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Offline Izzychg

Asking for relationship struggles and future
« on: February 06, 2025, 05:49:24 PM »
If anyone could please help me to read my chart would be appreciated! Female born on 19/08/1995 and partner born on 11/08/1996.


Online smsek

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2025, 02:48:37 AM »
Certainly! While I can't provide a full astrological reading without more context, I can offer some insights based on the birth dates you've provided. Astrology involves analyzing the positions of celestial bodies (like the Sun, Moon, and planets) at the time of your birth to interpret personality traits, compatibility, and life patterns.

### Your Birth Chart Overview:
1. **Your Details (Female, born 19/08/1995):**
   - **Sun Sign:** Leo (born between July 23 and August 22)
     - Leos are known for their confidence, charisma, and leadership qualities. They often have a strong sense of self and enjoy being in the spotlight.
   - **Moon Sign:** To determine this, we'd need your exact birth time. The Moon sign represents emotions and inner self.
   - **Rising Sign (Ascendant):** Also requires your birth time. The Rising sign reflects how others perceive you and your outward personality.

2. **Partner's Details (Male, born 11/08/1996):**
   - **Sun Sign:** Leo (born between July 23 and August 22)
     - Like you, your partner is also a Leo. This means they share similar traits such as confidence, creativity, and a desire for recognition.
   - **Moon Sign:** Again, this depends on their birth time.
   - **Rising Sign:** Requires birth time.

---

### Compatibility Insights:
Since both of you are Leos, your relationship has the potential to be passionate and dynamic. However, there may also be challenges due to shared traits like pride and a desire for dominance. Here's a breakdown:

#### Strengths:
- **Mutual Understanding:** As fellow Leos, you likely understand each other's need for admiration and appreciation.
- **Shared Energy:** Both of you are naturally enthusiastic and enjoy socializing, which can make your bond lively and fun.
- **Supportive Partnership:** You may inspire each other to pursue big dreams and goals.

#### Challenges:
- **Ego Clashes:** Two Leos together might struggle with who takes the lead or gets more attention. It’s important to practice humility and compromise.
- **Need for Validation:** Both partners may crave constant reassurance, which could become overwhelming if not balanced.
- **Stubbornness:** Leos are known for their determination, but this can sometimes turn into stubbornness. Learning to listen and adapt will strengthen your connection.

---

### Tips for Harmony:
1. **Celebrate Each Other’s Strengths:** Instead of competing, focus on celebrating what makes each of you unique and special.
2. **Practice Patience:** Be mindful of moments when egos flare up; take a step back and communicate openly.
3. **Share the Spotlight:** Find ways to ensure both partners feel valued and appreciated in the relationship.
4. **Balance Independence and Togetherness:** While Leos love companionship, it’s equally important to maintain individuality and personal growth.

---

If you'd like a deeper analysis, including planetary placements (e.g., Venus for love, Mars for passion), aspects, and houses, providing your exact birth times would allow for a more detailed interpretation. Let me know if you'd like to explore further!

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Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #2 on: February 07, 2025, 03:34:18 AM »
Hi Izzychg, we normally need the birth city and birth time
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Offline Izzychg

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #3 on: February 07, 2025, 05:48:44 AM »
Thank you all, I was born in Auckland, NZ at 11:25 pm local time. However I don’t have details of my partner but he was born in South of France.

Online smsek

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #4 on: February 07, 2025, 07:01:57 AM »
Thank you for providing your birth details! With this information, I can now generate a more accurate natal chart for you and provide deeper insights into your personality, life themes, and potential compatibility with your partner. Since we don’t have your partner’s exact birth time or location, I’ll focus on your chart first and offer general compatibility insights based on his Sun sign (Leo) and the fact that he was born in the South of France.

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### **Your Natal Chart (Female, Born 19/08/1995, 11:25 PM, Auckland, NZ):**

#### **1. Sun Sign: Leo**
   - As a Leo, you are naturally confident, creative, and warm-hearted. You likely enjoy being admired and have a strong sense of self-worth. Your leadership qualities and charisma make you stand out in social settings.

