well, as JLIM mentioned, I have a different hour pillar.

http://fivearts.org/index.php?topic=1543.msg12565#msg12565

My comments is regardless whether the hour pillar is Jia Wu or Gui Si . On the years that has passed, if it’s not true you can say so. For the years to come, well, good luck.

Best,
Goldman

Quote from: Goldman on August 29, 2023, 06:49:05 PM

HI @icarus2712

Did you by any chance at an opportunity to work with prestigious people but the terms were too unfavorable for you?
and then everything turned bad after that?

May I know what do you work as? Your chart is suitable to be a civil servant / in a bigger organization for your younger days.

Best,
Goldman

Yes, have had many opportunities to work for large banks,  as said earlier till 2011 June it was all wonderful, in fact in Feb 2011, I was promoted too, but suddenly after June 2011
All crashed. 2013 June left the job. Really bad times after that.

Hi Icarus

I hesitated to comment much for your case. I'll go out on a limb.
At age 35 onwards, you started to be involved with a much wider career circle, you get to know many influential people.
It was supposed to be a brilliant career / working relationship but eventually didn't work out. Matter of fact, from age 35 onwards,
the seeds of "hope and then failure" was already sowed. I saw that you mentioned that you'd over spent.
Indeed, its either your health reason or extravagant been the reason for it.

While the issue erupted in 2011 & 2013, there were already problem surfacing in 2006 - 2008.
2008 should had been a problematic year as well.

On your concern on Luck Pillar Jia Wu, my first advice for you is on Peach Blossom issue, you have to be careful because if you get involved in one,
you will at losing end, potential extortion, etc. First few years are still challenging, 2029 onwards will have a good breather.

Best,
Goldman

Hi @Goldman ,

Thank you so much for your reading.

In terms of my career life, I forgot to mention I've been aspiring to have my own business and planning to build my second idea with a business partner. Will it be the same pathways as my career?

Hi Minx88

I'd made some correction. I took our my analysis for the "middle' picture and added the following:

"After age 45, the factor that been hindering your ability to shine will clear off and you will find the right environment to excel.
Your 5th pillar 45-54 years old will be your golden age"

My thought is that your key will always be the environment. If the running business is the right environment to shine then that will help you.
Your should let your business partner handle Human Resource matters as it is not your forte. A very helpful way the business partner can help you
is to take the stress off your shoulder so that you can perform and work your craft. The business can be the same industry you are in now - no restriction to the nature.

Best,
Goldman

Hi Minx88

from 25 - 45 years old, indeed your love relationship will be affected.
Its like a slow punishment, you will find fault with your SO. Based on reasoning you are not wrong, and always have a good reason.
I'll give an example - its like shopping for a foolscap, and flip every page to make sure all the lines are present, and count that there is really 120 pages.
You have every right to check this way, but do you really have to? In the process nick picking, even your wealth and health are affected.

You want someone who can impress you (in any way that you can be impressed) so sweet words isn't very useful.
Career wise, the interesting thing is this.

The small picture is that 2025, there may be a promotion, 2026 should be a very good year.
The big picture is that from 2029 onwards, you will embark onto something that could be irrelevant to what you are doing now.
My advice is that you should take it easy now, as the foundation you are building on, fighting for may not be applicable in the future.
It should help you to cope with stress, with lesser competitive intention as your inert character isn't build for harsh environment.
You need an environment where your talent can shine as a individual contributor.

After age 45, the factor that been hindering your ability to shine will clear off and you will find the right environment to excel.
Your 5th pillar 45-54 years old will be your golden age.


Your love life will improve after age 45, your SO will be very eligible (Senior Manager and above).

Take Care,
Goldman

Hi Gomhoainam

Let say, you have lady luck according to Bazi, but you insist not going to a relationship, then nobody can force you.

Best,
Goldman

Hi Gomhoainam

Your relationship luck isn’t strong, but isn’t entirely barren. You may have to make effort to know more
about ladies around you / extra mile to meet more other ladies.

I thought the bigger concern is your level of obsession on your career and ambition will dampen your relationship development. Chances are - you will prioritise your career and ambition over your future significant other (SO).

It’s not a bad thing to know this now before you are in a relationship so that you can prevent neglecting your SO when Lady Luck comes.

Best,
Goldman

Hi Mayer

My take is as such:

You have the inert ability to know what a person is thinking when he/she is in front of you.
This can make men uncomfortable as they felt they cant have little secrets of theirs.

You are a very firm and upright person, wanting things to go your way, because you felt you have the insights.
Strong personality in 20s but all is good if he loves all the above!

You should be born into a prestige family and is a blessed person yourself.

Best,
Goldman