Second opinion (cheating / relationships, etc)

[vikky37]

Dear all,

I appreciate your participation and it was incredibly helpful to read all these responses. I’m no specialist in this filed and the reason why I asked for another opinion is that it’s always interesting how different people interpret one and the same chart, and I guess astrology in general is providing a bunch of different techniques and methods that sometimes give different interpretations. The things that Maria said somehow resonated with me and I’m glad with had this discussion on this forum.

[TenVirtues]

Hello dear @TenVirtues,

Thank you for your feedback!

In September 2019 I moved to France and met a bunch of interesting people but never got really interested in anyone (there was probably only one person that was nice but he was too passive and I didn't feel like pursuing him . And then the lockdown started.. Right now I live between two countries travelling back and forth (hopefully, I can still work online) but feel lost and lonely at times because I don't really know where I should eventually settle down.

I have a degree in linguistics and translation which also includes teaching foreign languages. Every now and then I also teach the 'Acting in English' class in drama school in France, so theatre is a big passion of mine. I've been also performing and staging some plays a bit since 2013 in different theatre clubs and associations.

As for my parents, my mother is a kinda helicopter mom, she's very present in my life even when I'm far away. My dad is caring and loving as well but on the surface he never really shows his feelings so he might seem a bit indifferent and distant to people who don't know him. But for the inheritance things .. nothing comes to my mind right now, they're both middle-class workers. Or are you implying something specific?

And yes, I do love spicy food!   

Thank you again and take care,

Hi @vikky37
Thanks for the feedback! Because from the look of your chart show that you are good at studying and researching technical fields. The first thing that came to mind was technical research. Maybe Chemistry etc.
I don't know would you say linguistics and translations is quite technical in nature?
Yes! I think performance arts is a good subject for you and, you should definitely keep cultivating those skill! It could prove very helpful to you in the future.

As for your the subject of your inheritance. I think it is also good to point out, why some things in astrology is very hard to pinpoint.
For me the same indications that show your inheritance also show the wealth of your spouses family. So sometimes these things can get mixed.
 It could be that the inheritance could come from your spouses family in the future. Please come back on this forum and let us know in the future if that does happen.
Nevertheless Inheritance from your father is still possible even if they were middle class.

As for your mother i am curious. There are couple indications, that show that she is quite a popular character. She could be involved in public gatherings, or even public demonstrations.
She could be strong advocate for women's rights. There are also other indications that she could be in the healthcare field or in a field that involves some type of healing.
Nevertheless she should be good at organizing gatherings and parties.

It also show's that either you or her have a love for shoes, and keep a lot of shoes

That being said since i don't have much time nowadays to give many readings. I will be a little more thorough with you and give you a couple remedies. You can choose to follow if you like.

1. I recommend aroma therapy with essential oils. You should have keen sense of smell and you need to de-stress.
Aroma therapy should be perfect for you!

2. Make sure the south-west side of your home is free of clutter and garbage.

3. Make sure all the watches and electronic watches are all working in your home. If they are not working throw them away or get them fixed.

4.  Develop a habit of walking or hiking outdoors can go with a friend, with a dog, or by yourself!

5. Donate some Computer Equipment, Writing Equipment, Stationary to people in need.

Hope this Helps!


I want to remind everyone that BaZi/Astrology or any type of Metaphysical Study. Is not a exact Science. In a chart there could be multiple indications of Wealth and Poverty.
It is not hard to see how one focuses more on one indication more then the other. It is again up to the practitioner to navigate these indications and it is not easy.
So really i find no reason to need to debate theory. If you believe in your theories then make your prediction's through that. There is no such thing as failure only learning opportunity!

If you get a prediction wrong then take it as a learning opportunity go back and self-correct. No need to debate or argue over theories. In the end of the day it is about using your theories to present facts.
If the facts are correct no need to argue over the theory.

Goodluck to All! 

[Gmuli]

I want to remind everyone that BaZi/Astrology or any type of Metaphysical Study. Is not a exact Science. In a chart there could be multiple indications of Wealth and Poverty.
It is not hard to see how one focuses more on one indication more then the other. It is again up to the practitioner to navigate these indications and it is not easy.
So really i find no reason to need to debate theory. If you believe in your theories then make your prediction's through that. There is no such thing as failure only learning opportunity!

If you get a prediction wrong then take it as a learning opportunity go back and self-correct. No need to debate or argue over theories. In the end of the day it is about using your theories to present facts.
If the facts are correct no need to argue over the theory.

Goodluck to All! 

Absolutely. The world is vast, we can't know everything, the only important thing is the desire to know more and the understanding that we are allowed to make mistakes, as long as we keep learning.

Yet there is the idea a master "can't be wrong", and that messes everything up putting immense pressure on people, making them worried to make readings and that they may "lose reputation". But we all are learning, so this point of view is not beneficial in forums, in my humble view.

When I started my path in metaphysical studies I had the great opportunity to study from people that were high beyond what most people think possible. And they were so clear that everyone on Earth is just on a first few steps of an endless path, with that that "mastery" is a concept for people that doesn't really understand how it works.
We are all students of life, that will never stop while we are happy and healthy.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is we shouldn't worry of making readings here or anywhere else. If we get it wrong - its all good, part of life. If there are people demanding we are 100% perfect all the time, then ignoring them is the healthiest approach.

So I fully agree and support, also respect that position. Luckily most members realize that here. Sadly, not all realize it in other places.