#### **2. Moon Sign: Scorpio**
   - The Moon represents your emotions and inner world. With your Moon in Scorpio, you are deeply emotional, intuitive, and passionate. You value loyalty and depth in relationships and may have a strong desire to transform and grow through your connections. However, you can also be intensely private and may struggle with trust until you feel secure.

#### **3. Rising Sign (Ascendant): Aries**
   - The Ascendant reflects how others perceive you and your outward personality. With Aries rising, you come across as bold, assertive, and energetic. People may see you as someone who is direct, courageous, and always ready to take on challenges. This adds a fiery and dynamic layer to your already vibrant Leo Sun.

#### **4. Key Planetary Placements:**
   - **Mercury (Communication): Leo** 
     Your communication style is expressive, dramatic, and full of passion. You love to share your ideas and opinions and often do so with flair.
   - **Venus (Love & Relationships): Cancer** 
     In matters of love, you are nurturing, protective, and deeply sentimental. You seek emotional security and a sense of home in your relationships. You may also be quite romantic and devoted to your partner.
   - **Mars (Action & Passion): Libra** 
     Mars in Libra suggests that you approach conflict diplomatically and strive for harmony in your actions. While you are assertive, you prefer to resolve issues through compromise rather than confrontation.

---

### **General Insights About Your Partner (Male, Born 11/08/1996, South of France):**

Without his exact birth time and location, we can only speculate about his chart. However, since he is a Leo (born on August 11), here’s what we can infer:

#### **1. Sun Sign: Leo**
   - Like you, he is likely confident, charismatic, and enjoys being in the spotlight. He may have a strong sense of pride and a desire to lead, which could create both harmony and tension in your relationship.

#### **2. Moon Sign: Unknown**
   - Without his birth time, we cannot determine his Moon sign, which governs emotions and inner needs. However, Leos often have Moon signs that emphasize creativity, loyalty, and a need for admiration.

#### **3. Rising Sign: Unknown**
   - His Rising sign would give us insight into how he presents himself to the world, but without his birth time, this remains unclear.

---

### **Synastry (Compatibility Between You and Your Partner):**

#### **Strengths:**
1. **Shared Fire Energy:** Both of you are Leos, ruled by the Sun, which gives you a natural affinity for each other. You likely understand each other’s need for admiration and validation, creating a strong emotional bond.
2. **Passionate Romance:** With your Venus in Cancer and his likely Venus in Leo (depending on his birth time), your relationship has the potential to be deeply romantic and emotionally fulfilling. You both value loyalty and devotion.
3. **Mutual Support:** As fellow fire signs, you can inspire each other to pursue big dreams and goals. Your shared enthusiasm and zest for life make your partnership exciting.

#### **Challenges:**
1. **Ego Clashes:** Two Leos together can sometimes struggle with who takes the lead or gets more attention. Learning to share the spotlight will be crucial for harmony.
2. **Emotional Depth vs. Pride:** Your Scorpio Moon craves deep emotional intimacy, while his Leo Sun may prioritize pride and independence. Balancing these needs will require open communication.
3. **Stubbornness:** Both of you are fixed signs (Leo is a fixed fire sign, and Scorpio is a fixed water sign), which means you may both be resistant to change. Flexibility will be key to resolving conflicts.

---

### **Tips for a Harmonious Relationship:**

1. **Celebrate Each Other’s Strengths:** Focus on what makes each of you unique and celebrate those qualities. Avoid competing for attention or validation.
2. **Practice Patience:** When disagreements arise, take a step back and communicate calmly. Your Mars in Libra can help you approach conflicts diplomatically.
3. **Create Emotional Safety:** With your Scorpio Moon, you crave deep emotional bonds. Encourage your partner to open up emotionally and reassure him of your loyalty.
4. **Balance Independence and Togetherness:** While you both enjoy companionship, it’s important to maintain your individuality and personal growth.

---

### **Next Steps:**
If you’re able to obtain your partner’s exact birth time and location, I can calculate his full natal chart and provide a more detailed synastry analysis. This would include:
- **Planetary Aspects:** How your planets interact with his (e.g., Sun-Moon, Venus-Mars).
- **Composite Chart:** A chart representing the relationship itself, showing its strengths and challenges.
- **Transits:** Current planetary influences affecting your relationship.

