Are we compatible? Rat Male and Rabbit Female

[Spiritsfan]

i dont understand if people said that i came from a rich family or i am having good wealth or i am good in accumulating wealth...

my life so far, i used to live in a very independent person mode. my parents are not a typical who love to give comfort for their daughters. i have to work hard to gain money. and still have difficulties on selling products. i feel hard being entrepreneur because lack of money for starting business.

i have to feed my kids and parent (sandwich generation). my parents wealth is average, but they expect me to give them money as i am their ATM machine (i feel this way).

i have no freedom to use my wealth.

Hi 
I would like to know if i am (female 5 March 1985 born 6.50 AM) compatible with this male (5 June 1983 around 5 AM) or not. I will be glad if there are any help from you to explain this relationship from fengshui or bazi perspectives or else.

Btw, I am so afraid wasting my time in a wrong relationship 

thank you before.
regards, marlisa.

Hello.

This is some kind of joke or test. The man is very bad at accumulating wealth. And at the same time he is extremely willful. The woman is successful and can accumulate a lot of wealth. As an option for a woman to close her karmic debts - very good. Only in this aspect can such a long-term union be considered.

Everything you wrote fully confirms my words. Children and parents belong to the element of wealth. At the same time, you still earn money. You have a large reserve for accumulating wealth. But where you will use it depends on you and the situation. "Whoever carries it, they ride on it."

[coldpillow]

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[Marlisakurniaty]

Here's my mom and dad chart (attachment):
Mom: 3 mar 1954
Dad: 12 Jul 1950

I feel uncomfortable with mom because her vibes feels like she uses me, but i love my father.

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Thank you so much, that’s deep
 

I guess you and your parents are actually dependent on each other.

They need your abundant wood. And you need something from them to cover what you lack... I suspect it's fire.

You can check their natal charts yourself here: https://bazi-calculator.com/

[coldpillow]

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[Marlisakurniaty]

And if i continue with my relationship with boyfriend, will it be a good companion? is it a good marriage?

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And because your Daymaster element is water, your parents perceive you as their wealth.

So, the relationship may feel like a marriage or employment. Husband and wife. Boss and subordinate. Earth DM controls water DM.

I forgot you have Wu-Gui combo(!), which will add fire into your chart. So, that means you have good wealth luck.

This Wu-Gui combo also represents the union between you and your parents. Definitely beneficial for you, but maybe not so much for your mother.

She needs both metal and water, especially metal (from your dad), to feel better in this relationship.

Without metal as a bridge/buffer, there will be a conflict between her strong fire and water from other charts.

[Rhizome]

Hi 
I would like to know if i am (female 5 March 1985 born 6.50 AM) compatible with this male (5 June 1983 around 5 AM) or not. I will be glad if there are any help from you to explain this relationship from fengshui or bazi perspectives or else.

Btw, I am so afraid wasting my time in a wrong relationship 

thank you before.
regards, marlisa.

Location of birth, please.  Thanks.

[Marlisakurniaty]

female 5 March 1985 born 6.50 AM - Jakarta, Indonesia
male 5 June 1983 around 5 AM - Duri, Riau, Indonesia

Hi 
I would like to know if i am (female 5 March 1985 born 6.50 AM) compatible with this male (5 June 1983 around 5 AM) or not. I will be glad if there are any help from you to explain this relationship from fengshui or bazi perspectives or else.

Btw, I am so afraid wasting my time in a wrong relationship 

thank you before.
regards, marlisa.

Location of birth, please.  Thanks.

[coldpillow]

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[Marlisakurniaty]

Noted, thats about his lack or red flag. How about mine? Do i have red flag also? Can I handle his red flag or better to not continuing the relationship?

[coldpillow]

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[ren]

Hi Marlisakurniaty,

Just curious...

Were you previously married, in a previous long term relationship?
Do you have children? How many?
How long have you been in your current relationship?
How is your current relationship going?

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Thanks, 

ren 

[Marlisakurniaty]

ya i was married and i have 2 daughters:
- on 2006, divorce around 2008 and have 1 daughter
- on 2010, divorce on 2021 and have 1 daughter

my current relationship is very new, we start it on Sept 2024.
I saw him...  we have many things in common.. we love running (sport).
He loves movies, me too. But i think our lifestyle is different, he used to buy things that support his enjoyment (vape, alcohol drink, drone, etc); but me used to hold buy things except i really really really want it or need to buy it (functional).

Hi Marlisakurniaty,

Just curious...

Were you previously married, in a previous long term relationship?
Do you have children? How many?
How long have you been in your current relationship?
How is your current relationship going?

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Thanks, 

ren