my own brand, at the moment focusing on the wholesale/distribution and export.
According to mangpai - which are my favourable elements? Is fire industry good for me?
Thank you so much!
Can't wait to take mangpai course :)
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Thank you again, @Miss A
Yes, she has been very helpful! (https://emojipedia-us.s3.amazonaws.com/thumbs/120/emoji-one/104/thumbs-up-sign_1f44d.png)
I'm in a fire related industry, manufacture my own brand, at the moment focusing on the wholesale/distribution and export.
According to mangpai - which are my favourable elements? Is fire industry good for me?
Thank you so much! Can't wait to take mangpai course :)
Xu as Fire Tomb performs work, and the whole chart controls Zi Water. So Fire industry is good, as well as Water. Water is at the Hour Pillar , and the Hour Pillar represents "the doorway": so this water can mean distribution and export. The "doorway" is an image of far-way places, beyond your door, so to speak.
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Thanks, @JLim. You both are very helpful, kind and generous with the advice. Can't thank you enough.
Doorway or far away places ---->I export outside my country to the country which is North from my birth place (chasing water element with 'fire products') :)
Thank you many, many times. :)