Career and love life reading for 2026

[minx88]

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[smsek]

It is completely understandable that you feel burnt out. Resigning from a toxic environment is a move of self-preservation, but when a pattern of "difficult bosses" repeats, it naturally leaves you questioning your own energy or "luck."

Looking at your Bazi (Four Pillars of Destiny) and the charts provided, there are very clear astrological reasons for this pattern, as well as some significant shifts happening in 2026.

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## 1. Why the Repeating Pattern? (The "Boss" Conflict)

Your Day Master is **Bing (Yang Fire)**. You were born in the month of **Wei (Goat)**, which is the end of summer.

* **The "Hurting Officer" vs. "Direct Officer" Clash:** Your chart is very heavy in **Earth** (Chou, Wei, Chen). In Bazi, Earth is your "Output" star. Specifically, your chart has a strong **Hurting Officer (HO)** structure.
* **The Conflict:** The "Direct Officer" (the star representing bosses/authority) is **Water**. In the Five Elements cycle, **Earth overcomes Water**.
* **The Result:** Even if you have no intention of being "threatening," your natural energy is one of high competence, critical thinking, and a "problem-solver" mindset. Insecure bosses often sense this "Hurting Officer" energy as a challenge to their authority. You likely see the flaws in their systems or logic quite clearly, and even if you don't say it, it radiates.
* **The 2020?2025 Window:** You were at the end of the **Ji Chou** (Earth Ox) Luck Pillar. This was "Double Earth," which massively amplified the clash against your authority stars. This is why the pattern felt so relentless recently.

## 2. Career & Finance Prospects for 2026

You have just entered a brand-new 10-year Luck Pillar: **Wu Zi (Earth Rat)**.

* **The Shift:** This is a major turning point. The **Zi (Rat)** is Water?your **Direct Officer** star. This means authority and career structure are coming back into your life in a more grounded way.
* **2026 (Bing Wu - Fire Horse):** This year brings very strong Fire. Since you are a Fire Day Master, this represents "Peers" or "Rob Wealth."
* **The Good:** You will find your "spark" again. Your confidence will return, and you'll have the energy to push through the job hunt.
* **The Challenge:** 2026 (Wu/Horse) clashes with your new Luck Pillar (Zi/Rat). This suggests a **"clash of the new."** You will likely secure a role, but the transition might feel fast or slightly chaotic.
* **The Advice:** Because 2026 is a "Peer" year, your best path to a new job is through **referrals and ex-colleagues**. Since you mentioned your colleagues valued you, lean on them now. They are your "Lucky Stars" this year.



## 3. Love Life & Relationships

Your "Spouse Star" is Water. In your previous 10-year cycle, Water was being "attacked" by all that Earth.

* **The Outlook:** In this new **Wu Zi** pillar (started 2025/2026), the **Zi (Rat)** is your husband star. This decade is significantly more favorable for marriage and long-term partnership than the last one.
* **2026 Specifically:** The Horse (Year) clashing with the Rat (Luck Pillar) can actually "trigger" a meeting. Clashes aren't always bad; they represent **movement**. For a single person, a clash to the spouse star often means a sudden, unexpected encounter. Don't be surprised if you meet someone through your new career transition.

## 4. The Qi Men Dun Jia "Year Stars"

Regarding your question about the **Qi Men Dun Jia (QMDJ)** chart:

The chart you've provided appears to be your **Destiny (Life) Chart**, which is a snapshot of the energies present at your birth.

* **Why you don't see "Year Stars":** In QMDJ, "Year Stars" (like the Sun, Moon, or Annual Shen Sha) are usually part of an **Annual Forecast Chart**, not the fixed Destiny Chart.
* **Your 2026 position:** In QMDJ, 2026 is the **Bing Wu** year. Since your Day Master is also **Bing**, you are "riding the Year Stem." This puts you in the spotlight.
* Looking at your **Life Palace (Xun/Southeast)**, you have the **Open Door** (Career) and the **Heart Star** (Intellect/Medicine). This confirms that you are naturally built for professional environments (Open Door), but you need a "healing" or "intellectual" space to thrive.

