I have seen that in the relationship of my parents. My mother giving way more than my father in the relationship. I always wanted to do that differently, yet I am in that type of relationship or connections where I do not seem to be the receiving one.
That does not look good for me for future connections then. Not sure I am able to accept that. It is really frustrating. Longing for a deep loving true connection as well, whether that is friendship or something more.

Thank you very much for this reading. Very grateful for your insights.
I guess I will need to search for answers within me. I have difficulties in making connections with others (whether that is friendship, love, work, whatever). That is a big frustration and not sure why I always run into feeling connected with someone but never able to encounter the real connection by heart. I just don't succeed in it. And for some reason I then each time encounter persons who reflect this. I like someone but there is no possibility for connection as the other person is simply not interested in me.
Again, like this situation, feeling connected in some way and it is just a dead end thing, an illusion or something.
I am pondering for a long time already, visited therapists but still struggling in the same situations.
Not sure what to do about it.
Thanks again

Thanks as always.
She is a metal horse though? Can clarify the great social circle she has.
Talking about relationships with her will be difficult since there are not that type of deep conversations. I don't know her very well at that level, so that is why I question the intriguity.
I have casted a hexagram with the question and the result is '12'.
Appreciate all feedback here.
Looking at my own chart, I wonder if it is the 7K that came in through LP and the 7K in my hour that maybe have me thinking so much lately about everything in life (relationships, work life balance).

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Hi BetterTogether,

The main qualities you are describing about this DM are most likely due to (what seems like strong) metal in her chart.

Another way to possibly look at things is using the 60 JiaZi qualities:
Metal Dog - Metal can be hard, stiff, boring. The Metal Dog can appear put-off, like they don't
like people. They seem stand-offish because their heart is so tender. They have learned to
distance people a little bit. You have to earn their loyalty and blind love. Maybe when they
were younger or due to an animal stronger than them, they got hurt giving their love away
blindly. You have to make them want to help you or bring you into their pack. The other four
dogs may do things blindly, the Metal Dog is very calculating. They are very intelligent and very
good at reading people. They will seem cold, but they are not, you just got to get past their
exterior. A Metal Dog will fight for you if you make it into their pack. You won't be able to get
out until they are done.
This is just one interpretation to provide an image of possible traits. It should not be taken literally.

I would think, if you wish to understand your relationship with this person or whatever specifically
is your concern regarding this person, word it as a divination question and cast a hexagram.
I will read it when I have time.

If you are just curious about why she is currently not in a relationship, best to just ask her.


ren

One more thing to add: comes across very disciplined though, but maybe not at home

Some things are spot on.
Yes, father died 8 years ago. Mother indeed important.
She is making a lot of money and has a lot of responsibilities, works really really hard.
Relationship did end, so currently no more relationship. Is described as ice cold, maybe that is why.

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she has an excessive energy
.being a geng person is dedicated to a single action .basically we have xin and geng -geng is very strong

2. it has a friend or friend structure

3. he is a strong metal yang person - he doesn't really have discipline because the yin fire gives birth to the earth

4. her father is absent from her life or dead

5. her mother is the key element in her life

6. he was lucky and has been lucky since the age of 9 - he will start making a lot of money around the age of 50

7.2019 2020 was more aggressive

8.2022 2023 2024 did heavy work and big money!!!

9.she meet her boyfriend in 2014 or 2015 for sure!the love of her life!

Some things are spot on.
Yes, father died 8 years ago. Mother indeed important.
She is making a lot of money and has a lot of responsibilities, works really really hard.
Relationship did end, so currently no more relationship. Is described as ice cold, maybe that is why.

she has an excessive energy
.being a geng person is dedicated to a single action .basically we have xin and geng -geng is very strong

2. it has a friend or friend structure

3. he is a strong metal yang person - he doesn't really have discipline because the yin fire gives birth to the earth

4. her father is absent from her life or dead

5. her mother is the key element in her life

6. he was lucky and has been lucky since the age of 9 - he will start making a lot of money around the age of 50

7.2019 2020 was more aggressive

8.2022 2023 2024 did heavy work and big money!!!

9.she meet her boyfriend in 2014 or 2015 for sure!the love of her life!

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I understand the difficulty of reading without birth chart hour.
Nevertheless, intrigued by the presence of this person.
What do you mean with pressure?

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Hey BetterTogether,

I will not speculate too much about this chart without the hour pillar.

Normally, temperature is regulated by the month branch with noticeable water or fire.
If this DM has a somewhat cold, maybe stand-off appearance, it may be due to the presence of seemingly strong metal.

On the day branch sits the spouse pillar & spouse star. But there is no connection to the DM (as posted).

Her last LP, Ding Si, does have a connection with the DM and indirectly with the spouse pillar, so maybe some interesting relationship history.
Plus, the spouse star - spouse pillar appears to put some pressure on the DM.

Again, need to see the hour pillar.

ren
@BetterTogether

Hi, can someone read this chart for me please as I try to understand more about this person's personality and if she is going to meet someone soon. Why still single?
Thanks.
DOB: 5 Sep 1978 (hour unknown).