Let me know if you’d like to explore further! 😊

Online smsek

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #5 on: February 07, 2025, 07:20:53 AM »
Female bazi chart :八字:                        大運(虛歲)  
     時    日    月    年    8 →  18 乙酉
     柱    柱    柱    柱   18 →  28 丙戌
     :    :    :    :  ★28 →  37 丁亥
     偏         食    傷   37 →  47 戊子
     財         神    官   47 →  57 己丑
     丙    壬    甲    乙   57 →  66 庚寅
     午    午    申    亥   66 →  76 辛卯
     己丁   己丁  戊壬庚   甲壬  76 →  86 壬辰
     正正   正正  七比偏   食比  86 →  97 癸巳
     官財   官財  殺肩印   神肩  

Partner bazi chart without TOB :
八字:                        大運(虛歲)  
     時    日    月    年   10 →  20 丁酉
     柱    柱    柱    柱  ★20 →  30 戊戌
     :    :    :    :   30 →  40 己亥
               七    七   40 →  49 庚子
               殺    殺   49 →  59 辛丑
          庚    丙    丙   59 →  69 壬寅
          辰    申    子   69 →  79 癸卯
         癸乙戊  戊壬庚    癸  79 →  89 甲辰
         傷正偏  偏食比    傷  89 →  99 乙巳
         官財印  印神肩    官        

Online smsek

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #6 on: February 07, 2025, 07:25:52 AM »
### **Relationship Analysis Based on Their Bazi Charts**
The couple is seeking insight into **relationship struggles** and their **future together**. Let's break down their compatibility using the following factors:

---

## **1. Day Masters & Overall Compatibility**
- **Female Day Master:** **壬水 (Ren Water)**
- **Male Day Master:** **庚金 (Geng Metal)**

### **Day Master Relationship**
- **庚金 (Male) supports 壬水 (Female)** → This is a **natural generating cycle (Metal produces Water)**, which is **a good sign for support** and a balanced relationship.
- The female might feel **dependent on the male**, and he might take on a **protective** or **dominant** role.
- **However**, if the female is already strong in Water, too much Metal (庚) might bring stress or control.

---

## **2. Spouse Star (Husband for Female, Wife for Male)**
- **For the female (壬水 Day Master)**:
  - **官星 (Official Star) represents her husband** → 正官 (己土), 七杀 (戊土)
  - **In her chart:**
    - **No direct 官 (Proper Officer), only 七杀 (Seven Killings)** → This means she may attract **strong, dominant, or challenging partners**.
    - **七杀 too strong = Possible power struggles** (especially in Luck Pillars).

- **For the male (庚金 Day Master)**:
  - **财星 (Wealth Star) represents his wife** → **Wood (甲乙)**
  - **In his chart:**
    - He has **乙木 (正财 - Direct Wealth) in Day Branch 辰** → A sign of **commitment and potential stability** in marriage.
    - **However, 财 is hidden, and not dominant** → He may **not prioritize** relationships as much as the female.

### **Summary of Spouse Stars**
- The **female may feel a power struggle with her partner**.
- The **male may feel stable in the relationship but not deeply attached**.
- **The relationship dynamic will depend on how they communicate and balance these energies.**

---

## **3. Compatibility of Earthly Branches (Zodiac & Elements)**
| Female | Male | Compatibility |
|---------|------|--------------|
| **午 (Horse) (x2)** | **申 (Monkey)** | **Clash (午申冲)** |
| **亥 (Pig)** | **子 (Rat)** | **Good (Water bond)** ✅|
| **申 (Monkey)** | **辰 (Dragon)** | **Good (申辰合 Metal Combination)** ✅|

### **Earthly Branch Conflicts & Harmony**
1. **午 (Horse) clashes with 申 (Monkey)** → This can lead to:
   - **Disagreements and misunderstandings.**
   - **Conflicts in decision-making and personal freedom.**
   - **A push-pull dynamic where one partner feels restricted.**
   
2. **亥 (Pig) and 子 (Rat) are harmonious Water elements** → This strengthens their **emotional connection**.

