What do you think @coldpillow? It seems that everything points to rat hour so far...
Thanks for clarification.
And yes, rat hour is definitely your real birth hour. I can see clearly all your problems above on Wu Shen (12-21) decade luck.
But honestly, current decade luck (Ji You) looks like a good decade overall. At least, you're not in a downward spiral situation like what happened before.
During the past several years if you actually know me well...
Yes, I can see your family still meddling with your career in 2026. There are 6 transformation stars gathering near your lifetime property sector, decade parents sector and year career sector (Geng Xu):
https://destinyandluck.com/luck_chart.php?month=7&day=29&year=2002&time=12am+to+12%3A59am&sex=Male&luck_year=2026&submit=SubmitWhile Quan, Lu, Ke are not considered as bad stars, a "busy" sector doesn't look good either.
We can see 3 more stars gathering in year parents sector (Ding Wei) opposite decade career sector. In total, there are 9 transformation stars influencing your luck with parents and career.
Meanwhile, year destiny sector contains Tiantong and Hua Lu. You can read what it means here:
https://zwdsastrology.blogspot.com/2011/11/tian-tong-in-ming.htmlIt seems to suggest that you're not actually tired. You just want to rest and relax, not caring about stuff.