Help understanding my bazi and current luck pillar

[Ellie28]

Hello. I'd like to understand if there's anything in my chart that indicates I will have a hard time getting married or at least finding someone. Most guys will end up treating me as a very good friend but that is all. My direct officer is in my current luck pillar but I don't know if I have anything clashing. Any advice or interpretation of my chart is highly appreciated.

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April 15, 1995 1:48 a.m. GMT -7

[ren]

Hi Ellie28,

May I ask a few questions...
What type of work do you do? What is your profession?
Has it been the last two or three years that relationships have not been advancing well?
Was last year kinda frustrating?

Thanks,

ren

[Ellie28]

Hi ren,

I've been managing a restaurant for 3 years, but I majored in Industrial psychology (Human resources). The last time I went on a date was 6 years ago. But yeah I've been frustrated with work and relationships for the past 3 years. Seems like I'm stuck and not progressing anywhere. I was hoping this luck pillar would bring more chances.

[ren]

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[Ellie28]

Hi ren,

I've made a few male friends but that is all. It never develops into a meaningful relationship. When I do spend time with them it's mostly with a group of people. Even if we do things together alone like going out to eat, it's always like friends.

Last year my family introduced me to a family friend's son about my age but again it didn't develop into anything. He was too shy, and me being the same didn't help 😅. Other than that it's been the same. No new guys or any development from any male friends.

Thanks,

Ellie28

[ren]

Hi Ellie28,

What town / country were you born?

Thanks

ren

[Ellie28]

Hi ren,

I was born in Los Angeles, California, USA.

[ren]

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[Ellie28]

Hi ren,

Thank you so much for replying and helping me understand my chart. I really appreciate it.

I just have one question and that's the entombed spouse palace. What does that necessarily mean?

I've read around and am still unsure. I've read that it could mean I jinx my spouse or that they'll be sickly/ have a short life. I wouldn't like to bring that upon anyone.

Thank you,

Ellie28

[ren]

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[Ellie28]

Hi ren,

Thank you for explaining why my spouse star is entombed and breaking it down for me. I feel like I have a better understanding of my bazi than I did before. I also understand now why my job has felt stagnant recently. So I discovered something new.

As for divination I'm new to it so I don't know much. Would I go to the other forum and just ask about my relationship situation?

Thanks again for all your help. I really appreciate it.

Ellie28

[ren]

Hi Ellie28,

The divination process is used to obtain more clarity about a situation, so you can make better decisions and choices.

There are some issues within your bazi chart that you will need to work through.
By seeking clarity about your current relationship climate, you may gain some insights that you can apply, to help you navigate better.

I generally work best from a hexagram that you can cast. You formulate a short, concise query question and then cast a hexagram using any manner you chose.
And when I say short and concise, I mean a query question that is not open-ended and ambiguous. It should be a question that is relevant to your current situation and concerns.

The divination section on this forum or uncle google can help you with casting a hexagram.

Ren

[JLim (Darma W)]

Hi ellie, as pointed out clearly by ren above, the entombing is the problem with your difficulties in getting a spouse.  The question is: will the entombing always be there?  Fortunately, not always! 

Let me explain.  You will meet Wei in your Luck Pillars.  And it will come around pretty soon, some time in the second half of LP Gui Wei.  It's because Wei and Zi (your Spouse Palace and Star) have a harm interaction.  You may wonder "What, isn't a harm harmful?"   

Not in this case! Sometimes a harm interaction, despite its name, can work to your advantage.  In this case, Wei harms to move Zi, and prevent it from going into Tomb.  You don't need to worry, Ellie