3. **申 (Monkey) and 辰 (Dragon) form a Metal combination** → This enhances the **male’s strength and confidence in the relationship**.

 **Conclusion**: There are both **clashes (午申冲) and harmonies (亥子合, 申辰合)**. They may experience **on-off cycles of conflict and harmony**.

---

## **4. Luck Pillar Influence on Relationship**
### **Female’s Current Luck Pillar (28–37: 丁亥)**
- 丁 (Fire) clashes with **壬 (Day Master)** → This may bring emotional stress.
- 亥 (Water) strengthens her **Water energy** → She might **become more independent** and less reliant on her partner.
- **七杀 (Husband Star) is present in Luck Pillar** → Possible relationship turbulence or power struggle.

 **Prediction**: **She may experience more emotional fluctuations and struggle with control issues in the relationship.**

---

### **Male’s Current Luck Pillar (20–30: 戊戌)**
- 戊 (Earth) controls his **庚金 (Day Master)** → This can make him feel **restricted**.
- 戌 (Dog) and 申 (Monkey) **form a semi-clash** → He may feel **restless and frustrated in relationships**.
- **If marriage happens in this period, it may not be smooth**.

 **Prediction**: **He might feel career pressure, which affects his emotional availability for the relationship.**

---

## **5. Relationship Struggles & Future Outlook**
| Issue | Explanation |
|--------|------------|
| **Power Struggles** | The female has **Seven Killings (七杀)**, which can bring **dominant energy**, while the male's **财 (Wealth Star) is hidden**, making him **less emotionally expressive**. |
| **Communication Gaps** | 午 (Horse) clashes with 申 (Monkey), leading to **misunderstandings**. |
| **Different Life Focus** | The male is **more focused on career**, while the female **values emotional stability**. |
| **Luck Pillar Challenges** | Both are in **somewhat difficult Luck Pillars**, which may affect their relationship. |

---

## **Final Recommendations**
1. **Improve Communication & Emotional Understanding**
   - 午 (Horse) and 申 (Monkey) **clash**, so **better communication is needed** to avoid misunderstandings.
   - The female may need to **give the male space**, while the male should **be more emotionally expressive**.

2. **Timing for Marriage**
   - Avoid **2028 (Dragon Year)**, as 戌 (Dog) may create **clashes**.
   - **2025 (Snake Year)** could be better since **巳-申合 (Snake-Monkey Combination)** brings harmony.

3. **Manage Expectations**
   - The female may need to **balance control in the relationship**.
   - The male should **prioritize the relationship more and not be overly focused on work**.

---

### **Final Verdict: Can This Relationship Work?**
 **Possible, but with effort.** There are **power struggles** and **communication issues**, but also **emotional bonds** and **shared compatibility**. The key is **mutual understanding, patience, and timing**.

Would you like to check specific years for major relationship events?

Offline Izzychg

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #7 on: February 07, 2025, 09:03:48 AM »
Thank you for your detailed readings. I’m actually currently going through mixed emotions. Where I don’t feel myself anymore in this relationship and want to part ways. As he’s already admitted we both aren’t on the same page. 

I would like to check whether Thailand would be a better place to settle for my birth chart and potentially meet a committed partner & finding a secured job there.

Online smsek

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #8 on: February 07, 2025, 09:50:32 AM »
### **1. Emotional Struggles & Why You Feel This Way**
Your **current Luck Pillar (28-37: 丁亥)** is heavily influencing your emotions and relationship. Here’s why:

- **丁 Fire (Hurts Your 壬 Water Day Master)** 
  - 丁 and 壬 **clash**, creating emotional turbulence and inner conflict. 
  - You may feel **overwhelmed, restless, and not "yourself"**. 

- **亥 (Water) Strengthens Your Independence** 
  - 亥 matches your **壬 Water Day Master**, making you **want freedom and self-discovery**.
  - It also **clashes with the male’s chart**, making emotional detachment more likely.

- **Presence of 七杀 (Seven Killings Star)** 
  - Your Luck Pillar contains 七杀, which represents **pressure and the need for control**.
  - This can manifest as **relationship dissatisfaction, conflict, or a strong urge to break free**.