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### Summary & Next Step

The "toxic boss" cycle is largely a product of a specific 10-year Earth cycle that is now ending. You are moving into a Water cycle (Zi), which brings more stability to your career, though 2026 will feel "busy" and high-energy due to the Fire.

**Would you like me to look at the specific months in 2026 that are most favorable for you to sign a new employment contract?**

[minx88]

Hi @smsek,

Thank you so much for your reply and the detailed analysis. I'm really glad to hear that this year looks to be more stable for me.

About my Day Master, I noticed a slight discrepancy. I previously plotted my chart using the Joey Yap calculator, which identified my Day Master as Yin Wood (Yi). Could you please help me clarify if it is actually Yang Fire (Bing) instead? I want to make sure I'm following your insights correctly.

Would you like me to look at the specific months in 2026 that are most favorable for you to sign a new employment contract?

That would be wonderful. I'd love to know which months in 2026 would be the most auspicious for signing a new contract.

Thank you again for your time and guidance! 

[coldpillow]

What I struggle to understand is why this pattern keeps repeating. I've never had any intention of competing with or threatening my managers, especially in 2025. I simply wanted to do my work well and earn an honest living. Yet somehow, I've often felt singled out or pushed aside. I'm really tired to the point I feel like giving up, however I have no choice but to push through as I am still single, hence no safety net and have family depending on me and bills to pay. I would like to understand what might be behind the repeating pattern.

According to ZWDS, you do have a problem in career sector: https://destinyandluck.com/zhi_wei_chart.php?month=7&day=25&year=1985&time=5%3A00pm+to+6%3A59pm&sex=Female&submit=Submit

Taiyang and Jumen are related to fame/recognition, but they don't like to see Dikong and Tuoluo, which indicate resentment, gossip, lack/loss of something.

The situation in your career sector is also consistent with the stars in your wealth/happiness sector. Because your wealth sector doesn't have a major/minor star, it will get influenced by the opposite sector (happiness). Bright Tiantong + Taiyin are good to have, but when paired with Huoxing + Huaji, this means conflict/anger issues and hard work.

Metaphysics aside, your problem should be approached from the psychological angle too. If you have some kind of inner conflict, such as doing something you don't like, not being true to your own calling, but you forced to make it work because of money or family pressure, then you would feel as if the world is conspiring against you. Not aligning with you.

The inner voice inside your subconscious mind rejects that path, so it keeps blocking you from moving forward. In reality, you will see a pattern of failures. Lack of reward, difficult competition, money loss, illnesses or bullying. The cycle will never stop until you look inward and listen to the inner voice.

[smsek]

Hi @smsek,

Thank you so much for your reply and the detailed analysis. I'm really glad to hear that this year looks to be more stable for me.

About my Day Master, I noticed a slight discrepancy. I previously plotted my chart using the Joey Yap calculator, which identified my Day Master as Yin Wood (Yi).===>UR DM YI WOOD IS CORRECT NOT BING FIRE Could you please help me clarify if it is actually Yang Fire (Bing) instead? I want to make sure I'm following your insights correctly.

Would you like me to look at the specific months in 2026 that are most favorable for you to sign a new employment contract?

That would be wonderful. I'd love to know which months in 2026 would be the most auspicious for signing a new contract.

Thank you again for your time and guidance! 

[smsek]

Hi @smsek,

Thank you so much for your reply and the detailed analysis. I'm really glad to hear that this year looks to be more stable for me.

About my Day Master, I noticed a slight discrepancy. I previously plotted my chart using the Joey Yap calculator, which identified my Day Master as Yin Wood (Yi). Could you please help me clarify if it is actually Yang Fire (Bing) instead? I want to make sure I'm following your insights correctly.

Would you like me to look at the specific months in 2026 that are most favorable for you to sign a new employment contract?

That would be wonderful. I'd love to know which months in 2026 would be the most auspicious for signing a new contract.

Thank you again for your time and guidance! 

===>In Bazi, the timing of a new role is determined by when the "Power" stars (Water, for you) or "Wealth" stars (Metal) are most active and supported.

