Quote from: ding28 on December 09, 2023, 09:06:38 AM

Is it all written in my chart? That my source of income would come from overseas? And yes I'm running my business with my husband.

Yes, you may have better luck selling to global market online.

Hello @coldpillow

Just a quick update, so last month one of my relatives offered me a chance to grow her business in retail through online platform since her business currently only focus in wholesale.

She is importing garment products from overseas. And yes, she is a parental figure in my family and i considered her as a mentor since she and her husband have a lot of experiences in business. I'm hoping that this could be a turning point of my life. So it seems it kinda match what you saw in my chart? That my source of my income would come from overseas?

Hi @aeonrel

No worries, some masters say every hardship is a form of life training.
Even if you quit now, later, or pull through it all, there is always something to learn from the journey.

Yes, I do understand its a life training.. I feel this year has been the lowest point of my life.. losing my mom and business going bad, Its been months since I could sleep properly.
Sometimes I couldn't help to wonder whether I will be able to get through this or not. The amount of stress is just unbearable. Everything that i did to make situation better just didn't met my expectation. I hit the wall everywhere I go. So I kinda hesitate to move forward with my new business plan with my current situation. I feel like I'm running out of luck. I didnt even trust my self

I am personally learning I Ching / WWG now to fill in the gaps that Bazi cannot answer for big decisions.
You can try it, if you have the capacity and interest.

I saw a lot of I Ching calculator online but unsure whether its accurate enough throwing the coins online?

@ding28 ,

Uh...the 寅亥 combination in your natal chart hour and day pillar would be the source of your overthinking and introversion.

寅 is your ability/luck with connecting with others, 亥 is your protective thinking.
Combination means loss of 寅 and 亥, leading to weaker connection to others and a detrimental effect from over thinking.

So personally, I think doing live streaming is directly going against this 寅亥 combination, which will be very uncomfortable, challenging and pressurising.
But you can always take it as a training - hard-earned skills for you to springboard to greater heights in the future.

Hi @aeonrel
 
Perhaps you have advice on how can i reduce my overthinking?
It has been torturing me for the last few months.🥲
With my mom passed away and business went down no matter how hard i tried to find a solution, the result just didnt meet my expectation  2023 seems to be the worst year of my life. I feel like a failure 

Quote from: ding28 on September 17, 2023, 08:29:09 AM

I was thinking about this, because the earth, fire, and metal are strong in those years. Is it possible to reduce the impact??

Your self-element will peak starting from 2026 to 2035. This means you will be strong enough to endure the stress test.

I think it's similar to a big match in competitive sport. Take it one step at a time (thinking about winning a point), don't look too far ahead (thinking about winning the trophy).

If you're a weak DM, it's better to withdraw from the match. Either you will suffer humiliating defeat or get injured from hard work.

Hi @coldpillow

Thankyou for your reply
Based on my chart, I suppose that I'm a weak DM ?
So its better to lay low during 2026-2035 not taking any risky moves?

Hey @aeonrel

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If you are still active in this forum by then, do return to a note and tell us if that really came true  It will be good to see how accurate our predictions are.

Sure, I will!

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Sorry to hear that about your father  A little wasted. Because strong wealth luck also = better relationship with father. If he was around longer, you could have enjoyed that bond more.

Yep actually I had better relationship with my father, but since my father passed away and my mom got older, she decided to live with me so we had better relationship compared to when I was younger.. Its so devastating to have her left me so soon.

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All that being said about your business luck though, as I worked out your year-by-year luck up till now, you can see that despite your stronger affinity to running your own business, it does not mean smooth sailing all the way. Having the wealth luck present can help boost or also make it susceptible to clashes/combine. This was the case for your sinusoidal wave. So if you really want to be prepared, perhaps you can try some fortune telling on a yearly basis to preempt the immediate challenges, then you can factor it into your planning to take on more risky business maneuvers or lie low for the year. At least until 2036, where it seems your wealth luck is more stable.

Ah yes that makes sense I'm prone to get depressed easily, so I'm hoping that I will be able to pass this stress test 

Hi aeronel,

Sorry for the late reply and thankyou for the detailed explanation

I have been encouraged by another forum member to share your chart for reference. Attached to this reply is my explanation on the sinusoidal effect of your wealth luck. You can ignore it if you are not interested in the inner workings of Bazi and just want the answers. There are obviously other things happening in the chart that is not related to wealth, but I did not highlight them as your question is focused on your business.

Side tidbit: Having more of one element coming into your chart through the years and months is not a guaranteed good outcome for those areas of life. As evidenced from your chart, more wealth coming in may end up creating worse luck, depending on the interaction outcome of the 5 elements.

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If you don't mind me asking, I met a bazi practitioners few years ago, she said that i have this travelling horse star in the next time block
Does that mean that i might be relocating or perhaps travelling related to work?