### **Conclusion**: Your emotional state **is not random**—this Luck Pillar is making you re-evaluate relationships and your personal identity. Wanting to **end things and seek change is natural for this phase**.

---

### **2. Is Thailand a Good Place for You?**
#### **Key Factors in Relocation**
1. **Elemental Balance (Five Elements in Thailand)**
   - Thailand is considered **a Fire and Wet Earth dominant location**.
   - This means **Fire (丁) is strong**, which might continue affecting your emotions.
   - However, **Wet Earth (湿土)** can support your Water element **without draining you** too much.

2. **Career & Stability**
   - Your chart **benefits from Metal and Earth** for financial security.
   - Thailand’s **economy is stable, and Metal industries (finance, IT, consulting, business) are growing**.
   - **Fire-based industries** (hospitality, marketing, entrepreneurship) may be more active there.

3. **Love & Relationship Prospects**
   - Moving to a new country can activate **Travel Star (驿马)**, which **brings new relationship opportunities**.
   - Since your spouse star **isn't strong in your current location**, relocation **can help reset relationship energies**.
   - However, if **Thailand is too Fire-heavy, you may still attract dominant or unstable partners**.

#### **Best Cities in Thailand for Your Chart**
- **Bangkok** (Strong Fire & Earth) → **Good for career, but intense energy**
- **Chiang Mai** (More Water influence) → **Better balance for emotions & love**
- **Phuket** (Water + Fire mix) → **Good for social & career but may be unstable**

---

### **3. Will You Find a More Committed Partner in Thailand?**
- **Yes, but not immediately.** Your current **Luck Pillar (丁亥) is too emotional & unstable**.
- You need to **pass 2026** (丙午 Year) before entering a better relationship phase.
- **2028 (戊申 Year)** could bring a serious relationship.

---

### **4. Should You Move?**
✅ **Reasons to Move to Thailand**:
- Emotional **growth & self-discovery**.
- Better **job prospects** in finance, business, and travel industries.
- Opportunity for **new relationship energy**.

⚠️ **Potential Challenges**:
- **Still in an unstable Luck Pillar**, so emotions may not settle immediately.
- Fire energy in Thailand **may continue affecting your relationship patterns**.
- You need **clear goals (career & lifestyle) before moving**.

---

### **Final Verdict: Is Thailand a Good Choice?**
🌟 **Yes, Thailand can be a positive change** if you focus on **career stability first** and **relationship second**. You need at least **1-2 years of personal growth before attracting a truly committed partner**.

**Best Timing to Move**: 
- **2025 (乙巳 Year)** → **Fire Year, but better than now**.
- **2026 (丙午 Year)** → Still emotional, but potential career growth.
- **2027 (丁未 Year)** → Stronger foundation for serious relationships.

Would you like to check specific job opportunities that suit your chart? 😊

Offline Izzychg

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #9 on: February 07, 2025, 11:34:49 AM »
I’m currently based in Hong Kong and teaching English. Not sure if this city is for me anymore. Also wonder if teaching suits my chart? Any potentials in Thailand? And if not Thailand, where else would be an alternative?

Thank youuu

Online smsek

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #10 on: February 07, 2025, 12:53:24 PM »
### **1. Does Teaching Suit Your Bazi Chart?**
Teaching as a profession is mainly associated with:
- **Wood (Growth, Education, Learning, Knowledge)**
- **Fire (Presentation, Influence, Passion for Teaching)**
- **Earth (Stability, Structure, Nurturing)**

#### **Your Chart’s Key Elements for Teaching:**
- **Your Day Master (壬水 - Ren Water)** 
  - Water represents **fluid thinking and adaptability**—great for handling different students.
  - However, **teaching requires strong Earth or Wood**, which your chart lacks.
 
- **Your Month Pillar (甲申)**
  - 甲 Wood represents education and mentoring.
  - 申 (Monkey) is a **Metal** element—strong Metal controls Wood, making it hard for you to fully embrace teaching.
 
