Relationship and Future

[charmeow]

5 July 1993, 9.45am, female, Singapore

Would like to know more about my life luck in general and also relationship

Thank you in advance~

[coldpillow]

- How do you feel growing up with your family?
- Does your job involve a lot of speech in front of people? (teaching, sales & marketing, singing, public speaking, lawyer etc).   

[charmeow]

- How do you feel growing up with your family?
- Does your job involve a lot of speech in front of people? (teaching, sales & marketing, singing, public speaking, lawyer etc).   

1. Am not closed with my family
2. Doesn’t involve public speeches

Thank you!

[coldpillow]

Those questions are related to dragon hour. Looks tentative.

These ones for snake:
- Do you work in financial sector, supply chain or run your own business?
- Are you somewhat a big spender?
- Are you lonely or a loner with very strong, competitive personality?

[charmeow]

Those questions are related to dragon hour. Looks tentative.

These ones for snake:
- Do you work in financial sector, supply chain or run your own business?
- Are you somewhat a big spender?
- Are you lonely or a loner with very strong, competitive personality?

1. Business owner
2. I'm quite good at saving money and rarely spend. But when it comes to things I want, I am willing to spend.
3. Don't feel lonely hahah. Enjoy being alone with very strong, competitive personality

[coldpillow]

I'll go with snake hour.

- You are physically attractive.
- Brave, a risk-taker. Busy woman.
- Good money management, rewarding career, but it's toilsome. 
- Very stable in asset but unstable in cash. I guess money doesn't come easily to your lap. There is pain when earning and spending money. The bigger the money, the bigger the pain.

So, you are not the type of person who will buy a house in hard cash. You will prefer to buy with installments (bank loan).

I don't think you're interested in romance or having children, for now. In your calculation, the cost of marriage life isn't worth the pain. 
 

[charmeow]

I'll go with snake hour.

- You are physically attractive.
- Brave, a risk-taker. Busy woman.
- Good money management, rewarding career, but it's toilsome. 
- Very stable in asset but unstable in cash. I guess money doesn't come easily to your lap. There is pain when earning and spending money. The bigger the money, the bigger the pain.

So, you are not the type of person who will buy a house in hard cash. You will prefer to buy with installments (bank loan).

I don't think you're interested in romance or having children, for now. In your calculation, the cost of marriage life isn't worth the pain. 
 

Can you elaborate more on the cost of marriage life?  Someone did mention about potential divorce and miscarriage/trouble conceiving for my bazi

[coldpillow]

Can you elaborate more on the cost of marriage life? 

Maybe something like this story:

https://www.eonline.com/news/1391874/tearful-michael-buble-shares-promise-he-made-to-himself-amid-sons-cancer-battle
 

[charmeow]

Can you elaborate more on the cost of marriage life? 

Maybe something like this story:

https://www.eonline.com/news/1391874/tearful-michael-buble-shares-promise-he-made-to-himself-amid-sons-cancer-battle

Hmm would that mean marriage is okay but just no kids? 

[coldpillow]

 
Hmm would that mean marriage is okay but just no kids? 

No kid or no more than 2 kids.

Both of you must be religious/spiritual too. Otherwise, marriage life is hollow.

[coldpillow]

This is your chart btw:
- https://bazi-calculator.com/?licz=1&y=1993&m=7&d=5&h=10%3A00&g=0&l=0&s=1
- https://zwds-calculator.com/chart2?month=7&day=5&year=1993&h=10&m=00&gender=Female&luck_year=2023&gmt=0&long=0

In ZWDS destiny box, you have wuqu and tanlang huaji. Basically, there is a conflict between wealth (wuqu) vs spirituality (tanlang huaji).

There are some interpretations, which you can improvise according to your own situation:

- You want to be rich and successful, but the process is painful unless your career is related to arts, philosophy, metaphysics, charity. Earning money becomes much less painful that way.

- You enjoy being alone because you're selfish and career-oriented during youth. But tanlang huaji  won't allow you to remain selfish in old age. Sharing is caring.

- Late marriage is better because the materialistic nature of wuqu star may clash with the spiritual nature of tanlang huaji. Focus on your career first and then slow down to shift your focus on marriage and spirituality.

- You actually need helping hands from other people to make your life easier/happier, e.g. your parents or friends.

You have a void branch in the month pillar of your bazi chart, which affects your supporting element. Your strength is halved but it's also a sign of spiritual talent. You remain somewhat weak until you're 70, so you must seek more support from other people.