Kindly need your help

[Karusagane]

Hi there, i need your help to analyze my bazi and give me some recommendation, if possible
Dob: 4 jun 93
Time: 00.20 am
Location: bangkok (gmt+7)
Gender male

I’m currently still confused about the career path. Should i work in another company or continue my family business or establish my own?
What kind of industries I am more compatible with?
Would I achieve my financial freedom before 40?
Will i ever get married?
I have always been feeling unlucky for this long, is it because my bazi is weak? Or i am not working hard enough?
Thank you before

[coldpillow]

Bazi: https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&y=1993&m=6&d=4&h=00%3A20&g=7&l=100.5018&lon=13.7563&city1=100.5018%7Cbangkok
ZWDS: https://zwds-calculator.com/chart2?month=6&day=4&year=1993&h=00&m=20&gender=Male&luck_year=2024&gmt=7&long=100.5

Should i work in another company or continue my family business or establish my own?
Would I achieve my financial freedom before 40?
Will i ever get married?
I have always been feeling unlucky for this long, is it because my bazi is weak? Or i am not working hard enough?

1. Family business. Are you strongly influenced by your mother and other female relatives, I wonder?
2. Possible yet difficult. Your mind doesn't look entirely focused/dedicated to money.
3. No. There are signs of problems with money.
4. Your Bazi natal chart is strong, but your decade luck looks more challenging.

Your ZWDS chart particularly falls to unlucky/inauspicious structure:

梁馬飄蕩格

Prerequisite: Tian Liang and Tian Ma in Ming in Si, Hai, Yin or Shen.

Note: Tian Ma only goes in one of the four corner palaces. This configuration denotes toil and labour, yet no harvest and gain. And it brings unfavorable stuff related to affections, feelings, wedding and marriage.

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In a big picture, you have resolve, you are optimistic, you have a target. Over time, your resolve will diminish under pressure and unfavorable circumstances. You might feel distracted, boredom or tired at work.

BUT remember, you are strong, you have good support system and you can manage to adapt. Just maybe not set the expectation too high. Stay realistic.

If you're familiar with MBTI personality type, it's possible that you will lean towards **FP type as you grow older. If you're **TJ or **FJ, you must keep the J (Judging) trait strong. Hopefully, you're more assertive than turbulent. Otherwise it's harder to maintain optimism and stability.

In terms of Bazi, the character shift is indicated by DP/YP/heaven void in your hour pillar and decade LP from your 40s to 70s.

**FP type is spiritual, philosophical, artistic and value leisure than work. ***J type is more stable, organized, goal-oriented and value work than leisure.

[coldpillow]

梁馬飄蕩格

Prerequisite: Tian Liang and Tian Ma in Ming in Si, Hai, Yin or Shen.

Note: Tian Ma only goes in one of the four corner palaces. This configuration denotes toil and labour, yet no harvest and gain. And it brings unfavorable stuff related to affections, feelings, wedding and marriage.

More information:

Having no direction in life. Easy to be swayed here and there. Likes taking care of unnecessary, unimportant things or looking for trouble. What is really necessary for him is neglected; instead he is busy meddling in other people's affairs.

Need to improve his ability to earn money or do useful things. Another big problem: if someone else with good intentions tells you that what you are doing is actually not useful, then you will be offended.

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How much does it fit your situation?

[Karusagane]

Bazi: https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&y=1993&m=6&d=4&h=00%3A20&g=7&l=100.5018&lon=13.7563&city1=100.5018%7Cbangkok
ZWDS: https://zwds-calculator.com/chart2?month=6&day=4&year=1993&h=00&m=20&gender=Male&luck_year=2024&gmt=7&long=100.5

Should i work in another company or continue my family business or establish my own?
Would I achieve my financial freedom before 40?
Will i ever get married?
I have always been feeling unlucky for this long, is it because my bazi is weak? Or i am not working hard enough?

1. Family business. Are you strongly influenced by your mother and other female relatives, I wonder?
2. Possible yet difficult. Your mind doesn't look entirely focused/dedicated to money.
3. No. There are signs of problems with money.
4. Your Bazi natal chart is strong, but your decade luck looks more challenging.

Your ZWDS chart particularly falls to unlucky/inauspicious structure:

梁馬飄蕩格

Prerequisite: Tian Liang and Tian Ma in Ming in Si, Hai, Yin or Shen.

Note: Tian Ma only goes in one of the four corner palaces. This configuration denotes toil and labour, yet no harvest and gain. And it brings unfavorable stuff related to affections, feelings, wedding and marriage.