- **Your Current Luck Pillar (丁亥, 28–37)**
  - 丁 Fire can make you feel **burnt out in teaching**.
  - 亥 Water makes you **want change and movement** rather than a stable teaching job.

### **Verdict on Teaching:**
- **Short-term:** You may feel **exhausted and uninspired** in this profession. 
- **Long-term:** Teaching **isn’t the best fit** unless it involves flexibility (e.g., online teaching, curriculum development, education consulting).

---

### **2. Is Hong Kong Still a Good Place for You?**
- **Hong Kong is Metal + Water dominant**, which means:
  - **Metal strengthens your Water (壬)** → Makes you feel **overwhelmed and restless**.
  - **Too much Water can make you feel directionless.**
 
- **Current Luck Pillar (丁亥)** 
  - 丁 Fire **clashes with Water**, which makes you **want to leave Hong Kong**.
  - 亥 (Water) makes you **crave a new environment**.
 
🌟 **Verdict:** It’s natural that you **feel disconnected from Hong Kong**—this city’s energy is too intense for your current emotional state.

---

### **3. Will Thailand Be a Good Move?**
#### **Career in Thailand:**
- **Teaching Jobs in Thailand?** 
  - **Yes, but low pay compared to Hong Kong.** 
  - Thailand has **many English teaching opportunities**, but the income may not be satisfying. 
  - If **you transition to international schools or education consulting, it would be better.**

- **Other Job Opportunities?** 
  - **Tourism, marketing, wellness (yoga, coaching, therapy)** are **better for your chart** than traditional teaching.
  - Business, finance, or corporate jobs may not suit Thailand’s **Fire + Earth energy**.

🌟 **Verdict:** 
- **Thailand is okay for teaching but not ideal for long-term financial growth.** 
- **Better if you do online teaching, business, or education consulting.** 
- **Consider Thailand for lifestyle but not career advancement.**

---

### **4. If Not Thailand, Where Else?**
Your Bazi favors places with:
✅ **Metal** → For stability & wealth 
✅ **Earth** → To ground your emotions 
✅ **Balanced Water** → To prevent feeling lost 

#### **Best Alternative Cities for You:**
1️⃣ **Singapore 🇸🇬** 
   - **Metal + Earth + Water balance.** 
   - **Higher salary for teachers** than in Thailand. 
   - Strong **finance & education** industries.
   - **Verdict:** **Best alternative to Hong Kong.** 
   
2️⃣ **Canada 🇨🇦 (Vancouver, Toronto)** 
   - **Good Earth (Stability), Water (Flow), and Metal (Career).** 
   - Teaching salaries are **better** than Thailand but **lower than HK/Singapore**. 
   - **More career flexibility** (education consulting, writing, coaching). 
   - **Verdict:** **Good for career change & work-life balance.** 
   
3️⃣ **Taiwan 🇹🇼 (Taipei)** 
   - **Water + Earth mix** (better emotional balance). 
   - **High demand for teachers** + **good work-life balance**. 
   - **Verdict:** **Good for stability but lower income.** 

---

### **Final Verdict: Where Should You Go?**
✅ **Best for Career Growth:** **Singapore** 
✅ **Best for Lifestyle & Stability:** **Canada** 
✅ **Best for Teaching & Low-Stress Life:** **Taiwan** 
✅ **Best for Short-Term Change & Travel:** **Thailand** 

Would you like career suggestions based on each location? 😊

Offline Izzychg

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #11 on: February 07, 2025, 03:53:13 PM »
I’m actually doing freelance private tutoring and teaching at a kindergarten. But thinking of quitting the kindergarten position this summer. Would this be better for me? 

According to the reading, I do have the potential to be a yoga teacher? Because I do yoga every now and then but not sure if I could make any further progress.

About moving aboard, is it better to do so in 2026?