Since 2026 is a **Bing Wu (Fire Horse)** year, the energy is very fast-paced and "hot." For a Bing Fire person like yourself, this can feel like a rush of adrenaline, which is great for a job hunt but requires careful timing to avoid another "burnout" role.

Here are your most favorable months in 2026 to sign a contract and start fresh:

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### 1. The "Peak Opportunity" Window: April & May

These two months are your strongest periods for career authority.

* **April (Ren Chen - Dragon Month):** * **Why:** *Ren Water* is your "7 Killings" star, which represents new, sudden, or non-traditional job opportunities. Since you already have *Chen* in your Day Pillar, this month triggers a "movement" in your personal space.
* **Best for:** Finding a role that is different from what you did before?perhaps a slightly different industry or a role with more autonomy.


* **May (Gui Si - Snake Month):** * **Why:** *Gui Water* is your "Direct Officer" star. This is the energy of stable, reputable companies and traditional management.
* **Best for:** Signing a formal, long-term contract. This month provides the "correct" authority energy that you felt was lacking or toxic in the past.



### 2. The "Financial Security" Window: August & September

If you spend the first half of the year resting and being selective, these months focus on the "Metal" element (your Wealth).

* **August (Bing Shen) & September (Ding You):** * **Why:** These months bring strong Metal energy. Since you were born in a *You* (Rooster) year and hour, these months resonate with your "Wealth Palace."
* **Best for:** Negotiating a higher salary or a role with a significant bonus structure.



### 3. The "Stable Foundation" Window: November

* **November (Ji Hai - Pig Month):**
* **Why:** The *Hai* (Pig) is a Water branch that provides a "root" for your career. It also harmonizes with your chart to dampen the "Fire" of 2026, making the environment feel less chaotic.
* **Best for:** A role where you want to stay for many years.



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### Strategic Advice for the "Toxic Boss" Pattern

To break the cycle of "threatened" bosses, use the **Earth** in your chart as a bridge rather than a weapon.

* **The "Metal" Shield:** In your interviews, focus heavily on **tangible results and systems** (Metal). Earth (your talent) produces Metal (value). If you present yourself as a "Value Creator" rather than just a "Problem Solver," bosses feel you are an asset to their own success rather than a threat to their position.
* **Avoid June (Jia Wu):** This is a "Double Horse" month. It clashes with your Luck Pillar and creates "Self-Punishment" energy. Avoid making major life decisions or signing contracts between **June 6 and July 6, 2026**, as the environment is likely to be high-stress and competitive.

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### Summary Table: 2026 Career Timing

| Period | Energy | Recommendation |
| --- | --- | --- |
| **April 5 ? May 4** | New/Dynamic Career Star | Best for "The Big Pivot" |
| **May 5 ? June 5** | Stable Authority Star | **Best for signing a formal contract** |
| **Aug 7 ? Oct 7** | Wealth & Recognition | Best for high-salary negotiations |
| **June 6 ? July 6** | High Stress/Clash | **Rest month; avoid major commitments** |

**Would you like me to use your Qi Men Dun Jia chart to see which direction (North, South, etc.) you should look for your next office to find a more supportive manager?**

[minx88]

What I struggle to understand is why this pattern keeps repeating. I've never had any intention of competing with or threatening my managers, especially in 2025. I simply wanted to do my work well and earn an honest living. Yet somehow, I've often felt singled out or pushed aside. I'm really tired to the point I feel like giving up, however I have no choice but to push through as I am still single, hence no safety net and have family depending on me and bills to pay. I would like to understand what might be behind the repeating pattern.

According to ZWDS, you do have a problem in career sector: https://destinyandluck.com/zhi_wei_chart.php?month=7&day=25&year=1985&time=5%3A00pm+to+6%3A59pm&sex=Female&submit=Submit

Taiyang and Jumen are related to fame/recognition, but they don't like to see Dikong and Tuoluo, which indicate resentment, gossip, lack/loss of something.

The situation in your career sector is also consistent with the stars in your wealth/happiness sector. Because your wealth sector doesn't have a major/minor star, it will get influenced by the opposite sector (happiness). Bright Tiantong + Taiyin are good to have, but when paired with Huoxing + Huaji, this means conflict/anger issues and hard work.

