Please help interpret my Bazi

[jeansue]

hi everyone,
can anyone here help interpret my Bazi?
i’m female born on 29 June 1987, 2000hrs

because currently i feel lost & stagnant about myself & life. i’m not married either.

[aeonrel]

Could you share your location of birth too?

[jeansue]

my birth place Tawau Sabah, Malaysia

[ren]

Hello Jeansue,

Hope all is well.

May I ask:
When (what year) did you start to feel “stuck”?
Have you previously had male relationships, boyfriends etc.? How did that go?
Have you experienced any 3rd party issues?

Thanks

Ren

[jeansue]

hi Ren,

i started feel like i’m going nowhere this year 2023. I quit my job this year because can’t get along with superior, and i just started new job recently.
Relationship wise, went out with few males but nothing much happened that would go to next stage. No 3rd party issue

[aeonrel]

Hi @jeansue ,

Attached is your chart.

I think the problem this year is because of the 2x 卯戌 Mao-Xu combination in the earthly branches.

卯 Mao, as Officer element, is related to your job, hence with 2 Mao being lost to a combine, luck with work is bad.
戌 Xu is Indirect Self-element, which can mean due to the way you communicate with others, (maybe a little overbearing?) caused friction at work and hence the unhappiness.

Stuck feeling is after you remove the 2x 卯戌 Mao Xu, the remaining 午 Wu fire clashes on the 酉 You metal. Metal is your Expression element and ability to be yourself.
When it is injured, you will feel very stuck.
Worse is the clashing comes from fire, which is your Support element.
Support element will also cause you to question more about what is right for yourself, for your life - deepening the feeling of being stagnant and lost.

Relationship-wise, maybe better luck next year.
Officer luck is shared with Spouse luck for females.
Since this year you lose 2x 卯 Mao, affinity with males not very good either.
In 2024, one of the 卯 Mao is replaced by 辰 Chen, reducing the 2x 卯戌 Mao-Xu combination to one, so number of Spouse elements lost is reduced.
Also, in the heavenly stems, another 甲 appears, adding more Spouse/Officer luck.
Luck with work also should improve.

But feeling of stuck might still persist, although in a different way, because 辰 Chen will combine with 酉 You, locking the metal away.
辰 Chen, similar to 戌 Xu, are Indirect Self-elements.
So likely feeling restricted pertaining to people that you deal with - how this will exactly play out, I'm not sure.

Other than what is mentioned, any specific areas or issues you are looking at or dive deeper?

[coldpillow]

Do you have problems with alcohol, reckless eating habit and constant bickering?

[jeansue]

Alcohol : No, i’m seldom drink
Eating : yes, when i’m stressed
Bickering: No, i usually just keep it to myself.

[jeansue]

hi Aeonrel,

based on my Bazi chart, what can you comment about my career path?

[coldpillow]

I think progress should be made on a bumpy road in your life. It won't be a smooth one.

Marriage is okay, if both partners believe in the same religion or practice good spirituality. The guy should have softer personality than you. Doesn't mean he's weak, just less assertive and allow you to be the dominant partner... just not too much.

Bottom line, you should think less about money and more about peace of mind.