Friend rejecting wife

[JR]

https://kevinchanbazi.wordpress.com/category/bazi-general/bazi-60-pillars/%e4%b8%81%e6%9c%aa-ding-wei/
this is an interesting article on the 60 dm. Born in ding Wei day Xin chou month, iI tend to reject 7k(risky activiyies,heroism,bossiness) and girls(IW)and Money as seducing a girl is tiresome and i lack the patience.I tend to chat them up but then lose interest and dont follow through However chou is month hence strong,and therws strong wealth/girl in stems. Shouldnt it be the other way round, girl and boss avoiding me?

Thanks

[JLim (Darma W)]

Hi JR, I must have written somewhere in this forum: Ding Wei Day wants to control Xin Chou Month.  However, the Day is not strong enough to control the Month.  What this means: you want to get girls. But I'm afraid you have had quite some difficulties in getting them.

Maybe you lack the patience.  Maybe you lose interest.  Or maybe the girls avoid you.  These are all possible scenarios of "not being able to control".