@throosden ,
I feel she is mentally and physically over-taxing herself.
Culprit to me is the combined effect of the following:
- The You (7k) that represents her ambitions
- The interaction between that ambition and her goals (wealth-earth), either from main chart or from the years
- Her strong output, putting her ambitions to action, but drains her
- The Gui and Zi water, which I think drive her to make decisions not useful for her health, so it does not really support her
For example, main chart alone, in the stems, Gui water grows Yi wood grows Bing fire.
Bing fire is Hurting Officer or Indirect Output, so there is natural desire to express and her acts are bold and big - and this all begins from her Indirect Support (Gui water)
But in the branches, Zi water suppresses Si fire, so her Direct Support suppresses her Direct Output.
Support to me is a lot to do with the mind, thoughts, morality issues, judgement of what is right and wrong, etc.
So on the outside, it looks like her thought supports her expression, but internally it conflicts.
To add to that confusing state, Zi is Yang water containing 100% Yin water, so it is Direct and Indirect Support at the same time.
Si is Yin fire with Yang fire as it's main component.
So this duality swimming around in a conflicting, yet not conflicting state...makes me question if this adds a mental and spiritual load on her.
Chou - her goals, grows You - her ambition, + the Bing output, easily explains for her extreme lifestyle, gunning for all sorts of objectives, and those objectives are more physical and outward (Bing output).
Very little in her chart revitalizes her: the Zi confuses her, Gui is useless having to feed the strong Bing, only the Yi wood is actually beneficial, everything else drains her.
Fire also sits in her Spouse Palace.
Her Spouse element should be metal.
Fire is harmful to metal, so for fire to sit in Spouse Palace, means she won't have good relationship with her husband.
For kids, there is potential for 2, because for females, output is kids, and there are 2 fires in her chart.
The strongest possibility is the Bing as you mentioned, due to the harmonious flow and the it sits exactly on the Hour Pillar - the pillar for offspring.
Bing is opposite Yin/Yang type to DM, so likely it'll be a boy.
I do think that if she continues to drain and not rejuvenate, she might not be in optimal health for child bearing.
After all, as weak DM, it is dangerous to be weakened further.
For luck with males, it will be her You metal.
But since it is 7K and not Direct Officer, higher chance she falls for those who tend not to treat her so well.
This Luck Pillar (2019 to 2028) is particularly challenging because:
LP stem Wu earth combines with Gui water.
LP branch Chen earth combines with You metal.
Unfulfilled ambitions and goals/loss of wealth, mixed with thoughts which are not helpful.
2020:Stem - Wu-Gui combo, Yi-Geng combo, left Bing
Branch - Chen-You combo, double Zi-Chou combo, left Si.
Entire chart left with output draining DM.
2021:Stem - Wu-Gui combo, Bing-Xin combo, left Yi.
Branch - Chen-You combo, Zi-double Chou combo, left Si.
Better than 2020, but still suffering from negative ambitions, goals and mind space.
2022:Stem - Wu-Gui combo, Ren destroys Bing, left Yi.
Branch - Chen-You combo, Zi feeds Yin and suppresses Chou, left Si.
Output affected, still trouble with reaching goals, head space not helping.
2023:Stem - Wu-double Gui combo, Yi feeds Bing.
Branch - Chen-You combo, Zi suppresses Si, Mao destroys Chou.
You see the past few years, her life is in a constant state of having her goals obstructed, output curbed and released, water playing games with her - very chaotic.
Finally, higher chance to meet someone in 2028 because it is Shen metal year - Direct Officer year too, which is good.
BUT, Si-Shen will combine, so I think her lifestyle will scare the potential partner away....