Love life reading

[reddish8]

Hi, I'm curious about my love life. My bazi chart contains only one DO sitting on HO and RW in hour pillar.

In my teenage years I watched my previously-dilligent female friends got lousier as they start flirting the boys so I stayed away from love life so as not to harm my academics. But I struggled to graduate uni and to find stable job. Now that I secured one, my surroundings is giving me pressure to get married ASAP, as I'm "running out of time" and I'm the eldest child. The idea of marriage still scarry to me though, I've had bad impression on my temperamental father since childhood.

Female
August 5th 1991
05:02 am GMT+7
Kisaran 99.6158

[Chat time]

Hi Reddish, how come nobody reply your post? First of all, do you want to get attached? Your message make me feel that you doesn't want to get involved in relationship. Reminds me of girls staying home all day long watching korean drama and dream of meeting the knight of her life to appear. You have to want it to happen first. Actually I'm quite surprise you didn't meet someone during 2014.

Anyway sorry to say that seem like these 2 years will be kind of quiet for your love life. Don't worry, after 31 you will see him appearing in your life and if you allowed that to happen, you might be married by 2023.

1st step, welcome it first. The only way to prevent bad luck effectively is to behave ourselves and stay away from trouble right? So to receive good luck we must also position ourselves correctly.

Good luck!

[reddish8]

Hi Reddish, how come nobody reply your post? First of all, do you want to get attached? Your message make me feel that you doesn't want to get involved in relationship. Reminds me of girls staying home all day long watching korean drama and dream of meeting the knight of her life to appear. You have to want it to happen first. Actually I'm quite surprise you didn't meet someone during 2014.

Aaah thank you for becoming the first one to reply to my post, Chat time! I kind of gave up a few weeks ago, especially as I read somewhere that this forum has been inactive since 2009-ish.

You got me there, although not Korean drama, I indeed love staying indoor, preferring social RPG on smartphone and online communities to meeting up new people outside;;
I was struggling with academics in 2014 so I never thought of getting in relationship back then.

I did reunited with high school crush in 2015 though, we had dinner in which he confessed he just broke up with his long time girl friend. As online game is how we got to know each other, I tried to open discussion on it, to which he coldly replied he's long moved on from activities that caused people label him nerdy/childish. He then changed topic to marriage and other "things adult would achieve" but somehow it turned me off.

Thank you for beginning your reply by questioning do I want to get attached and giving advice on positioning myself.
Makes sense. I cherish my friends greatly, although not many, we're long time friends and I feel lucky to have people to share with for life. I think I do want attachment but the idea of getting married (traditionally, in which husband is "superior to/control" wife, dunno elsewhere but still very much true here) kinda scary, especially since my mother ended up with that temperamental father of mine. So I thought maybe checking my bazi chart first to see if my character suited for marriage will help. I read somewhere that DO sitting on HO plus RW not far away either doesn't bore well to the husband, if it's so, perhaps I'm better off not getting married for life? Do you have second opinion on such chart?

Thank you for foretelling chances of meeting significant other in the future, I'll keep my radar active hee hee

[JLim (Darma W)]

Hi reddish8, here is your Bazi chart.  Note that you were born at Yin Tiger hour, not Mao Rabbi hour.




bazi-calculator.com

About marriage: Ren as true Spouse Star is located in the Hour.  You need to wait until LP Ji Hai that starts in 2022 for marriage to occur.  Because this is when the Spouse Star and Spouse Palace arrive.

[Chat time]

Yup as JLim mentioned, hour is Ren Yin instead of Gui Mao. This is also why we know it might be quiet these 2 years as your Wu LP is "blanketing" your DO in hour pillar. Next LP is Ji Hai and your DO star reappear in 2022 with root on LP Hai.

2023 Gui Mao. LP EG meet 7k and Mao half combine all your Wei EB. Big changes in your life. Of course you will ask... good or bad? From what I see is good.