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Travelling horse is a Shen Sha 神煞 terminology in Bazi. The Bazi school I use disregards 神煞 because it views it as a derivative concept of the core five elements interaction, so it offers only a possibility, not a confirmation. But if you wish to understand its application: the travelling horse in question here is the 寅. It is derived from your 辰 based on fixed traditional Bazi rules. With 辰 in your year pillar and 寅 in your Day Pillar, the resultant prediction is that you will leave your hometown during adulthood - perhaps this is when you moved from Hong Kong to Surabaya? 寅 appears again in your next time block, which suggest there will be some movement in your life, but it does not indicate exactly for what purpose. I can only use logic that since this business venture seems to be quite significant to you, it might probably be for work.

I moved from hongkong to surabaya when i was around 3-4 y.o if i'm not mistaken. I moved out from my parents house when i was 28 when i got pregnant with my daughter. Maybe moving to a new house explain that?

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2034 has also another 寅, on top of the 10-year block's 寅, so such a strong travelling fate suggest relocation instead of a short travel. I will back it up with my Bazi calculation whereby it is also a 甲 year, and 甲 is your Day Master. So some month will damage your 甲 in the annual pillar, causing chained harm to the Day Master itself, meaning it will be a stressful year. Since relocating is a stressful event, this 2 fates may be linked this way.

Ah I see, I always dreamed about relocating so I can live close to my sisters when I'm older. Never thought I could get out from here since relocating needs a lot of money to start a new life in another country 😂 Hopefully by 2034 I could save enough and move there so my kids could have better opportunity for their education.

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There is another travelling horse 申, derived from having 寅 in your Day Pillar. 2028 is a 申 year, so on top of the 10-year block's 寅, you have a circumstance where it is double travelling horse again, so relocation is possible. Money loss is very likely as 2028 is also a 戊 year, and again, at months where the 戊 gets hurt, there is a combo loss of wealth with the other 戊 in your natal chart (see attachment for explanation example). So maybe you will be spending extra money for the relocation, if I were to link the two scenarios together.

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Just remember that all these readings of destiny are just possibilities, not guarantees. For an outcome to come true, it requires 3 components: destiny, feng shui, personal actions. Even when destiny points one direction, you can change course via personal actions (or Feng Shui, if you are interested).

The reasons you might end up travelling for, in the end, may not be as important as whether or not the purpose is successful.

Thankyou so much aeronel for your time explaining this for me☺️ I actually never had the confidence in me that I'm capable to build a successful business, since I lost my dad quite early, so I didnt get the guidance that I need. But I will try my best since based on your analysis of my chart the heaven luck is in my favour this year and next year. 😬 Now it just depends on my action to actually make it happen. 

Hi @ding28 ,

I use five elements interaction Bazi method and would like to give your chart a try.
From your previous replies, I don't get the vibe that you looking for the technical aspects of the reading, just the answers, so I shall not go deep into the calculations.
But if you are interested, let me know and I can give you the play-by-play.

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Firstly, from just your natal chart, 2 things stand out:

• You are very intelligent (presence of 3 earth = 3 wealth elements). You tend to see things in terms of its value. Wealth luck also governs the luck when you are running your own business.
• You don't have natural luck working under employment (zero metal = zero career element)

So running your own business is the best choice.
As I scroll through your years, I realise for your entire growing-up years, into adulthood, before your marriage, there are many earth and fire elements, so you are outspoken and your intelligence really shines through.
Coming to the 2016-2035 block, the no. of earth drops and no. of wood increases.
Wood is your peer element, and since in this time block you are running a business, I feel the wood represents the presence of your competitors.

From 2021 to 2022, there was a drop in earth luck, hence your business seems like it was going down.
July 2023 was a very strong earth month.
While it helped boost your business a little, it also clashed with your mother, who is represented by a water element for your chart.
The earth also clashes with your siblings (wood), hence inheritance issues.

2024 has increased wealth element, which is good for starting your business, but beware months of May and June where the stress levels are the highest for the year.

2026-2035 will be generally challenging, most challenging point being:

• 2029 - signs of loss of wealth, perhaps legal related
• 2034, in May and June

If you make it to 2036, you should be able to enjoy the fruits of your labour.

Hi aeonrel

Well before marriage, I worked as an employee in a bank, and I wasn't really "shining'
Decide to quit and start my own business, it seems that i have better luck in business rather than working as an employee..
But I wasn't really able to grow my business though.. one moment it looks like its gonna thrive and then boom the sales just fell down to the ground.

2021 was actually really great, it starts going down in June 2022.
And yes, May-June 2023 i feel a little boost in my business, and then my mom passed away, I feel so lost
I gathered all my courage to start this new business, hopefully this business would thrive.

from your point of view do you think 2026-2035 is even more challenging compared this current time block?