Metaphysics aside, your problem should be approached from the psychological angle too. If you have some kind of inner conflict, such as doing something you don't like, not being true to your own calling, but you forced to make it work because of money or family pressure, then you would feel as if the world is conspiring against you. Not aligning with you.

The inner voice inside your subconscious mind rejects that path, so it keeps blocking you from moving forward. In reality, you will see a pattern of failures. Lack of reward, difficult competition, money loss, illnesses or bullying. The cycle will never stop until you look inward and listen to the inner voice.

Thank you @coldpillow for such a nuanced take. Since my Career house has that Di Kong energy, do you see any specific unconventional paths in my chart that would satisfy my inner voice while minimising the gossip/resentment stars?

I?m also curious, when you look at a chart with these specific 'conflict' stars (Huo Xing/Hua Ji) balanced against the 'recognition' stars (Taiyang/Jumen), do you see a specific type of true calling that the chart is trying to point toward? How do I tell the difference between the subconscious rejecting a path and simply pushing through the hard work required for success?

[minx88]

Hi @smsek,

Thank you so much for your reply and the detailed analysis. I'm really glad to hear that this year looks to be more stable for me.

About my Day Master, I noticed a slight discrepancy. I previously plotted my chart using the Joey Yap calculator, which identified my Day Master as Yin Wood (Yi). Could you please help me clarify if it is actually Yang Fire (Bing) instead? I want to make sure I'm following your insights correctly.

Would you like me to look at the specific months in 2026 that are most favorable for you to sign a new employment contract?

That would be wonderful. I'd love to know which months in 2026 would be the most auspicious for signing a new contract.

Thank you again for your time and guidance! 

===>In Bazi, the timing of a new role is determined by when the "Power" stars (Water, for you) or "Wealth" stars (Metal) are most active and supported.

Since 2026 is a **Bing Wu (Fire Horse)** year, the energy is very fast-paced and "hot." For a Bing Fire person like yourself, this can feel like a rush of adrenaline, which is great for a job hunt but requires careful timing to avoid another "burnout" role.

Here are your most favorable months in 2026 to sign a contract and start fresh:

---

### 1. The "Peak Opportunity" Window: April & May

These two months are your strongest periods for career authority.

* **April (Ren Chen - Dragon Month):** * **Why:** *Ren Water* is your "7 Killings" star, which represents new, sudden, or non-traditional job opportunities. Since you already have *Chen* in your Day Pillar, this month triggers a "movement" in your personal space.
* **Best for:** Finding a role that is different from what you did before?perhaps a slightly different industry or a role with more autonomy.


* **May (Gui Si - Snake Month):** * **Why:** *Gui Water* is your "Direct Officer" star. This is the energy of stable, reputable companies and traditional management.
* **Best for:** Signing a formal, long-term contract. This month provides the "correct" authority energy that you felt was lacking or toxic in the past.



### 2. The "Financial Security" Window: August & September

If you spend the first half of the year resting and being selective, these months focus on the "Metal" element (your Wealth).

* **August (Bing Shen) & September (Ding You):** * **Why:** These months bring strong Metal energy. Since you were born in a *You* (Rooster) year and hour, these months resonate with your "Wealth Palace."
* **Best for:** Negotiating a higher salary or a role with a significant bonus structure.



### 3. The "Stable Foundation" Window: November

* **November (Ji Hai - Pig Month):**
* **Why:** The *Hai* (Pig) is a Water branch that provides a "root" for your career. It also harmonizes with your chart to dampen the "Fire" of 2026, making the environment feel less chaotic.
* **Best for:** A role where you want to stay for many years.



---

### Strategic Advice for the "Toxic Boss" Pattern

To break the cycle of "threatened" bosses, use the **Earth** in your chart as a bridge rather than a weapon.

* **The "Metal" Shield:** In your interviews, focus heavily on **tangible results and systems** (Metal). Earth (your talent) produces Metal (value). If you present yourself as a "Value Creator" rather than just a "Problem Solver," bosses feel you are an asset to their own success rather than a threat to their position.
* **Avoid June (Jia Wu):** This is a "Double Horse" month. It clashes with your Luck Pillar and creates "Self-Punishment" energy. Avoid making major life decisions or signing contracts between **June 6 and July 6, 2026**, as the environment is likely to be high-stress and competitive.