[Chat time]

Aaah thank you for becoming the first one to reply to my post, Chat time! I kind of gave up a few weeks ago, especially as I read somewhere that this forum has been inactive since 2009-ish

Errrm... actually I also kind of feel that it's too quiet here. Let uncle tell you some history. Actually fivearts.ORG is the original forum and it was fun! I remembered I was still a supervisor in a japanese construction firm. Until meek or JLim/suanmingbazi (I don't know who owns the forum) forgot to renew the server lease or domain address. The unicorn in fivearts.NET revived the forum contacting to many members for old articles. Years later JLim re-opened .ORG (this forum) but many members didn't pod over here.  Actually most that came back still maintained active at .NET so it doesn't matter where you post. I'm here and I'm also there... LOLz.

The only down point I see in .NET is the karma points system. Suddenly you see people grabbing articles from the net and share it in the forum. Some will translate articles and others became religious monks. Whatever people post they will advice in a religion karmic views thus gaining karma points. I have nothing against religions but what does that have to do with metaphysics? After sometime it seems that people with higher karma points carry more weights in their post and not the accuracy of predictions.

Anyway, this section is for free reading and others for learning and debates, so let's keep it that way.

[reddish8]

About marriage: Ren as true Spouse Star is located in the Hour.  You need to wait until LP Ji Hai that starts in 2022 for marriage to occur.  Because this is when the Spouse Star and Spouse Palace arrive.

Thank you for taking your time to respond to my thread! Sure, I'm basing the DO on HO stuff on the chart from the same web!
(marked here) I read on other online article that this is considered bad news on the husband part, I wonder if anyone here has second opinion on that?

By the way "spouse palace arriving" is news to me...gotta read more on that as I only knew it refers to the earth branch in day pillar.

Errrm... actually I also kind of feel that it's too quiet here. Let uncle tell you some history. Actually fivearts.ORG is the original forum and it was fun! I remembered I was still a supervisor in a japanese construction firm. Until meek or JLim/suanmingbazi (I don't know who owns the forum) forgot to renew the server lease or domain address. The unicorn in fivearts.NET revived the forum contacting to many members for old articles. Years later JLim re-opened .ORG (this forum) but many members didn't pod over here.  Actually most that came back still maintained active at .NET so it doesn't matter where you post. I'm here and I'm also there... LOLz.

The only down point I see in .NET is the karma points system. Suddenly you see people grabbing articles from the net and share it in the forum. Some will translate articles and others became religious monks. Whatever people post they will advice in a religion karmic views thus gaining karma points. I have nothing against religions but what does that have to do with metaphysics? After sometime it seems that people with higher karma points carry more weights in their post and not the accuracy of predictions.

Anyway, this section is for free reading and others for learning and debates, so let's keep it that way.

Thank you for filling me in on the history
Maybe changing the system name from "karma" would bring good karma instead?

[JLim (Darma W)]

Reddish8, you said your DO sits on HO with RW.  Actually Yin Tiger is Resource (or Seal, as I call it). There is no Rob Wealth that you need to be concerned about, not the Bing inside Yin Tiger.

[reddish8]

Thank you for adding a bit more detail, JLim!

So, basically I do not have to worry about Wu (HO) and Bing (RW) inside the tiger huh...
I'm kinda relieved now

[JLim (Darma W)]

It's a misconception in Bazi that Rob Wealth is something that robs your wealth.  It's not always the case, and depends on the Bazi structure.  For my own chart, Rob Wealth in the Stems is something that's actually very helpful for my wealth.

[Chat time]

It's a misconception in Bazi that Rob Wealth is something that robs your wealth.  It's not always the case, and depends on the Bazi structure.  For my own chart, Rob Wealth in the Stems is something that's actually very helpful for my wealth.

It's very fair in bazi... your rob wealth is also afraid of DO. Of course if you also had HO is your stem too, then you have a very good bazi.

[reddish8]

It's very fair in bazi... your rob wealth is also afraid of DO. Of course if you also had HO is your stem too, then you have a very good bazi.

Thank you uncle. Not so much worried about RW than HO initially. I know some people with heavy RW in their charts and they're mostly amazing