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Thank you @smsek , yes, I’m curious to know the following:
✨ My marriage timing
✨ When I will meet my spouse
✨ Will my spouse likely be older or younger? Will there be a significant age difference?
✨ My future spouse’s personality
✨ Whether I should buy property and when
✨ How my retirement looks
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# 💍 **1. Marriage Timing**
Your Bazi shows **late marriage luck**, with marriage coming when your “Spouse Star” (官杀) becomes stable and not overly hot.
Right now you’re in **辛卯大运 (31–41)**:
* 卯 = Wood (your *Spouse star* is Fire, not Wood)
* 卯 clashes your natal 戌 → emotionally unstable, difficult to settle
* This decade increases movement, change, and restlessness → not marriage energy
### 📌 **Marriage is NOT ideal before age 41**
You *can* date and meet people, but marriage tends to be:
* unstable
* full of changes
* not the long-term partner you settle with
### ⭐ **Strong marriage timing: 41–55 years old**
You enter **庚寅大运 (41–51)** and then **己丑大运 (51–60)**:
**庚寅** brings:
* Metal (庚) → supports your chart
* 寅 → links to your Fire frame in a *controlled, stable way*
This period brings **a reliable, career-stable man into your life**.
**己丑** brings:
* Strong Earth → produces Metal (your element)
* Very good for home, stability, property, and marriage
This is the period where marriage life feels peaceful, settled, stable.
### 🟣 **Most likely marriage year range:**
**42–48 years old**
with top years: **2029, 2030, 2033, 2034, 2036**
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# 💗 **2. When You Will Meet Your Spouse**
Meeting happens **before marriage**—usually 1–3 years earlier.
### 🟣 Most likely meeting period:
**Age 38–44**, especially:
* **2026**
* **2027**
* **2029**
* **2030**
* **2033**
You may meet him:
* through career
* through a stable organization
* or someone introduced through colleagues / work networks
**Your spouse is not someone chaotic, creative, or unstable.**
He appears only when your career becomes steady again.
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# 🎂 **3. Will he be older or younger? Significant age gap?**
This is unusually clear in your chart:
### ✔ Your spouse star is 七杀 (aggressive, disciplined, structured)
This star **almost always shows an older spouse** for women.
### ⭐ **Your spouse will most likely be older by 5–12+ years.**
Or:
* He may look older
* Or have “older, mature energy”
* Or be emotionally/financially more established
It is **not** a close-age marriage.
This is consistent with your late marriage luck.
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# 👤 **4. Your Future Spouse’s Personality**
Your 七杀 spouse star shows the following traits:
### ✔ Mature
✔ Disciplined
✔ Protective
✔ Structured
✔ Hard-working
✔ Responsible
✔ Likes order
✔ Not dramatic
✔ More introverted
✔ Not romantic, but loyal
✔ Financially stable
✔ Possibly works in government, law, engineering, finance, security, compliance, or technical roles
He is not flashy.
He is not impulsive.
He is a quiet “pillar” type man.
### ⭐ He stabilizes your life.
Your chart greatly benefits from this type of spouse.
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# 🏡 **5. Should You Buy Property? And When?**
Yes — your chart is **strong for real estate**, but only during your Earth-supporting cycles.
You should **not** buy in:
* your 20s
* early 30s
* before career stabilizes
* when your Fire cycle is too hot
You should buy **after age 40**, ideally in:
### ⭐ **2029–2036** (best property cycle of your life)
Why these years?
* Strong Earth luck
* Earth produces Metal (your Daymaster)
* Favourable long-term wealth accumulation
* Stable income + stable spouse energy
* Favorable real estate stars
You will be able to own:
* A primary home
* Possibly one rental property later (not early)
You retain property wealth very well.
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# 🧓 **6. How Your Retirement Looks**
Excellent.
Your chart shows:
* 印星 strong = institutional support
* 官杀 stable = pension / benefits
* 財 not leaking = savings
* Earth luck later in life = property security
* Late marriage = financially strong spouse
Your retirement is:
### ⭐ Safe
### ⭐ Stable
### ⭐ Comfortable
### ⭐ Supported
### ⭐ Not dependent on children
### ⭐ Includes long-term benefits (government retirement system)
### ⭐ Possibly includes property income
From age **55 onward**, your chart shows:
* reduced stress
* steady income
* good health cycles
* peaceful lifestyle
* more travel in later years
Your best luck is actually **after age 50**, which is very positive for retirement.
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# 🌟 **Summary for You**
### 💍 Marriage:
**42–48**, late but stable.
### ❤️ Meet spouse:
**38–44**, especially 2026–2030.
### 👤 Spouse:
Older (5–12+ years), stable, structured, responsible.
### 🏡 Property:
Buy between **2029–2036** for maximum benefit.
### 💰 Retirement:
Comfortable, secure, and financially stable.
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If she wants, I can also analyze:
✨ Children / family luck
✨ Best places to live
✨ Whether she should stay in her home state
✨ Her health cycles
✨ Best industries for long-term career
✨ Feng shui directions for activating marriage luck
Just let me know!