---

### Summary Table: 2026 Career Timing

| Period | Energy | Recommendation |
| --- | --- | --- |
| **April 5 ? May 4** | New/Dynamic Career Star | Best for "The Big Pivot" |
| **May 5 ? June 5** | Stable Authority Star | **Best for signing a formal contract** |
| **Aug 7 ? Oct 7** | Wealth & Recognition | Best for high-salary negotiations |
| **June 6 ? July 6** | High Stress/Clash | **Rest month; avoid major commitments** |

**Would you like me to use your Qi Men Dun Jia chart to see which direction (North, South, etc.) you should look for your next office to find a more supportive manager?**

I really appreciate your insights, @smsek. I have a quick question about my Day Master, since we confirmed I am Yi Wood, the analysis still points to me as a Bing Fire person, does it still hold true for my chart? I'd love to understand how those elements interact with my Yi Wood day master. Thank you again.

[coldpillow]

  How do I tell the difference between the subconscious rejecting a path.

You notice a pattern of failure/disappointment and you seem to invite enemies/bullies like a magnet. Simply pushing for hard work doesn't lead to that.

You may try using ChatGPT to help you pinpoint the root cause. Once you see the dark side of your psyche clearly, all the hidden flaws, the pattern will break and you will gradually feel more aligned than conflicted in life. 

As per ZWDS, I suspect that safety and stability isn't suitable for you. You should try another path that is more dynamic/unstable but the reward is bigger.

Aside from instability and changes, your career should involve a lot of movement/traveling, interacting with foreigners overseas, moving away from your parents/hometown.

[minx88]

  How do I tell the difference between the subconscious rejecting a path.

You notice a pattern of failure/disappointment and you seem to invite enemies/bullies like a magnet. Simply pushing for hard work doesn't lead to that.

You may try using ChatGPT to help you pinpoint the root cause. Once you see the dark side of your psyche clearly, all the hidden flaws, the pattern will break and you will gradually feel more aligned than conflicted in life. 

As per ZWDS, I suspect that safety and stability isn't suitable for you. You should try another path that is more dynamic/unstable but the reward is bigger.

Aside from instability and changes, your career should involve a lot of movement/traveling, interacting with foreigners overseas, moving away from your parents/hometown.

@coldpillow

Interestingly I don't live in my home country, I have been living in Australia and live here in the past 20 years or so. So the bully bosses happened while I have been away from my hometown/parents for quite some time. Does that mean Australia is not the right place for me to be? Or perhaps I should just move from working in corporate and be a consultant instead?

[smsek]

I really appreciate your insights, @smsek. I have a quick question about my Day Master, since we confirmed I am Yi Wood, the analysis still points to me as a Bing Fire person, does it still hold true for my chart? I'd love to understand how those elements interact with my Yi Wood day master. Thank you again.===>My apologies for the oversight. You are absolutely correct: your **Day Master is Yi (Yin Wood)**, sitting on **Chou (Earth Ox)**. This changes the elemental dynamic significantly, though the core issue with authority remains anchored in the same celestial conflict.

Here is the revised analysis based on your **Yi Wood** chart.

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### 1. Why the Pattern Repeits: "Hurting the Officer"

For a **Yi Wood** person, **Metal** (Geng/Xin) represents your Boss/Authority.

* **The Hidden "Xin" Metal:** You have **Xin (Yin Metal)** hidden in your Rooster (Hour), Ox (Day), and Ox (Year) branches. This means authority is always present in your life, but it is "buried" or under pressure.
* **The Current Luck Pillar (Ding Hai 2020?2030):** You are currently in the **Ding Hai (Fire Pig)** luck cycle. **Ding Fire** is your "Eating God" star?the element that represents your thoughts, talents, and output.
* **The Conflict:** Fire melts Metal. When your "output" (Fire) becomes too strong, it unconsciously "attacks" the "Officer" (Metal/Boss).
* **The Toxic Cycle:** Even if you are just trying to do your work well, your high standards (Yi Wood's precision) and the Fire energy of the last few years make you appear "unmanageable" or "too sharp" to insecure bosses. You likely see exactly where they are failing, and even your silence can feel like a judgment to them.

