Will This Boy Be Successful

[niwij]

A friend of mine concerns about his child's Bazi. Man, 16-10-2000, 08:30 AM. All the branches is earth element. Kindly discuss and share is this Bazi really need to be concerned, especially the best career and luck period. Thank you

[PdStelle]

Hi, niwij,

Place of birth?

[Rhizome]

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[niwij]

Born in Medan, Indonesia. Thank you all for your kindness. 

[PdStelle]

He may suffer from depression, especially in the future, and have difficulties in forming love relationships.

One or both parents may have lacked parenting skills associated with positive enforcement at best, or have been mean and abusive at worst. Or he may be longing for a contact with his father.

He must learn first of all that  "he is not a bad person"  and then he must learn to love himself.

With age, recognition of his achievements will come.

Western Astrology analysis

[niwij]

He may suffer from depression, especially in the future, and have difficulties in forming love relationships.

One or both parents may have lacked parenting skills associated with positive enforcement at best, or have been mean and abusive at worst. Or he may be longing for a contact with his father.

He must learn first of all that  "he is not a bad person"  and then he must learn to love himself.

With age, recognition of his achievements will come.

Western Astrology analysis

Hi PdStelle, thank you so much for your kindness. So far, only you who has compassion and is eager to help here.

As far as I am concerned, his parents is kind and love this child so much. Everyday fill him with wise words and guidances, especially his daddy. I admire because seldom I see a father will rain so much words to his child these days.

The child himself is like good ordinary kids, obey parents, has own hobbies, does not like hanging out too much. But does things hastily and dislike to follow norms or formal rules.

Can Western Astrology tell what type of career suit him best ? Thank you once again for helping.

[JLim (Darma W)]

The child himself is like good ordinary kids, obey parents, has own hobbies, does not like hanging out too much. But does things hastily and dislike to follow norms or formal rules.

Hi niwij, I have been busy (as well as others, I suppose), so I haven't had a chance to look at his chart.  But I see the bold parts are contradicting each other.

[niwij]

The child himself is like good ordinary kids, obey parents, has own hobbies, does not like hanging out too much. But does things hastily and dislike to follow norms or formal rules.

Hi niwij, I have been busy (as well as others, I suppose), so I haven't had a chance to look at his chart.  But I see the bold parts are contradicting each other.

Hello Mr.Jlim,

Nice to have you here to help. There's no any problems between parent and the child. They are close. My hubby is close friend with his family. Parents and the child often go out together for movies, travels etc.

A bit concern perhaps because this teenager dislike to be controlled. He often get irritated whenever being told to do something he feels rigid or unfair. He likes freedom. His parents hope some help here to tell what sort of studies or career suit best for him.

I am not good enough to analyse his Bazi but I see strong Hurting Officer but the HO is clashed. Hope you can help from Mangpai point of view. Thank you.

[PdStelle]

Niwij,

The forum just started, it is still under construction and we don't have that many members yet.

This section of the forum is left to the good will of members to offer a free reading.

To be close to your child and give him all your love doesn't mean that you possess good parenting skills and that is giving the child what he NEEDS, not what he wants.But of course I may be wrong! I think that his biggest challenge in life will be love relationships. He must also learn to control his irritability and anger..

About his job, let's hear someone else!

I can only say that some influential friends will be helpful for his career.

The emotional state of a person is of paramount importance in all aspect of life

[PdStelle]

It is also important to know what kind of aspirations he has, what he has being doing so far, will he go to College or not. The astral.chart shows a range of possibilities that must match reality.
He has Mars in house 10 of career. He could be a sportsman or he could be in the army...
Mercury, ruler of his 10th house is in 12th house. This could be a man who speaks behind the scenes (a film director,  or someone who talks to people in private like a psychiatrist.or a social worker or work within a prison, an asile. The possibilities are many.

I wish I could help you more!

[niwij]

Hi PdStelle 

I really appreciate your help. It gives more viewpoint. I don't know how the boys in-depth, except from my hubby and little from his chart.

His parents once told that this boy has passion to become a pilot, and he enjoys it. But because he does things hastily, not prudent or dislike to follow procedures, his daddy does not grant the permission.  But he is good at public speaking and reading some management and law books. I see his parents give him enough freedom to choose as long as he loves it and knows how to earn money from it in the future. The problem is now the boy and the daddy don't know what field of study and career suit him best.

PS : I heard astrology can also tell how someone's parent achivement from his child's chart. Is it true ? Can you see it ? Thank you.

[PdStelle]

In the Western Chart you can  see how the person experiences his parents more than how his parents are or what they do. This is more evident looking at siblings' charts.

However,  good achievements of the parents can be seen through Sun/Moon ( father/mother) positive aspects to PLUTO, the planet of POWER. The trine aspect in particular denotes certain power in society.

There are no such aspects in this chart.

He has instead a trine to Uranus, which shows that this boy is capable to grasp new ideas and adapt to new situations quickly and that he's able to talk to people from all walks of life.

This aspect also makes him  questioning rules and traditions if they don’t seem to make sense to him.
He needs to understand, he won't obey otherwise.

I think he has good reflexes and guts to become a pilot (Mars in house 10)

[PdStelle]

PS: A pilot can also be the power behind the scenes, lol.. "Ladies and gentlemen, this is your captain speaking..."

You seldom see him! 

[TenVirtues]

Hi all @niwij ,
Not so young anymore 18 years old is adult time to step into the World. From the look of his bazi chart. He is someone that is curious about everything.
伤官配印. His chart 丁 born in 戌 month, 4 pillars all earth, weak DM but receive 甲 in hour pillar which is sitting on top of 辰. 甲 is in great strength. Useful God is in strength and strong. For people who this type of combination. Very good in speaking whether public or private. He is creative and have many ideas, most have him go to college so he can expand his mind in a good environment. Whatever field he enters he will definitely be known among his peers. With elemental make up most likely something intellectual.

[niwij]

PS: A pilot can also be the power behind the scenes, lol.. "Ladies and gentlemen, this is your captain speaking..."

You seldom see him! 

Haha exactly....Thanks for the help.