Care to read my bazi ?

[Vvdj]

I was born at 16 February 1992, longitude : 106
Depok city, Indonesia GMT 7 - Female
I was bullied when I was 13-14 years old. I feel like my love fortune not really to me.
I think, I have hidden talent but I always afraid and sometime don't get any idea on what should I learn.
I'd like to know my wealth and love because it seems like I have so many 7K in my chart but not even DO.
my parent really worry if I will married late and I'm so worry if I couldn't meet the best partner because I'm quite stubborn and like to debate. I'm not a 'yes woman' and I don't like people underestimate me.
If you guys care enough to read my bazi, please don't hesitate to leave a comment

[PdStelle]

Hi, Vvdj,

Welcome to FiveArts.org! 

What time were you born?

[Vvdj]

sorry I was forgot to add this..  it's 2:45AM

I more thing, even though I feel Im not luck in love but in life I feel sparkle luck around me for example
Everytime heavy raining, it's happened always when Im inside a car and when I arrived, the rain just stopped.
sometime whenever I almost crushed by a car, I never got injury. I feel blessed for little things like that but not in love because I felt broken many times

[NewMan]

Ding fire in hidden stem. I think you longing for someone who has lots of positive energy and maybe a bit on the spiriture side.                                                                                                     

[NewMan]

3ren in HS. I think you like travel alot and dont like to be told what you can't do. Freedom to speak your  mind and do what ever you love is your life goal. For husband i think will be someone from far away land.                                                                                                                           

[Vvdj]

@NewMan hiii, I'm currently get close with a man 21 May 1991
sorry I don't ask him the time born yet. I saw he can be my noble man and vice versa, however I saw his clash in his spouse chart and it's same as my chart, I have YW and YE on my day master. I'm just worry if I should marry late should be better than marry twice,
need some advice !

[NewMan]

Is he a bit skinny short height not more than 174m?                                                                                           

[Vvdj]

@NewMan I think he's around 175 not skinny, but looks fit in shape.
how it's related I wonder ? can you explain both condition ?
thanks!

[NewMan]

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[Vvdj]

as long I know him this few month, he's quite a discipline guy. He work so hard and never sleep til late, don;t mind to cleaning their room like every week because he live apart to his parent house.
I don't know if he had injuries last year. is it important and I should find it out ?
wood resulting fire and fire became earth is it really a bad luck?

[NewMan]

A good chart should be year mth supporting or strengthening the day pillar. In this chart it seem the opposite. Xin might be a bit controlling toward his spouse. Maybe some manpai can comment on this. Your chart doesn't seem to match well on his chart. Wonder why u are attracted to him.                                       

[JLim (Darma W)]

Welcome Vvdj to the forum!

I'm just passing by and wonder if any member would be so kind as to post her Bazi chart, so that members can get a glimpse easily. 

I'm reading NewMan's analysis with interest, and may join in the next few days when I have more time.

[Vvdj]

@NewMan: don't you think I need someone who controls myself?
my chart has so many yang waters and thought I need someone control and direct me to a be a big thing.
I found his chart has a lot's Yin while I got Yang, assume if we're compatible.

well, my niece introduces me to this guy, she said he is a kind-hearted guy. By the time knowing him, he seems positive guy, cheerful, hardworking and responsible. He might not show his flaw yet because we're 'new'.
I couldn't ask too much as I'm afraid if I'm too picky I would get even the worst one. that's why I'm interested in him.

my E.B chart is Earth -> wood -> metal (Earth helps Metal, hindered by Wood.)
Earth also hindered by wood.  does it mean my chart also bad because so many element hindered my DM ?
looking forward for your enlightenment.

[Vvdj]

@JLim I'm so pleased to know you will also join with us. really appreciate it <3

[NewMan]

Here is her chart and her would be male friend chart to compare.