Online smsek

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #12 on: February 08, 2025, 01:23:03 AM »
### **1. Should You Quit the Kindergarten Job This Summer?**
Your current Luck Pillar (28–37: **丁亥**) is already making you feel **disconnected from traditional teaching**. Here’s why quitting might be the right move:

#### **Pros of Quitting:**
✅ **丁 Fire clashes with your 壬 Water (Day Master)** → This makes you feel **burnt out and emotionally drained** in your teaching role. 
✅ **亥 (Water) encourages independence** → This makes freelance tutoring **more aligned with your current energy** than working in a structured school setting. 
✅ **Your Bazi favors flexibility** → Teaching in a **rigid environment** (like a kindergarten) isn’t the best long-term match.

#### **Cons of Quitting:**
⚠ **If you quit without a clear plan**, there may be **temporary financial instability**. 
⚠ **Freelance tutoring may not be enough unless you expand into online coaching, consulting, or other flexible education roles.** 

🌟 **Verdict:** 
**Yes, quitting the kindergarten job in summer would be beneficial,** but make sure to have a backup plan like **expanding private tutoring, online teaching, or transitioning into a new career path (e.g., wellness, education consulting).**

---

### **2. Do You Have Potential to Be a Yoga Teacher?**
Yoga teaching requires **Fire + Earth**:
- **Fire** (Passion, Movement, Teaching) → **You have 丁 Fire in your Luck Pillar**, which gives **temporary interest in yoga**.
- **Earth** (Grounding, Stability, Healing) → **Your chart lacks strong Earth**, which means **yoga might not be a natural long-term career path**.

#### **Can You Make Progress?**
- **Yes, as a hobby or side career, but not full-time.**
- Your **current Fire Luck Pillar (丁亥)** makes yoga feel appealing now, but **this phase will pass**.
- If you **combine yoga with other wellness coaching (meditation, health coaching, or therapy), it may work better.**

🌟 **Verdict:** 
**Yoga teaching could be a side passion or a part-time role**, but it’s **not your ultimate career path unless you combine it with other fields like coaching or therapy**.

---

### **3. Is 2026 a Good Year to Move Abroad?**
**2026 (丙午 Year) Analysis:**
- **丙 Fire clashes with your 壬 Water (Day Master)** → Emotional pressure & transformation. 
- **午 (Horse) is already in your chart** → **午午 self-clash** → This can create **instability, frustration, and emotional struggles**. 
- **Not an ideal year for a stable move.** 

#### **Better Years to Move:**
- **2025 (乙巳 Year)** → **Good for career but not emotional stability.** 
- **2027 (丁未 Year)** → **Better grounding energy for relocation.** 
- **2028 (戊申 Year)** → **Stronger career opportunities + a fresh start.** 

🌟 **Verdict:** 
🚨 **2026 is not the best year to move due to 午午 self-clash.** 
✅ **2027 or 2028 would be better** for long-term stability. 

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### **Final Summary:**
- **Quitting kindergarten this summer?** ✅ **Yes, if you have a clear backup plan.**
- **Yoga teaching?** 🤔 **Possible as a side career, but not ideal full-time.**
- **Best year to move abroad?** 🚨 **Not 2026! Wait until 2027–2028 for stability.**

Would you like career recommendations for after quitting kindergarten? 😊

Offline ren

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #13 on: February 08, 2025, 03:38:10 AM »
Hey Izzychg, All,

If the hour is 11:25 pm - 23:25... Then I believe the hour pillar is Ren Zi.

Thanks

Online smsek

Re: Asking for relationship struggles and future
« Reply #14 on: February 08, 2025, 04:01:24 AM »
Hey Izzychg, All,

If the hour is 11:25 pm - 23:25... Then I believe the hour pillar is Ren Zi.

Thanks
===》@ren===>thks for pointing out my mistake: Her revise bazi chart should be :
八字:                        大運(虛歲)  
     時    日    月    年    7 →  17 乙酉
     柱    柱    柱    柱   17 →  27 丙戌
     :    :    :    :  ★27 →  37 丁亥
     劫         傷    食   37 →  47 戊子
     財         官    神   47 →  57 己丑
     壬    癸    甲    乙   57 →  66 庚寅
     子    未    申    亥   66 →  76 辛卯
      癸  乙丁己  戊壬庚   甲壬  76 →  86 壬辰
      比  食偏七  正劫正   傷劫  86 →  97 癸巳
      肩  神財殺  官財印   官財