---

In a big picture, you have resolve, you are optimistic, you have a target. Over time, your resolve will diminish under pressure and unfavorable circumstances. You might feel distracted, boredom or tired at work.

BUT remember, you are strong, you have good support system and you can manage to adapt. Just maybe not set the expectation too high. Stay realistic.

If you're familiar with MBTI personality type, it's possible that you will lean towards **FP type as you grow older. If you're **TJ or **FJ, you must keep the J (Judging) trait strong. Hopefully, you're more assertive than turbulent. Otherwise it's harder to maintain optimism and stability.

In terms of Bazi, the character shift is indicated by DP/YP/heaven void in your hour pillar and decade LP from your 40s to 70s.

**FP type is spiritual, philosophical, artistic and value leisure than work. ***J type is more stable, organized, goal-oriented and value work than leisure.

1. I am closer to my mother/female relatives than father/male one
2. It is true, i also feel the same.
3. So there is a sign of problem with money and i will never get married because of that?
4. When will this challenge end?

And for the industry i will fit in better?

[Karusagane]

梁馬飄蕩格

Prerequisite: Tian Liang and Tian Ma in Ming in Si, Hai, Yin or Shen.

Note: Tian Ma only goes in one of the four corner palaces. This configuration denotes toil and labour, yet no harvest and gain. And it brings unfavorable stuff related to affections, feelings, wedding and marriage.

More information:

Having no direction in life. Easy to be swayed here and there. Likes taking care of unnecessary, unimportant things or looking for trouble. What is really necessary for him is neglected; instead he is busy meddling in other people's affairs.

Need to improve his ability to earn money or do useful things. Another big problem: if someone else with good intentions tells you that what you are doing is actually not useful, then you will be offended.

---

How much does it fit your situation?

Having no direction in life. Easy to be swayed here and there. Likes taking care of unnecessary, unimportant things. What is really necessary for him is neglected >>> very true. I really want to end all of this and start to be more productive and useful but i am still clueless

looking for trouble. instead he is busy meddling in other people's affairs. >>>> i dont think so. I usually avoid making any trouble and avoid getting involved in other people’s affair. I have no many friends and am a loner. Sometimes i do talk a lot, but most of the time, i am very quiet

Need to improve his ability to earn money or do useful things >>>> very agree, that is why i am here. Maybe if i am required to change some of my behavior, please let me know. I really want to improve my self and i don't want to still live this way

Another big problem: if someone else with good intentions tells you that what you are doing is actually not useful, then you will be offended. >>>> true, i can not take any criticism lightheartedly although i know what they say is true.

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[Karusagane]

Suitable jobs for you:

1. Psychotherapy
2. Trainer/Teaching
3. Child Development
4. Writing/Journalism
5. Humanitarian work
6. Graphic/Web Design
7. Corporate Social Responsibility
8. Financial Planning
9. Spiritual healing
10. Human Resources/Staffing

Suitable industries: social, creative, spiritual, sustainability, mental health, financial health.

In short, your jobs should be related to advocacy, human capital or social welfare the most.

I see. I actually ever took career interest and personality test back in 2008 and the result was similar to your recommendation. I am more suitable as writer, teacher, psychologist.

1. I am closer to my mother/female relatives than father/male one
2. It is true, i also feel the same.
3. So there is a sign of problem with money and i will never get married because of that?
4. When will this challenge end?

What is your family business? Looks like it's just as important.

Marriage is not a priority. If you ever get married, I guess it would be unusual (according to society): much older woman, old couple, childless and spiritual.

The challenge may end when you figure out your life calling. As written above, it should be related to social cause or spiritual cause. 

Heaven void will force us to feel more like **FP-T if we work just for money. **FP-T is the least stable MBTI personality type, which value leisure/peace of mind over ambition. We want to make more money, but our mind is tired. In the end, our life is toilsome and it drains us empty, fruitless.

my family business is really important because it is our main source of income. but the business itself is like a roller coaster, sometimes we earn much but we can also lose a lot. this business requires my father to constantly supervise his subordinates in the field, which i realize i don't quite like it. i am really unsure if i can run it well if one day the business is fully managed by me.

yes i never put marriage as my priority. but my parents always insist me to get married soon as i am already 30. i am afraid i can ruin the marriage life due to my unusual personality. Besides that, i am still clueless about my future (no direction, like you said). I am also not smart at making money, how can i become a breadwinner of the family then.

Thank you for your analysis, i really appreciate it

[coldpillow]

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