People Say My Kid Has Not-So-Good Future

[coldpillow]

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[MangpaiLover]

My daughter was born in January 18, 2012, at 2 am Jakarta time.

Someone told me that:
- she won't get along with her husband
- she's advised NOT to have kids as her kids will be 'defected or lacking'
-she'll have to work hard only to earn little.

Of course, no parents would be happy to know that their kids will suffer like this. But we can't change our destiny either.
Anyone can give some insight about her future?
Thank you so much in advance🙏

Chasing more money for this chart is not desirable, it will lead to more issues for her.
hence, better to focus on other aspects of life. Water as wealth birth more wood bring stress to owners.

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[William]

@coldpillow
Thank you so much for your very valuable advice. Yes, I petsonally have strong fire, and so far she lives well with me as I support her emotionally, physically, & financially.

I hate fighting with her as she can be more fierce & aggressive than me. She hates it when I tell her to manage her money well saying that it's her money & she does whatever she wants with it. I'm looking for softer ways on how to let her trust me manage her finances.

So if she goes out of town to pursue her career later is not a good idea except if I also stay with her?

@MangpaiLover,
Thank you so much for your contribution.
"Chasing more money for this chart is not desirable, it will lead to more issues for her.
hence, better to focus on other aspects of life. Water as wealth birth more wood bring stress to owners."

Could you please give me some examples of "other aspects of life" which are supposed to be more suitable for her?

@ren
Thank you so much for your time & effort to analyse my kid's chart.

Yes, I know nothing about her biological father. Even her biological mother never tells me where he is. But he is in difference province as us, far away from where I live.

It's good to know which path I should take for her own good and the potential possibilities that might have in the future.
Thank you so much 🙏

[ren]

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[William]

@ren
Good morning,
Below are some more information regarding your questions:
- I adopted her also on January 18, 2012, only 2 or 3 hours after she was born. Actually I don't know the mother much. I posted online that I was looking for a baby whom I can adopt & her biological mother contacted me around 12 hrs before she gave birth, saying that she was pregnant & wanted to give her baby. I told her that I was serious and the next early morning I came to the clinic & I met her for the first time.

She was only 21 yrs old, a student, unmarried, & she gave birth in her rented bedroom, alone, and she took the baby to the clinic where I met her for the first time.
I then paid for every thing in the clinic, and asked the nurse in charge to replace her name with my name instead in the birth certificate.
Later on the same day she asked me 3 million rupiahs for the baby. I gave her the money happily as she gave me her baby. I didn't ask her much about her boyfriend who impreganted her.
I also asked her to sign a letter that she willingly gave her baby to me, without any force, and she happily signed the letter too.

My daughter asked me once about her dad, but I lied. I told her that she's my biological child, although we look different. I'm fair/light skinned but she is dark skinned. Her friend once asked her is she was adopted from an orpahage.

She is addicted to Roblox, the online games.

Thank you also for the information regarding the career paths suitable for her. I've been thinking of directing her into an accounting or finance/money related business.

She's very good in drawing, do you think she'll be good in art related job such as architecture or any art related job?

Thank you so much again in advance. Your opinion is highly appreciated🙏

[coldpillow]

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[William]

Dear @coldpillow,

Thank you so very much for letting me know this valuable information🙏👍.

As it means that she needs metal to kill/reduce the wood within her, does it mean that it's better that she pursues career with metal element, such as finance (such as accounting), banking, law, military?

What about earth element, as earth also produces metal?

Would it be better if she travel/lives far from her hometown to get better luck?

Thank you so very much in advance for your kind effort, energy, and time to look into her chart🙏🙏🙏

[coldpillow]

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[MangpaiLover]

@coldpillow
Thank you so much for your very valuable advice. Yes, I petsonally have strong fire, and so far she lives well with me as I support her emotionally, physically, & financially.

I hate fighting with her as she can be more fierce & aggressive than me. She hates it when I tell her to manage her money well saying that it's her money & she does whatever she wants with it. I'm looking for softer ways on how to let her trust me manage her finances.

So if she goes out of town to pursue her career later is not a good idea except if I also stay with her?

@MangpaiLover,
Thank you so much for your contribution.
"Chasing more money for this chart is not desirable, it will lead to more issues for her.
hence, better to focus on other aspects of life. Water as wealth birth more wood bring stress to owners."

Could you please give me some examples of "other aspects of life" which are supposed to be more suitable for her?

@ren
Thank you so much for your time & effort to analyse my kid's chart.

Yes, I know nothing about her biological father. Even her biological mother never tells me where he is. But he is in difference province as us, far away from where I live.

It's good to know which path I should take for her own good and the potential possibilities that might have in the future.
Thank you so much 🙏

Other aspects of life could be health. For career wise, Join work related to Non Profit Organisation.

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