### 2. Career & Finances in 2026 (Bing Wu Year)

2026 is the year of **Bing Wu (Yang Fire Horse)**.

* **The "Hurting Officer" Year:** For Yi Wood, **Bing Fire** is your **Hurting Officer (HO)** star. This is the classic signature for "resigning from a job" or "changing careers" because you can no longer tolerate the environment.
* **Confidence vs. Burnout:** While 2025/2026 has knocked your confidence, the **Bing Wu** energy is actually quite "bright." It will help you rediscover your voice. However, because Fire is so strong this year, the risk of "clashing" with a new boss remains high if the company culture isn't right.
* **The Financial Safety Net:** You have a "Wealth-Heavy" chart (three Earth branches: Chou, Wei, Chou). This means you are capable of earning well, but you often feel the "weight" of responsibility for others. In 2026, the Fire will produce more Earth (Wealth), suggesting that while the role transition is stressful, the **income potential is there**.

### 3. Love Life & Meeting a Partner

For a Yi Wood female, your partner is represented by **Metal**.

* **2026 Outlook:** Because 2026 is a massive Fire year, it "burns" the Metal element. This makes finding a *stable* partner slightly more challenging this year, as the "Hurting Officer" energy often makes you more critical of potential suitors.
* **The Timing:** Your best chance for a meaningful connection is in the **Autumn months (August/September)**, when the Metal element is naturally strongest and can withstand the Fire of 2026.

### 4. Qi Men Dun Jia & Year Stars

In the Qi Men chart provided, your **Life Palace** is in the **Xun (Southeast)**.

* **The Year Stars:** You are correct that they aren't explicitly labeled as "Year Stars" in this specific layout. However, in 2026 (**Bing Wu**), the **Bing** stem is "The Moon" (Great Yin). It is a noble star that provides hidden assistance.
* **The "Hidden" Stars:** Since you don't see them on your chart, look at the **Open Door** (Career) in your Southeast Palace. It is paired with the **Heart Star**. This combination means you are suited for leadership or professional roles, but you must find an environment that values *intellect* over *ego*.

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### Summary & Strategy

The pattern is not your fault; it is a clash between your high-quality output (Fire) and the existing structures (Metal).

**Your Best Months to Start a New Role:**

* **April (Ren Chen):** Water comes in to "cool" the Fire, allowing you to negotiate a contract without the "toxic" friction.
* **August (Bing Shen):** The "Shen" (Monkey) brings strong Metal energy, which can help ground your career.

**Would you like me to use the Qi Men Dun Jia chart to identify which direction (e.g., North, Northwest) you should look for a new job to find a boss who is more supportive?**

[coldpillow]

Or perhaps I should just move from working in corporate and be a consultant instead?

Australia is fine, try working on your own as a consultant this time.

[coldpillow]

 

I'm also curious, when you look at a chart with these specific 'conflict' stars (Huo Xing/Hua Ji) balanced against the 'recognition' stars (Taiyang/Jumen), do you see a specific type of true calling that the chart is trying to point toward?

Jumen star loves talking. When good, it means agreement and profit from verbal use. When bad, it means gossip, heated debates, personal attack. If Taiyang is involved, it means serious reputational damage.

Career sector is located in the corner (Tiger), which indicate movements, changes and lots of competitions.

Taiyang + Jumen likes attention. Typically good for sales, speech, presentation, public relations. But for interpersonal relationship, they're considered a bad couple unless supported by good minor stars.

Bad stars will lead to conflict and reputational damage. But I think Tuoluo is worse than Dikong in this case. Tuoluo means resentment, internalized anger, long-term internal pain. Dikong means void/emptiness.

When together, Dikong may actually lessen the negative impact caused by Tuoluo. For example, you would rather losing that job than suffering further damages. When you lose the job, you will find it again even if it means starting over.

Hence you should aim for short-term, temp jobs IMO.