Thank you, I hadn't heard of that. How do the elements in hidden stems factor in? I see wu has earth in hidden pillar

I am still a beginner, what are indicators to look for in a chart, year or luck pillars that indicate when a woman is most likely to have a baby?

He isn't the romantic type at all, if there is something like valentines day, I arrange things and make it special. Although oddly he thinks he is romantic without actually doing anything of that nature. We met in March of 2019,but moved in together March 2020 when South Africa started it's  CV lock down, I didn't want to be without him. No other prospects, but I really want to get married and I just can't seem to convince him. I am getting on his nerves bringing it up all the time. I am getting old, I would like to have kids while I am still physically capable. Thank you for your insight😁

My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, any hope that it will turn into marriage soon?
H           DM       M      Y.         (me) 12/1/1988
Geng.    Bing.    Gui.   Ding
Yin.        Yin.     Chou  Mao

H.      DM     M.    Y. (him) 28/10/1988
Wu   Bing.  Ren   wu
Zi.     Chen Xu.     Chen

I suppose how you would define prayer depends on your personal belief system, in my opinion it is very different from divination. I would define prayer as talking to God to ask for help, give thanks or worship. I would consider divination as looking for answers to specific questions, seeking guidance about the future